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4 Problems Submissives Face and How to Cope

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I’m Afraid of Rejection

Everyone has been afraid of rejection at one point or another, it can feel even worse when you are looking for a kinky partner. You might feel weird or abnormal but you aren’t. Pre 50 Shades of Grey, 36% of Americans were into some form of BDSM. Considering the huge jump of inquiries I have gotten after the release of every 50 Shades movie and how many people use it as short hand, I imagine that number is higher now. For scope, ever so slightly more than 1 in every 3 people were kinky in 2005. Worldwide it was 1 in 5.

So if you’re weird, so is a large portion of the population. We just aren’t talking about it.

Source: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/americans-are-more-bdsm-rest-world-180949703/

My Partner Isn’t Interested

The most difficult thing I personally think is finding someone whose interests match yours. This has nothing to do with anything being wrong with you or your partner, it just means you like different things. The real issue is that many people find it so difficult to talk about that it stews. You wouldn’t have a major issue over your partner not liking the same food or movies as you though, you would find a compromise. For some this means exploring together and service play (service topping) and for others it can mean opening up relationships. In both cases, it’s important to have clear negotiation and an open dialogue throughout.

I Can’t Say What I Want

Communication in all contexts is critical. Especially when it comes to play. At a certain point, you just have to bite the bullet and try to have a discussion Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Playing Went Wrong

I’m Afraid of Rejection

Everyone has been afraid of rejection at one point or another, it can feel even worse when you are looking for a kinky partner. You might feel weird or abnormal but you aren’t. Pre 50 Shades of Grey, 36% of Americans were into some form of BDSM. Considering the huge jump of inquiries I have gotten after the release of every 50 Shades movie and how many people use it as short hand, I imagine that number is higher now. For scope, ever so slightly more than 1 in every 3 people were kinky in 2005. Worldwide it was 1 in 5.

So if you’re weird, so is a large portion of the population. We just aren’t talking about it.

Source: https://www.smithsonianmag.com/smart-news/americans-are-more-bdsm-rest-world-180949703/

My Partner Isn’t Interested

The most difficult thing I personally think is finding someone whose interests match yours. This has nothing to do with anything being wrong with you or your partner, it just means you like different things. The real issue is that many people find it so difficult to talk about that it stews. You wouldn’t have a major issue over your partner not liking the same food or movies as you though, you would find a compromise. For some this means exploring together and service play (service topping) and for others it can mean opening up relationships. In both cases, it’s important to have clear negotiation and an open dialogue throughout.

I Can’t Say What I Want

Communication in all contexts is critical. Especially when it comes to play. At a certain point, you just have to bite the bullet and try to have a discussion Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Playing Went Wrong

Preach to the choir, we have all had something go wrong at some point. That is how you learn and the beauty of doing it with someone who is compassionate s that you ideally should be able to learn together. At least, that has largely been my experience. Sometimes it takes some time to find the right way to phrase things, communicate your needs or even find the right people but if you’re patient and diligent, you will find what you’re looking for.

All About Corsets! for Sissies, Feminization, and Crossdressing

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Corset training can be an excellent part of any feminization routine or a wonderful set of sissy tasks. If you want to make your body more feminine, it’s a great way to do it without any big changes, so it’s a great option for a man, sissy or casual player to explore. They can range from cheap to very pricey depending on your needs, budget and how fancy you want to be. That being said, you can often get what you need for your closet without breaking the bank.

I’m going to answer some basic questions that you may have about how to fit a corset, this is part one about picking a corset. I’m briefly touching on several other topics I’m going to cover later such as body types, corset styles and fabrics. If you would like an individual consultation about sizing any type of clothing or shoes or selecting make up based on your skin, please feel free to contact me. Moving along..

How do I measure for a corset?

You need to measure your natural waist size in order to size a corset. You can measure your natural waist size one inch above your belly button.

Once measured, always choose a corset 2-4 inches smaller than your natural waist to achieve the ‘hourglass’ effect. The amount you “size down” is how tight the corset will close and depending on your shape and the shape of the corset you should size accordingly. Always read size guides.

Some fashion corsets may not come with traditional sizing, in which case I would refer to my previous sizing guide.

Where is my waist?

