Month: April 2016

Contrary to Popular Opinion

There seems to be a lot of debate about whether or not to punish people who commit social “crimes” in the community right now. Personally, I’m of the mindset that if a legal court and thousands of highly educated minds can’t come up with a good solution for the problem of consent violation then a secret committee of kinky people in Seattle certainly have no hope of finding a solution. I have prided myself on my delusions of grandeur in the past but even I’m not so narcissistic that I hold the belief that I have a one size fits …

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Praise: A Great Introduction

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. I’d never had any experience with BDSM before and wanted to try it out. After months of reading profiles and hemming and hawing, I finally took the plunge with Ruby. I selected Ruby because from everything I’ve seen, she’s well respected and experienced in this space. Plus, I just love that seductive smirk she’s got in all her photos. What I will say is that after our time chatting, she had selected activities perfectly suited for me. Going into a session with her, I was wondering if I’d like any aspect of …

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Praise: Lessons in The Dungeon

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy. It’s actually quite remarkable seeing a professional transform from the secretary appearance to “full fledge Domina. ~ Mistress Ruby is no doubt (as I have now experienced) an incredible entertainer and a serious deliverer of BDSM fetishes. My delving into interests & pleasures of BDSM ‘play’ is something of a new adventure as I explore these things often referred to as “taboo”. It was a GFE /Domme in PDX who’s magnetic appeal would “weaken mY defenses” and lead me into naughty things ‘other’ than how I’ve previously played in this hobby…..And I …

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Consent Violation Accusation: The Big Red C

I have violated the consent of others, likely so have you. I am an edge player, that means I coax my bottoms to test their own limits- I do not test them but I give them the opportunity to test themselves and the only guidelines I have for this are what my bottoms tell me is and isn’t okay: Verbally and otherwise. I choose to believe that people are responsible for themselves and their actions. That being said, I am incredibly manipulative and I’m pretty sure I could convince people to change some pretty fundamental things about themselves. I like …

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