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Top 5 Questions Everyone asks a Dominatrix

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls in her seattle dungeon with a Slave

Have you ever wondered what your Dominatrix’ favorite bdsm activity is? Or how you can be a better a slave? Perhaps the following can point you in the right direction. Below are my 5 most frequently asked questions and my answers. You might find the questions and their answers a bit surprising. Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls has the answers to your questions and some tips.

What is your favorite thing to do in a session?

It depends on my connection with the person I’m playing with. Having overlapping interests is important. I’m big on bondage, predicaments and power exchange. I really enjoy mind fucks and getting to be creative. I often tend to get really into a theme for a while. A bit ago it was medical then ADBL, chastity roleplay scenarios, prisoner stuff… it’s always something and my specific interests seem to rotate and shift. I enjoy curating an experience for someone.. The more creative the better. I like longer scenes so I can build up ideas and get to know someone, knowing someone over a longer period of time helps with this as well. Nothing can beat intimate knowledge of the inner workings of someone.

What got you into BDSM and the Femdom lifestyle?

Like many of the people I talk to, I have been kinky for as long as I can remember. If you’ve read my about me, I talk about being kinky when I was pretty young, when it was literally just a game. I don’t see anything wrong with that, although many people I’ve spoken to want to find the reason they are into bdsm. This implies to me that it is something to be fixed when I don’t think that’s true. That’s like saying any preference is inherently wrong. It’s my belief that a homogeneous world is pretty dull, among other things.

But I digress. I’ve always had an interest in Bdsm and the very first adult images I found were femdom related. So it seems normal that I would trend that direction, especially considering that I was raised in a female dominant environment.

Are other people into my fetish?

The shortest answer is yes. I’ve played with many, many people and I can tell you with complete confidence that even if someone hasn’t engaged in your particular fetish, there’s definitely an interest. We live in a kinky world. The biggest barrier to entry is unfortunately, shame.

What do you find attractive in a submissive/slave?

The evil variation of this question is “will you go on a date with me” or worse “can I be your live in slave?” Before asking such questions, consider the one posed above and ask yourself “what do I like most about me?” Personally what I like most about my slaves is that they are considerate, kind and respectful. Every person I notice has a willingness to consider the needs and desires of others and makes an effort to do so. It’s often small things that make the biggest impressions.

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls is dressed in black latex with her latex slave in her Seattle BDSM Dungeon where she takes requests for Femdom and mistress sessions

What can I do to have the best session with my Domina?

Communicate! Clearly, honestly and respectfully. Sending a long fantasy and play by play isn’t particularly helpful to be completely honest. Writing out a list of yes’s and no’s, hard and soft limits and any specific things you want to try is a great way to start. I prefer to communicate such things at the beginning of the session unless there is something you think I won’t have or something that will need to be prepped for or negotiated. As we get to know each other more, I find that sometimes planning gets a bit more elaborate and more communication before we meet up is necessary or desired.

Erotic Hypnosis Brainwashing Mantra

You can’t resist me, you never could. Now you have no choice. Give me what I want. I’ll make it easy by putting you under my spell. Good boy. Now repeat after me “I am a weak minded, useless man who needs the direction and guidance of women to shape me. Thank you, Mistress Ruby for giving me purpose. I will give you whatever you want to make you happy, my purpose for living. My goddess, my Mistress, my Queen. Whatever you say goes, I will do whatever you say.” Very good, now be good for your word. You wouldn’t want to not be a man of your word would you?

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Clip: Seduced Coercion Intox Drinking Game

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It’s saturday night and you’re bored, I’m bored too. I have a fun game to play, are you ready for a challenge? Good, just look into my venomous eyes and have a little gaze. It makes you feel intoxicated doesn’t it? Good. That’s just the beginning. Now things are going to get fun. Let’s get some booze in the mix and I’ll put my little spell on you. Just sit tight and watch the spiral… ….. …. …. … … .. .. .. .. Oh? Did you fall asleep? I must have done something to you. Don’t worry, I’m not all that evil. I’m just going to manipulate you into getting drunk for me! Then the real fun will begin! Hahaha! You won’t be able to resist me at all if you’re drunk, will you?

