Year: 2014

Praise: Outstanding BDSM

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

I’ve always been interested in the world of kink and wondered how I might fit into the BDSM equation. It’s not my main cup of tea, but I thought I’d like to do some exploring of sexual territory, and Ruby seemed like a perfect guide.

She has spent a lot of time making her space look like a vintage gentleman’s private club.

I was immediately taken with her looks and her poise. She is beautiful, sexy and powerful – and she was wearing a latex dress! Hot!

I wasn’t sure what to do or expect, so she led me over to a comfortable spot for lounging and we proceeded to chat and then make out passionately. She is a fantastic kisser and we engaged in some heavy fondling before she finally ushered me into her inner chamber.

The inner space was furnished with a massage table and a gasp inducing array of equipment and bondage gear. I was turned on and terrified. She clamped a thick leather collar around my neck when I wasn’t looking which only heightened my feelings of arousal. Restraints were applied quickly and efficiently which allowed me some movement but not freedom. I always thought being tied up would be frustrating to me, but it was exhilarating to have something to struggle and writhe against.

The rest of the time was spent with her working me into a state of frothy sexual excitement, with pauses and changes to let me ride the feeling. She talked and soothed sexily the entire time. Her voice a constant turn on as well as her words. I shared with her my darkest fantasies, and she purred and coaxed me to give her more. I was only happy to.

Thank you Ruby. You are one of a kind.

Happy Holidays!!

The holidays are swiftly approaching, you know what that means? Gifts for all!!
As a special thank you to folks who have seen me 3 times or more, I am offering a special 200/hr rate or double time for sessions during the holidays. (From Thanksgiving until New Years!)

Interested in buying me a gift for the holidays?
Check out my Wishlists or for a more personal touch, one of the items below.

In order of preference:
Erostek ET312B
Nexus 9, 32GB in Black
Cocksucker Hood, Large
Leather Fishtail Skirt, size 14
Leather Pencil Skirt, size 14
Leather Catsuit, size 44 in black
Spandex Catsuit in Black, Medium
Leather Corset, Size 42 in Black
Standing Erector Set Complete
Bondage Cross and Inversion Table, black leather and mahogany wood
I also am in the market for some lovely floggers!

Thank you for reading!!

Praise: Need a Software Upgrade?

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

I’ve been mulling around how to write this review for awhile, and I hope it will do the session justice.

First the mechanics, set up was easy. I had the pleasure of doing a meet and greet a few weeks before the session, a nice dinner and drinks. I didn’t have time to see her that night, but I wish I had. When I was able to get my schedule aligned with hers we finally met up. Leading up to the meeting we texted back and forth which allowed us to get to know each other better and start building a real connection. That genuine connection carried through our session and time together.

Miss Ruby was extremely generous with her time and she was more than true to her FBSM menu. Our time together was far more than any set of menu items, or experiences. In many ways, I don’t have the words to describe the experience, but it transcended far beyond anything I’ve experienced in the hobby. Ruby has a gift with her hands, and in many ways, she can ‘see’ the dysfunction in your body. She has a true gift for body work, and she was able to make corrections to the way my joints and muscles functioned. My joints hurt significantly less than they did before.

Just as she is gifted with her hands, she is also gifted with her mind, sensuality, and empathy. She put me completely at ease (which any of the other ladies I’ve seen can tell you is no small feat). She tapped in to parts of my psyche that I didn’t understand even existed. She helped me see a side of me that I had buried and ignored. The work through our discussions, emotions, and feelings gave me a new perspective on myself.

If you’re looking for a connection, physically, emotionally, and mentally Miss Ruby is the woman for you. Respect her, and treat her right and she will leave you feeling undeniably better than when you met and you will want more.

Praise: Sensual Foot Fetish

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Ruby and I have chatted a little via emails over the last couple of weeks and I have to say that my growing interest in her was due in part to her sense of humor and just her overall take on life. Plus she is a sexy and intelligent woman who owns hundreds of high heel shoes, SOLD! She also has a pretty impressive website, it’s got lots of great pics (the pretzel pose is my fav!) and it also has various services to choose from. I opted for more of a fbst kind of session which was perfect because she’s a very sensual provocateur. She is also a dominatrix and some of her fantasy scenarios are not for the faint at heart! < --> sidebar: Will someone please do the slut training and let me how it goes!