Your waist is the smallest part of your abdomen. Usually one inch above your belly button but it varies on some people. Take a fabric tape measure and pull it somewhat right around your waist, where does it gather to? (When measuring don’t cinch tightly, hold the tape loosely.) This also gives you information about your body shape. However, that is for a different post.

Can I use corsets designed for female bodies?

Yes! But they all fit differently. There is a simple over bust and under bust as far as length but there are also long line (for long torso which come in both under and over,) cinchers, waspies and corset belts. All in descending order of coverage.

You also want to pay attention to how much curve a corset has. Most “real” corsets have some kind of metal boning in them but fashion corsets which have the least support use plastic and are the most forgiving. A real corset will have corded laces or strings of some sort (like a shoe lace,) not generally ribbon or zippers as they will break easily with repeated lacing/zipping

Tight lacing cotton corset
Product: Cotton Tight lacing Corset from Mystic City Corsets
A tight lacing or hourglass corset is more on extreme end and is usually not for beginners but is incredible for creating a perfect curve. Tight lacing is the technique used to create a well defined hourglass figure.

Another thing to think about is the type of fabric used. Is it mesh, leather, satin, cotton, brocade? They all wear, sit, fit and stretch differently.

For example, a mesh corset will breath more which is better for wearing under clothes but it is less usable for tighter lacing (waist reduction) and will break down faster. Alternatively, you could wear it over your clothes for an alternative look.
Mesh Waspie Corset
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A satin corset looks prettier on the outside (and would make a great sissy corset) but may get lots of runs in the fabric or stain easily depending on the color. Satin, cotton and brocade tend to be fairly default when it comes to corsets. PVC, leather and latex are more speciality fabrics.

Satin underbust corset
Product: Satin underbust corset from Orchard Corset

Will wearing a corset change the shape of my body?

Over time repeated and consistent wear of a corset can change your shape but such pursuits should be undertaken with caution. If you only wear a corset occasionally, your body will return back to its original shape once you remove your corset. If you desire to change your waist size through corset training, it requires dedication

References:
https://www.orchardcorset.com/pages/corset-sizing
https://www.rebelsmarket.com/blog/posts/types-of-corsets-how-to-wear-them
https://www.leaf.tv/9749781/does-your-body-go-back-to-normal-when-you-take-off-a-corset/

Clip: Blondes Have More Fun with Corporal Punishment

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Mistress Ruby invites Mistress Skylar over for some R&R and after some discussion it is discovered that Mistress Skylar had a bad weekend. She needs to get out some frustrations. Luckily, Mistress Ruby has just the boy in mind, along with the right set of implements to help Mistress Skylar relax and get her mind off her troubles. Poor Blue did not know what he was in for with these two lovely blonde Dominas and their arsenal of wicked wares.

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Endza’s Bound & Forced Orgasms

Ruby and Endza are in a dungeon. Ruby is tall, blonde, pale and wearing a corset. Endza is petite, slender, has long brown curly hair, and looks quite innocent. Ruby is getting out a Hitachi. Poor Endza is bound helplessly to a chaise while Ruby prepares the Hitachi to inflict devious torment. Endza looks on, not quite sure what to expect. Ruby takes a handful of Endza’s hair, yanking her head back suddenly and shoves the vibrator between her legs. As she does this, Ruby’s skirt rides up, exposing her large, supple ass. Endza gasps with delight and surprise, then pleasure. Ruby places her hand around Endza’s throat, pressing her back against the wall, and squeezes, which solicits more gasps from Endza. As the vibrations continue, Endza begins to shudder and tremble with delight. But before she can go further, she asks permission from Ruby. Again and again and again. Fully spent, she thanks her Mistress for allowing her such pleasures.

Endza: A Girl Bound for Trouble

Endza’s been a naughty girl and it’s time to get her ready for some punishment. That means she needs to be bound so she can’t escape, of course! The curvy and luscious Mistress Ruby runs her tight hemp rope cordage over Endza’s skin, tightly binding her to the chaise lounge. All the while, their banter keeps Endza at ease and relaxed, so she doesn’t worry about what’s about to come.

Mistress Ruby makes sure that her ropework is effective and encompassing, leaving Endza with little route for escape. “I sometimes feel very adamant that I can break out of bondage.” Says Endza “ Right now I’m playing the “how would I escape” game and it would take me a while.” With that, Mistress Ruby is satisfied. On to more torment.