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Clip: Coerced Blackmail Fantasy – Now You’re My Bitch

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Oops, did you mean to do that? I don’t think so. I just put you under and forced you to please me and do give me whatever information I see fit. Hahah! Now you have to do whatever I say! Using my deliciously sweet pussy I’m going to tease you into giving me control over EVERYTHING and there’s NOTHING you can do. I’m going to shake my perfect bubble butt right in your face too and make you completely helpless to resist my hypno powers! What ever will you do when I have complete control over your life? NOTHING. Deal with it, loser.

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Clip: Your Ex Left You Because of Findom

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You thought you were a man? That’s funny. You can only get hard to chicks humiliating you. You’re not even a boy. You’re some kind of worm or fungus maybe. That’s why I left you. You could never get hard. You’re pathetic and it’s time you admit it, you’re addicted to findom and I’m going to prove it to you. I’m going to use my hypnotic powers to force you to see your fate- A pathetic masturbating weakling addicted to abuse, under the heel of cruel women for the rest of your life with no escape. Always being left by normal women because you’re not good enough for us! So suck it!

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Clip: Cash Mind Control – Quit Findom – Give Me Control

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Listen up loser, this is a hypnotic lesson in how to quit findom. You need help. Your addiction is ruling you and it’s time to stop letting bratty little findoms have control. You need a real woman to help wipe your mind clean of all that bullshit and let you start fresh. Sit back, relax and let Mistress Ruby help you. You’re too weak to do it alone. Just watch me and fall under my spell, you’re already halfway there, aren’t you? Give me control, good boy. Just relax and give in. You know you are weak, you can’t resist. You need help. I am trustworthy, let me control everything and save you from yourself. For a nominal fee.

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Clip: Blondes Have More Fun with Corporal Punishment

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Mistress Ruby invites Mistress Skylar over for some R&R and after some discussion it is discovered that Mistress Skylar had a bad weekend. She needs to get out some frustrations. Luckily, Mistress Ruby has just the boy in mind, along with the right set of implements to help Mistress Skylar relax and get her mind off her troubles. Poor Blue did not know what he was in for with these two lovely blonde Dominas and their arsenal of wicked wares.

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Chastity Mind Control – Quit Masturbation 1

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You are the weaker gender of the species, it’s time to admit it. Your cock is what makes you weak and women are what drive you to create and also destroy yourself- Sucks to be you. HAH! Fortunately, I hold the keys to your freedom and also your demise; Chastity. I am going to lock away your desires with the snap of my fingers and force you to be my little cuckolded bitch, just like you deserve. You can’t resist me and you might as well just give in to my erotic magic before you hurt yourself trying too hard to control yourself. We both know it won’t work anyways. I own your cock and you, now I own your mind too.

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Clip: Exploit- Mind Control Males Into Servitude

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You want to please your Mistress, don’t you? I know you do. You’re always so desperate to do just exactly as I say. Relax, pay close attention and you’ll make me very happy. That makes you happy too, doesn’t it? Watch the spiral, closely. Good. Let your eyes focus in on it and let the sound of my voice drown out any other distractions. You’ll find that whatever makes me happy, makes you happy too. You’ll find yourself slowly going into a trance as you watch me. The longer you watch, the harder it is to resist. Isn’t it? Now, I want you to pay close attention to what I say and understand that I only want what’s best for you, isn’t that right? Good boy. Isn’t that wonderful that I know what’s best for you. Good boy.. Now deep sleep…

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Clip: Beg To Be My Toilet

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Well, well, well! My little slave.. The time has come for the ultimate test and I’m going to make you beg for the absolute honor for it. Can you guess what it is? Yes, you guessed it. I’m going to squat down over your face and turn you into my toilet. You are going to consume everything that comes out of my beautiful body and you are going to love every second of it. Isn’t that right? Your life is going to be transformed and you are just going to be chained to the floor of my bathroom so I can use your mouth whenever I need it! Every morning, whenever.. Even when I have parties, you’ll still be my toilet. You’ll just have to fill up on the waste from all my guests. I better not hear a single complaint from you either!

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