At my request she let me know in advance that she was coming to Portland, so I scheduled days ahead in anticipation of finally meeting her. Boy was it worth it! If you’re a fan of sensual and mutual touch, with a little femdom thrown in, she will curl your effin toes! She made me squirm like no other and enjoyed every minute of it. Her eyes are piecing and her smile is wicked, but her propensity for giving pleasure, whether it be through domination or relaxation, is truly from the heart. For me personally, having someone as gorgeous as her whisper naughty things my in my ear, is one of life’s sweet treats.

..and her kisses, fuggetaboutit!

Praise: Brunch with Ruby

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I was really looking forward to this – Ruby and I had never met, but we had corresponded about shared kinky interests for some time, and this seemed to be a relaxing session format to finally meet in person.

Nerdy and I grabbed some goodies at the market on the way out the door from an overnight we’d just spent together, and headed over to Ruby’s dungeon space.

When we arrived, Ruby and Chayse were both already there, and looking quite lovely, especially at that early hour of the day (well, OK, it was noon, but that’s early for me, and I suspect many of the rest of the folks there…).

We plopped down on some comfie pillows, and had an actual brunch while we all chatted about kink, life, the universe, and whatnot. They mocked me a bit for drinking about a gallon of water and fruit juice, but I had a sneaking feeling that I’d want to be well hydrated… Ruby also while we all were chatting used her quite talented bodywork skills to rip out some tight muscles and adhesions she noticed I had, so I’d be all limber, in case we might play 🙂 By the end of brunch we had relaxed enough that Ruby gave me a tour of her dungeon, which is quite a nice setup, and has some very well thought-out features. It is a versatile and inviting space.

We all retired to one of the play rooms, and the games began.

The night before, Nerdy had come up with the idea of some sort of competition between Ruby and I to see which of us could make our play partner orgasm the most. Nerdy and I paired off against Ruby and Chayse, and the results were incredible. Everyone in that room, myself included, are quite multiorgasmic, and quite loud, and full of energy. Most of us were very empathic, feeding off of and giving back energy. It was stunning. I spent a good bit of time climaxing simply from feeling Chayse’s reactions to Ruby.

When the dust settled, Ruby and I had sort of worn out our partners, and Ruby looked a bit disappointed. She said “am I the only one with any energy left?” I sheepishly raised my hand, to indicate I was perhaps up for more. Her eyes glittered as she snapped on a glove and said “well then….assume the position”. And then she proceeded to do to me basically what she’d just done to Chayse, while I held onto Nerdy as my safety blanket. It is the rare person on first meeting that I will allow to engage in the festivities Ruby unleashed upon me, but having watched her with Chayse I felt perfectly safe and confident in her abilities.

After I could no longer move, we all sort of sat around gently massaging each other and chatting. I am pretty sure Ruby could have kept going another whole day though, she’s a force of nature.

Chayse and Ruby were both fun ladies to get to talk and play with, and I’d happily see them again anytime, for most any sort of scene from kink to vanilla. Great energy from them both, great skills, and very good observation and care of their playmates – everyone played safe.

And Nerdy was so much fun, and it was wonderful that she could set this brunch/kinkfest up on such short notice. When our brunchtime play was done, Nerdy and I returned to her abode, where, honest-to-Crom, we played some *more*, Nerdy having me gently help her try out some fun practices she was interested in. This lady has truly an endless appetite, and is so sex-positive and communicative that it is silly fun to hang out with her and experiment. Speaking of appetite, after all this, we then snuck out for dinner nearby, and then she sent me on my way. If I hadn’t had to be up at 5am the next morning, I think she would have kept me overnight, I don’t think she was remotely done with her “all the thingz” list 🙂

I am sure we will have other opportunities.

Folks, if you get a chance to play with any one of these ladies, take it. Two of them at once would be incredible fun. All three together, well, eat your Wheaties, but boldly leap at the opportunity.

Praise: Wow! Time with Mistress Ruby

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I can’t even begin to describe the time I spent with Ruby! She is an amazing young woman.

She welcomed me I’m and we had an amazing conversation getting to know a bit more about each other.

I was very nervous and ready to get right to the main event. But she quickly put me at ease and helped me see how the conversation and connecting would make the rest of our time that much better.

She is so nice. I guess as a Dom I expected her to be more harsh, perhaps even mean. But she was exactly what I didn’t know I needed

She was direct, demanding and yet gentle. And she took direct control.

After our conversation and me following her commands to disrobe we sat down and talked a bit more.

We had a lot more fun. And even more great conversation to wrap up the day!

I can’t say enough good things about Ruby. What a fantastic woman.

