Month: April 2015

Confessions of a Glaminatrix

So… I have a confession. I am a beauty addict. No shit, right? I spend entirely too much money at Sephora and Gene Juarez and… I love it. As a kid and a teenager I felt like an awkward duck; Always trying to fit in but hopelessly missing the mark. I felt ugly, strange and like I didn’t belong. Beauty and fashion are a way for me to blend in but also stand out, visibly. On a very profound level, it makes me feel normal because I can look normal but extremely polished. When I’m falling apart, nothing matters more than appearing better than okay. Fabulous, even. For the sake of entertainment and my own sick pleasures I am going to lay my collection out for the world to see what goes into my every day presentation of myself. Step One; The Cleansing Agave Smoothing Shampoo Agave Smoothing Conditioner Keratase Resistance Treatment Lush Twilight Shower Gel First Aid Beauty Face Wash Step Two; Polish Origins Anti-Aging Serum Origins Zero Oil Moisturizer Origins Ginzing Eye Cream Claudaie Beauty Elixer Too Faced Hangover RX Primer Agave Hair Oil Caviar CC Cream 10-in-1 Keratase Elixir Ultime if needed Keratase Resistance Ciment if needed Keratase Resistance Ciment Thermique if needed Keratase Discipline Fluidissme if needed Drybar Dry Shampoo if needed Keratase Medium Hold Hairspray if needed Glamglow Super Mud if needed First Aid Beauty Skin Rescue Mask if needed First Aid Beauty Blemish Control Pads if needed Step Three; War Paint Tarte 12 hour …

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I Lost Track of Time in Her Dungeon

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. Wise choice. I arrived at her private incall a little late because I was mistaken about the exact area of town her incall was located. She was gracious and understanding, and she proceeded at a very relaxed and unrushed pace. We spent a brief moment getting to know one another before retiring to her chamber. When I have FBSM, I usually let the provider take the lead. I find that giving them too many directions about what I want results in the provider trying to modify her technique from what she is best at to meet what I think I want. I gave her minimal guidance, and she set to work. She immediately identified some problem areas in my back and quickly traced it to the root of the problem, an old neck injury. I really needed a traditional therapeutic massage as my massage therapist recently relocated to a different state shortly before I aggravated this old injury. I have had several MTs, only a few of which were worth returning to, and only one who was capable of mobilizing my neck correctly. If I lived in Seattle, I would not be looking for a new therapist as Ruby was a match for the best of the therapists that I have seen previously and she worked me over perfectly. While she was working, we had an enjoyable conversation about experiences inside and outside the hobby. I truly enjoyed chatting with her which …

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Praise: Hypnotized by Ruby

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. I saw that Miss Ruby was visiting from Seattle and jumped at the opportunity to see her. I have always been curious about Hypnosis, and in reading Miss Ruby’s writings, this is one of her specialties. So the day of we decided on a little role play to start things off (I was the flower delivery guy that she just had to rape)…she answered the door in a bathrobe, we had agreed that she would wear a sexy outfit underneath but to be honest, I can’t remember if she did or not… I was transfixed with her eyes. Even behind her glasses, Miss Ruby has beautiful beautiful eyes (which is a huge turn-on for me). Gentlemen, her pictures do not do her justice…she a gorgeous creature! I was led up to the bedroom…(after getting properly tied up) … I won’t go much into all of the details but I did want to say that I was skeptical about being hypnotized going into the session… I had never been hypnotized and really didn’t know what to expect. Even while I was being hypnotized I was skeptical…because it’s not like you fall asleep and then wake up later…I was still conscious through the whole thing. I thought I was in control but she would touch my arm and say “freeze” and my arm was frozen…she would count down from three and I would orgasm (I don’t think I have orgasmed more in a session… …

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Praise: My Overnight with Dominatrix Ruby

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. I recently arranged to meet up with Ruby Enraylls for an entire day and night of fun, leading into an event the next afternoon. We had corresponded about practices and areas of mutual interest and limits ahead of time, and played a bit in the past, so we both agreed we’d likely survive 24+ hours of each other’s company without too much trouble. This was to be a pretty free-form session, we didn’t have any overarching plan or roles set up. For such a loosey-goosey plan, it all went wonderfully well! 🙂 I arrived at her place around brunch time. Navigation directions were clear, parking was easy, access was easy. I went in to her fabulous playroom/dungeon space, said hello briefly, then we headed out for a nice brunch and a chat. Ruby is a great social companion, very witty, intelligent, and stunningly lovely and energy-filled, even though neither of us had had our coffee yet 🙂 After brunch, we went back to her place and played…a lot. Mostly in the sensual/exploratory direction. We spent a fair bit of time investigating some unique features/interests/abilities we each have, and it is a blessing to encounter a kindred spirit. She’s very good with “all the things” – it’s well worth your time to simply communicate your interests to her and give her the freedom to brew up something memorable. Ruby *did* take terrible advantage of me when I was in a very mentally receptive …

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Praise: Ruby is a Gem!

