Month: September 2014

Praise: Need a Software Upgrade?

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. I’ve been mulling around how to write this review for awhile, and I hope it will do the session justice. First the mechanics, set up was easy. I had the pleasure of doing a meet and greet a few weeks before the session, a nice dinner and drinks. I didn’t have time to see her that night, but I wish I had. When I was able to get my schedule aligned with hers we finally met up. Leading up to the meeting we texted back and forth which allowed us to get to know each other better and start building a real connection. That genuine connection carried through our session and time together. Miss Ruby was extremely generous with her time and she was more than true to her FBSM menu. Our time together was far more than any set of menu items, or experiences. In many ways, I don’t have the words to describe the experience, but it transcended far beyond anything I’ve experienced in the hobby. Ruby has a gift with her hands, and in many ways, she can ‘see’ the dysfunction in your body. She has a true gift for body work, and she was able to make corrections to the way my joints and muscles functioned. My joints hurt significantly less than they did before. Just as she is gifted with her hands, she is also gifted with her mind, sensuality, and empathy. She put me completely at …

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Praise: Sensual Foot Fetish

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. Ruby and I have chatted a little via emails over the last couple of weeks and I have to say that my growing interest in her was due in part to her sense of humor and just her overall take on life. Plus she is a sexy and intelligent woman who owns hundreds of high heel shoes, SOLD! She also has a pretty impressive website, it’s got lots of great pics (the pretzel pose is my fav!) and it also has various services to choose from. I opted for more of a fbst kind of session which was perfect because she’s a very sensual provocateur. She is also a dominatrix and some of her fantasy scenarios are not for the faint at heart! < --> sidebar: Will someone please do the slut training and let me how it goes! At my request she let me know in advance that she was coming to Portland, so I scheduled days ahead in anticipation of finally meeting her. Boy was it worth it! If you’re a fan of sensual and mutual touch, with a little femdom thrown in, she will curl your effin toes! She made me squirm like no other and enjoyed every minute of it. Her eyes are piecing and her smile is wicked, but her propensity for giving pleasure, whether it be through domination or relaxation, is truly from the heart. For me personally, having someone as gorgeous as her whisper naughty …

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Praise: Brunch with Ruby

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. I was really looking forward to this – Ruby and I had never met, but we had corresponded about shared kinky interests for some time, and this seemed to be a relaxing session format to finally meet in person. Nerdy and I grabbed some goodies at the market on the way out the door from an overnight we’d just spent together, and headed over to Ruby’s dungeon space. When we arrived, Ruby and Chayse were both already there, and looking quite lovely, especially at that early hour of the day (well, OK, it was noon, but that’s early for me, and I suspect many of the rest of the folks there…). We plopped down on some comfie pillows, and had an actual brunch while we all chatted about kink, life, the universe, and whatnot. They mocked me a bit for drinking about a gallon of water and fruit juice, but I had a sneaking feeling that I’d want to be well hydrated… Ruby also while we all were chatting used her quite talented bodywork skills to rip out some tight muscles and adhesions she noticed I had, so I’d be all limber, in case we might play 🙂 By the end of brunch we had relaxed enough that Ruby gave me a tour of her dungeon, which is quite a nice setup, and has some very well thought-out features. It is a versatile and inviting space. We all retired to one of …

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Praise: Wow! Time with Mistress Ruby

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. I can’t even begin to describe the time I spent with Ruby! She is an amazing young woman. She welcomed me I’m and we had an amazing conversation getting to know a bit more about each other. I was very nervous and ready to get right to the main event. But she quickly put me at ease and helped me see how the conversation and connecting would make the rest of our time that much better. She is so nice. I guess as a Dom I expected her to be more harsh, perhaps even mean. But she was exactly what I didn’t know I needed She was direct, demanding and yet gentle. And she took direct control. After our conversation and me following her commands to disrobe we sat down and talked a bit more. We had a lot more fun. And even more great conversation to wrap up the day! I can’t say enough good things about Ruby. What a fantastic woman. And I hope she will allow to see her again and we can see where things go

Praise: BDSM with a Twist

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. This is my second review of Ruby. She is of such a high order I felt it inappropriate to keep this to myself. I have seen Ms. Ruby on several occasions. There are no adequate words to describe her… exquisite might be close, but still is shy. She is a warm, kind, sensual being that is hardcore BDSM. Although I am not into BDSM I can tell you she has EVERYTHING. If I was into it she would be my choice hands down. Her dungeon is in Seattle in a safe and quiet neighborhood. It is very clean and well appointed. On every occasion she builds an amazing experience. She is very versed in anatomy and physiology and it is obvious. She knows just what to do and the best way to do it. Thank you, Ruby for so many phenomenal experiences. You will never be forgotten.

The Problem with Utopia is People

People are hardwired for struggle. We’re designed for conflict and for the pursuit of triumph. Because of this, a Utopia is impossible. Why is that? Simple: There will always be people who choose to take advantage of the situation and who manipulate the world around them. I often forget how selfish people can be, myself included. I seem to always find myself in situations where when I break, someone around me has something to gain from pushing me. Pushing me is easy when I’m falling apart. I don’t fight back, I don’t complain, I just check out and try to appease the person who is in contact with my body. It sucks, I hate it but it’s automatic and it’s why I keep people at arm’s length when I’m upset. All too often have people taken from me the little bit of emotional shelter I had left, always in my time of need. What’s worse is that when this happens, I seem to take the fault for not being present. Just once, I want someone to say to me “I’m sorry. I acted selfishly and I took advantage of you. I understand if you hate me and that’s totally understandable but if there’s anything I can do to help fix what I broke, I would really like to help. I’m so sorry, I wasn’t thinking about what you needed or wanted at all.” But no, it’s always cold and I can’t share the pain they’ve caused me. I can’t scream …

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