And I hope she will allow to see her again and we can see where things go

Praise: BDSM with a Twist

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

This is my second review of Ruby. She is of such a high order I felt it inappropriate to keep this to myself.

I have seen Ms. Ruby on several occasions. There are no adequate words to describe her… exquisite might be close, but still is shy. She is a warm, kind, sensual being that is hardcore BDSM. Although I am not into BDSM I can tell you she has EVERYTHING. If I was into it she would be my choice hands down. Her dungeon is in Seattle in a safe and quiet neighborhood. It is very clean and well appointed. On every occasion she builds an amazing experience.

She is very versed in anatomy and physiology and it is obvious. She knows just what to do and the best way to do it.

Thank you, Ruby for so many phenomenal experiences. You will never be forgotten.

The Problem with Utopia is People

People are hardwired for struggle. We’re designed for conflict and for the pursuit of triumph. Because of this, a Utopia is impossible. Why is that? Simple: There will always be people who choose to take advantage of the situation and who manipulate the world around them.

I often forget how selfish people can be, myself included. I seem to always find myself in situations where when I break, someone around me has something to gain from pushing me. Pushing me is easy when I’m falling apart. I don’t fight back, I don’t complain, I just check out and try to appease the person who is in contact with my body. It sucks, I hate it but it’s automatic and it’s why I keep people at arm’s length when I’m upset. All too often have people taken from me the little bit of emotional shelter I had left, always in my time of need.

What’s worse is that when this happens, I seem to take the fault for not being present. Just once, I want someone to say to me “I’m sorry. I acted selfishly and I took advantage of you. I understand if you hate me and that’s totally understandable but if there’s anything I can do to help fix what I broke, I would really like to help. I’m so sorry, I wasn’t thinking about what you needed or wanted at all.” But no, it’s always cold and I can’t share the pain they’ve caused me. I can’t scream at them how badly they damaged me and how they took a horrible incident and made it a million times worse. I can’t cry in their arms and tell them how dirty I feel and how it doesn’t seem to wash off. All in an instant, I lost comfort, a friend, control of my body and feeling secure at all.

It’s amazing how one bad decision can reshape your entire image of someone.

It’s incredible how fast life slips through my fingers and flies by my face.

To me, loss feels like being homesick… Until you forget what home was like.

Convince Ruby to Visit You; A Shut In on an Adventure

For those of you who know me well, you may have noticed that there are a few places where you can almost always find me; Turns out I’m an agoraphobe so going out into the world is scary for me and I’ve gotten very good at avoiding going out into the world. I recently realized this because it came to my attention that the list of people I interact with face to face is very small and that I haven’t gone out in public with friends in…. An embarrassingly long time. Whoops.

So of course I impulsively decided to go on a road trip to California, classic me.

The last couple of days have been really hard for me because I’ve flat out refused to go outside because according to my brain “there are weird people who make a lot of noise outside. Oh god, are they drinking outside in day light? They are! And they’re playing MUSIC! I can’t possibly go there.” So because I’ve been scared of going outside I haven’t done much which has given me the opportunity to notice that I’m home sick. Awesome.

Tonight I began giving it some real thought while debating where I should travel to next and I realized that I’m not scared of being outside, I’m scared of people. I spent a lot of my adolescence and young adulthood trying to find out where I fit in and I ended up in a lot of really awful social circles, in hopes that I would be accepted there. I believe my thought process was something along the lines of “These people look weird, I act weird, we must be THE SAME!” Unfortunately, I was wrong and I freaked out a lot of people and experienced a lot of really painful rejection.

Becoming a sex worker has allowed me to be myself but it has also allowed me to select the kind of people who can be around me which I feel is starting to do me a disservice; I’m physically very alienated from people and the vast majority of the time I get to stay in my safe little bubble, away from all the people who scare me. While being safe is awesome and being comfortable is wonderful, if I spend too much time in my own little world I will completely lose touch with reality and I’m not sure that’s such a good idea.


I have a proposition for the masses: You suggest a place (any where in the world, if you don’t live there we could meet there) for me to visit and I’ll try to make it happen. When we’re there I want you to show me your favorite place or something you think is unique or special about that place.

Before the end of the year I am making it a goal to visit Las Vegas and New York City so if you’re in either of those places, write me an email telling me why I should visit there and what you want to show me.

If you want to make me come to you, write me an email with the following information in it!

Your Name
The Location (You Want to Visit)
Your Favorite Place or Thing About That Place
Why You Think I Should Visit
Your Favorite Color

Oh and here are some photos I had taken in San Francisco.

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