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. I had been an admirer of Ruby- who wouldn’t be? She’s got that sultry siren of the silver screen look and everything she writes indicates she is a warm and intelligent person. Set up was easy. I emailed her about the kind of session I desired. The day of the session she wasn’t feeling well and wanted to reschedule. We couldn’t find a date that worked so she said she’d rally. And she did. I was glad. When I got to her place she was dressed to the nines. Smoking hot. We got into our session that had some roleplay She took my cues and played it up perfectly. She is super insightful and read my desires well. After the session, we talked about her incall that she designed and remodeled herself. The place is beautiful, detail oriented, well organized, sensual, and luxurious- like Ruby herself. I feel like I just experienced a fraction of what this complex beauty has to offer, but I enjoyed our time immensely and hope to lose myself in her beauty and charm again.

Praise: Hypericin Loves Ruby

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. As ever, I was shy and awkward when I met her, but she was very adept at putting me at ease. If *I* can feel at ease within minutes of meeting her, I think you can safely say your first time jitters won’t be an issue. She is very smart, funny, and even a bit goofy, a welcome change from some other dominas who take themselves all too seriously. And, pictures truly do not do her justice; she is beautiful, to the point where I had a hard time keeping from staring at her (Ruby, I hope this wasn’t *too* creepy!!)) Soon we were wrestling, which is what I had in mind for the session. Right away, it felt easy, fun, natural, and very arousing. Wrestling fans, take note: this girl is *strong*! You wouldn’t know it looking at her, but… I am a tall and fairly strong guy, and in the past I would let my wrestling partner win. This wasn’t necessary with Ruby, and in fact she was a bit irritated when she noticed me doing that. I will have to bring my “A” game next time, because this time I was thoroughly (and happily) defeated. Then, with as little warning as “I usually do what I want…”, she led me to her play room, and tied my hands together, and my leg to the ceiling, so that I was completely at her mercy. I am grateful for the time …

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Ideas Worth Spreading

I am crazy about Ted Talks. I love the way they make me feel, I love the concept… I just love everything about them. I started watching them when I was in high school and I immediately dug the concept; A place where intelligent folks come together to share beautiful ideas with the world. Fuck. Yes. So I decided to create a list of my favorite Ted Talks, not in any particular order. These are all talks that I have found inspirational, educational, heart warming, surprising, funny or just a good reminder of things I should keep in mind. The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown Listening to Shame by Brene Brown Looks Aren’t Everything. Believe Me, I’m a Model by Cameron Russell The Art of Asking by Amanda Palmer How to Stop Screwing Yourself by Mel Robbins How to Speak So That People Want to Listen by Julian Treasure 5 Ways to Listen Better by Julian Treasure The Price of Shame by Monica Lewinski How to Spot a Liar by Pamela Meyer Why Thinking You’re Ugly is Bad for You by Meaghan Ramsey The World Needs All Kinds of Minds by Temple Grandin Strange Answers to the Psychopath Test by Jon Ronson The Voices in My Head by Eleanor Longden My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor Being Just Crazy Enough by Joshua Walters

Updates to the site (Plus Pictures!)

As some of you may have noticed, I have added a bunch of new photos to my website and social media! Thanks to the wonderful Chris Blakeley, I have a gorgeous, high drama photo set for you all to perv on. I have also added and made changes to my duo partners list by adding photos, descriptions and new folks! As far as my personal life I am currently dealing with tax season (which is more annoying and time consuming than anything but at the end of the day, supporting my fellow humans is important to me) and I have a new relationship with a lovely little lady from Canada who will hopefully be spending the summer with me to apprentice under me and make horrible videos. Let’s be fucking honest here, who doesn’t want to watch me hit that? Maybe if you’re a good boy I’ll let you clean up afterwards. 😉