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All About Corsets! for Sissies, Feminization, and Crossdressing

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Corset training can be an excellent part of any feminization routine or a wonderful set of sissy tasks. If you want to make your body more feminine, it’s a great way to do it without any big changes, so it’s a great option for a man, sissy or casual player to explore. They can range from cheap to very pricey depending on your needs, budget and how fancy you want to be. That being said, you can often get what you need for your closet without breaking the bank.

I’m going to answer some basic questions that you may have about how to fit a corset, this is part one about picking a corset. I’m briefly touching on several other topics I’m going to cover later such as body types, corset styles and fabrics. If you would like an individual consultation about sizing any type of clothing or shoes or selecting make up based on your skin, please feel free to contact me. Moving along..

How do I measure for a corset?

You need to measure your natural waist size in order to size a corset. You can measure your natural waist size one inch above your belly button.

Once measured, always choose a corset 2-4 inches smaller than your natural waist to achieve the ‘hourglass’ effect. The amount you “size down” is how tight the corset will close and depending on your shape and the shape of the corset you should size accordingly. Always read size guides.

Some fashion corsets may not come with traditional sizing, in which case I would refer to my previous sizing guide.

Where is my waist?

Your waist is the smallest part of your abdomen. Usually one inch above your belly button but it varies on some people. Take a fabric tape measure and pull it somewhat right around your waist, where does it gather to? (When measuring don’t cinch tightly, hold the tape loosely.) This also gives you information about your body shape. However, that is for a different post.

Can I use corsets designed for female bodies?

Yes! But they all fit differently. There is a simple over bust and under bust as far as length but there are also long line (for long torso which come in both under and over,) cinchers, waspies and corset belts. All in descending order of coverage.

You also want to pay attention to how much curve a corset has. Most “real” corsets have some kind of metal boning in them but fashion corsets which have the least support use plastic and are the most forgiving. A real corset will have corded laces or strings of some sort (like a shoe lace,) not generally ribbon or zippers as they will break easily with repeated lacing/zipping

Tight lacing cotton corset
Product: Cotton Tight lacing Corset from Mystic City Corsets
A tight lacing or hourglass corset is more on extreme end and is usually not for beginners but is incredible for creating a perfect curve. Tight lacing is the technique used to create a well defined hourglass figure.

Another thing to think about is the type of fabric used. Is it mesh, leather, satin, cotton, brocade? They all wear, sit, fit and stretch differently.

For example, a mesh corset will breath more which is better for wearing under clothes but it is less usable for tighter lacing (waist reduction) and will break down faster. Alternatively, you could wear it over your clothes for an alternative look.
Mesh Waspie Corset
Product:

A satin corset looks prettier on the outside (and would make a great sissy corset) but may get lots of runs in the fabric or stain easily depending on the color. Satin, cotton and brocade tend to be fairly default when it comes to corsets. PVC, leather and latex are more speciality fabrics.

Satin underbust corset
Product: Satin underbust corset from Orchard Corset

Will wearing a corset change the shape of my body?

Over time repeated and consistent wear of a corset can change your shape but such pursuits should be undertaken with caution. If you only wear a corset occasionally, your body will return back to its original shape once you remove your corset. If you desire to change your waist size through corset training, it requires dedication

References:
https://www.orchardcorset.com/pages/corset-sizing
https://www.rebelsmarket.com/blog/posts/types-of-corsets-how-to-wear-them
https://www.leaf.tv/9749781/does-your-body-go-back-to-normal-when-you-take-off-a-corset/

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Sizing Women’s Clothes for Sissies, Feminization & Crossdressing

womens clothing sissy size guide

All around the world, women lament the chore of trying to divinate the size of their clothes.

When trying to figure out your size in women’s clothes as a Sissy, for feminization or crossdressing it gets a bit more complicated.

0 here, 12 there, 40 over there. It makes no sense. That’s just crossing countries. Try crossing brands. If I look into my jeans drawer I can find 26, 27, 28, 29, 2, 4, 6, xx small, small, medium and one size fits all. Who could possibly figure out how to order pants when you’re coming from a world of waist by length? I guess what I’m saying here is that no brand is standard in sizing when it comes to women’s clothing and the material and cut makes a huge difference in the fit. You never really know how something will fit until you have it on but usually size guides for sites will lend some help.