Five Sissy Slut Tasks

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I hope you have all your accessories handy, my good little slut to be! I have a task for you! It’s going to be good so you better be ready.
Remember that video from before? The shopping list? Go get the list and make sure you have everything. I’ll wait.
First task: put on bra and panties like the good little slutty sissy that you are
Wear them under your clothes to work.
If anyone sees them, they’ll know you’re a little sissy for me, won’t they?
Second: Put your butt plug in and go to a strip club.
Buy a lap dance and tell her what you’re into
Have her humiliate you, like I do to you.
You’re going to have a great time being treated like trash by a stripper.
Third: put on makeup, lingerie, wig
Fourth: Take pictures and post on craigslist
Last: Offer blowjobs for me.
If you really have balls, are a real sissy for me, you will meet someone from craigslist and suck their cock for me.
You just had to be convinced that you are a little cocksucking sissy.
Are you going to puss out?
I bet you are jerking off to the idea of doing all of them.

Manners with Your Mistress


“Have you been good this week?” Says the Mistress to her Slave “Yes Mistress” he murmurs, desperate to please her. She is dismissive of his begging and replies “I’ve been so generous lately, haven’t I?” She’s allowed him to have pleasure, more so than normal. He is always kept under her control, each of his orgasms but one a week he must beg for.

Such a lucky boy he is, his cock was used as a toy for a sissy earlier that week. “You even got that blowjob, that you couldn’t come from.” She laughs at him and jabs at him with her heel, teasing him with what’s between her legs. “You’re insatiable and whiny.” He always wants more play, more orgasms than he is allowed. Most of the time she is kind. Not today.

“I see that look on your face.” She has a devious smile starting to curl at the corners of her mouth, he is in for some trouble tonight. “Is it hard for you to control your cock?” Oh no. What is she planning now? “I like owning cocks.” She states, commanding him to present himself. “Did you get hard for me?” She smiles wickedly. “You’re lucky I don’t make you wear a chastity device all the time.”

Such a naughty boy he is, always begging for orgasms, maybe she’ll take them away this time or maybe he’ll be punished… “You’re lucky your cock doesn’t get you into more trouble.” she says, remembering his previous escapades before she owned him. “Chastity devices are for naughty boys, aren’t they?”

“You like being a naughty boy, don’t you?” As if daring him to disobey her she asks
“I don’t think you’re going to like this kind of naughty…”
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Learn Your Place, Slave


You’ve been excited for this, haven’t you?
It’s been a while since you’ve had a good face slapping, hasn’t it?
(fingers in mouth)… (toes in mouth)… (heel in mouth)
Good boy.
Is that rough in your mouth?
(spits in his mouth)
(him sucking your fingers)…
If you’re good, maybe I’ll stick my cock in you later and stretch you out.
I like making you hurt for me.
Nothing else matters when you’re hurting for me, does it?
I like watching you endure for me.
Look at how nice I’m being.
(slaps face with gloves on)
Smell that leather.
(steps on cock)
It hurts, doesn’t it?
But you endure for me anyway, don’t you?
Are you gonna cry for me?
I like watching you put yourself through things that are difficult.
It shows me how devoted to me you are.
Even when it’s as simple as being on your knees.
I love seeing your devotion to me.
It’s so easy to see it when you push yourself through pain.
See that? That is true devotion.
Pushing yourself through trials and tribulations. That matters more than just about anything.

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Trampling Clip: Sharp As Nails Part 2

“You may have a future as a shoe salesman after all, that’s far more comfortable!” Mistress Ruby says with a smirk, looking down at the victim beneath her. What a pity, he is writhing in pain under her lethal stilettos. She shrugs, he knew what he was in for when he became her slave. She presses the iconic red sole against his mouth and purrs “Very good,” the words roll off her crimson lips like water downhill “I like the weight of my heel on your face.”

Gracefully and with purpose she lifts her other heel off his chest and momentarily balances on one foot then puts both heels over his mouth. “Your weight is divine.” groans the slave, both in ecstasy and sheer agony. “I know.” coos his Mistress in reply. She knows just how to stroke his buttons, to give him just enough to want more but not too much that he can’t handle it. It’s a perfect balancing act, just like the act they are currently in with her heels digging into his flesh.

Will the slave be hold out or will he fail?
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