The trick comes in several parts.

This is an important tool you’ll need, however.

Know your measurements
However you’re planning on dressing, you better take your bust, waist and hip. The bust is the biggest part of your chest, waist is the smallest, hip is the biggest part of your hips/butt.

For bonus points, measure your neck, around your thigh, your bicep, the width of your shoulders, the length of your arm and the length of your leg. Now you can get fitted for anything!

Read size charts
Seriously. If the site you’re ordering from doesn’t have one, try to google one for the brand. It will save you a lot of time.

Understand fabrics
The stretchier the fabric the more give it has and the more you can fudge measurements. So look at materials and Google that if you are unsure, same with reviews. Common stretchy fabric names are lycra, elastane and spandex.

Now you are all set to order some clothes! If you need some one on one consulting, feel free to contact me and I would be happy to help you.

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Sissy Slut Shopping List

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls the Ultimate Femdom rules the world from her beautiful seattle dungeon, no slave can resist a tempting seattle mistress like Ruby Enraylls

Hello, my little sissy in training. Today, we’re starting with a little shopping trip for some new toys!
If you’re going to be a good little sissy for me, that means you’ll be sucking cocks.
That means, you need something to practice on and work your little mouth out! So for your first outing, you are to go to a sex toy store and pick up a nice dildo for you to practice sucking on.

Next. you’re going to get nice and dolled up for me and that means shopping for slutty clothes! Get a wig to make you look all nice & pretty for me. Then get a pair of stockings, as well. Don’t forget to get a pair of slutty panties, or a bunch from Victoria’s Secret.

I want you to wear them regularly under your normal clothes to remind you how much of a pussy you are for me. Get a bra or a bustier – some little slutty thing to wear with the rest of your outfit.
No clashing colors! Make sure they match! Get a pair of heels. You’ll be needing them if you’re going to suck cock for me.

Now it’s time for your face. Go to either Sephora or a drug store.
Obviously I don’t shop at a drugstore because you can’t look this good shopping at a drugstore.
For makeup, you will go in person and buy:
Because I want you to suck cock for me and no one wants a nasty man sucking cock.
First, a primer
Then a foundation to cover up all your stubble so you don’t look like a man.
Then a setting powder
Then eyeshadow and an eyeshadow primer
Maybe a concealer.
Lipstick.
Mascara.
You’re just a baby, so you don’t need false eyelashes yet.
Eyeliner.
Then I will teach you how to put it all on. Your first few attempts will be pitiful because you’re just transitioning into being a slut for me, aren’t you?
I’ll teach you how to suck cocks, too.
Soon you’ll be my little daughter slut, won’t you?

Purchase this Sissy clip here.

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Hypno-Sissy Training Clip: Succubus Sissy Mind Control

Good little boy, Watch the shiny. It’s time for you to be transformed for me, your GODDESS. The longer you stay in this dream, the harder it will be for you to resist my suggestions. You know that, deep down you want to be here, don’t fight it. There is no point. You’ve had fantasies about being a sissy. You’ve had fantasies about sucking cocks.

When you wake up, you’re going to go out and do something you never thought you’d be capable of. The longer you stay here, the harder it will be to resist the fantasy of putting on frilly panties and opening your mouth for a big cock. You want to be that and more, for your GODDESS. You want that, don’t you? Good slut. What a good slut you’ll be. You’ve long fantasized about it.
The pendulum is your reality. Keep watching, that’s very good.

You’ll pull other men’s pants down… with vigor. Wet, slurping, sucking, anticipating.. You want to be humiliated in front of a woman, don’t you? You want us to ignore your existence. You got sucked in by a demon who has powers you didn’t know were real. All that matters is the sound of my voice and the pendulum.

Think about how long you’ve longed to be a sissy. Everything has to be acted out eventually. How much longer can you hold out and wait to act this dream out?
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