Female Supremacy Archives - Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls https://www.rubylovesyou.com/category/female-supremacy/ Lifestyle Femdom Mistress - Professional Dominatrix - Fetish & BDSM Expert Tue, 22 Aug 2023 19:28:49 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=7.0 https://www.rubylovesyou.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/02/faviconbase-32.jpg Female Supremacy Archives - Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls https://www.rubylovesyou.com/category/female-supremacy/ 32 32 65854978 Top 5 Questions Everyone asks a Dominatrix https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2022/08/13/top-5-most-frequently-asked-questions/ Sat, 13 Aug 2022 15:41:26 +0000 https://www.rubylovesyou.com/?p=21153 Have you ever wondered what your Dominatrix’ favorite bdsm activity is? Or how you can be a better a slave? Perhaps the following can point you in the right direction. Below are my 5 most frequently asked questions and my answers. You might find the questions and their answers a bit surprising. Seattle Dominatrix Ruby […]

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]]> Have you ever wondered what your Dominatrix’ favorite bdsm activity is? Or how you can be a better a slave? Perhaps the following can point you in the right direction. Below are my 5 most frequently asked questions and my answers. You might find the questions and their answers a bit surprising. Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls has the answers to your questions and some tips.

What is your favorite thing to do in a session?

It depends on my connection with the person I’m playing with. Having overlapping interests is important. I’m big on bondage, predicaments and power exchange. I really enjoy mind fucks and getting to be creative. I often tend to get really into a theme for a while. A bit ago it was medical then ADBL, chastity roleplay scenarios, prisoner stuff… it’s always something and my specific interests seem to rotate and shift. I enjoy curating an experience for someone.. The more creative the better. I like longer scenes so I can build up ideas and get to know someone, knowing someone over a longer period of time helps with this as well. Nothing can beat intimate knowledge of the inner workings of someone.

What got you into BDSM and the Femdom lifestyle?

Like many of the people I talk to, I have been kinky for as long as I can remember. If you’ve read my about me, I talk about being kinky when I was pretty young, when it was literally just a game. I don’t see anything wrong with that, although many people I’ve spoken to want to find the reason they are into bdsm. This implies to me that it is something to be fixed when I don’t think that’s true. That’s like saying any preference is inherently wrong. It’s my belief that a homogeneous world is pretty dull, among other things.

But I digress. I’ve always had an interest in Bdsm and the very first adult images I found were femdom related. So it seems normal that I would trend that direction, especially considering that I was raised in a female dominant environment.

Are other people into my fetish?

The shortest answer is yes. I’ve played with many, many people and I can tell you with complete confidence that even if someone hasn’t engaged in your particular fetish, there’s definitely an interest. We live in a kinky world. The biggest barrier to entry is unfortunately, shame.

What do you find attractive in a submissive/slave?

The evil variation of this question is “will you go on a date with me” or worse “can I be your live in slave?” Before asking such questions, consider the one posed above and ask yourself “what do I like most about me?” Personally what I like most about my slaves is that they are considerate, kind and respectful. Every person I notice has a willingness to consider the needs and desires of others and makes an effort to do so. It’s often small things that make the biggest impressions.

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls is dressed in black latex with her latex slave in her Seattle BDSM Dungeon where she takes requests for Femdom and mistress sessions

What can I do to have the best session with my Domina?

Communicate! Clearly, honestly and respectfully. Sending a long fantasy and play by play isn’t particularly helpful to be completely honest. Writing out a list of yes’s and no’s, hard and soft limits and any specific things you want to try is a great way to start. I prefer to communicate such things at the beginning of the session unless there is something you think I won’t have or something that will need to be prepped for or negotiated. As we get to know each other more, I find that sometimes planning gets a bit more elaborate and more communication before we meet up is necessary or desired.

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]]> 21153 The Ultimate Femdom Gift Giving Guide https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2021/03/25/the-ultimate-femdom-gift-giving-guide/ Thu, 25 Mar 2021 22:53:38 +0000 https://www.rubylovesyou.com/?p=19318 What is the ultimate slave task? Understanding your Mistress. Think of your research into her/their preferences as slave training. Are you trying to impress your Mistress? Make her happy? GOOD. That is exactly what you should be doing as her loyal servant. A birthday shouldn’t pass without you celebrating with your Mistress.  I’m turning 30 […]

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]]> What is the ultimate slave task? Understanding your Mistress. Think of your research into her/their preferences as slave training. Are you trying to impress your Mistress? Make her happy? GOOD. That is exactly what you should be doing as her loyal servant. A birthday shouldn’t pass without you celebrating with your Mistress. 

I’m turning 30 in the middle of April so I decided to create an easy guide for my loyal subs to find me a gift that we both will enjoy.

As with all gift giving, you should ask yourself “is this for them or is it for me?” The latter is fine but you should acknowledge that you are giving them a gift for you rather than investigating what they might want. If you want to knock it out of the ballpark, your best methods for success are research and paying attention. I think that successful gifting is based on how well you know someone’s love language which relates to their gift preferences.

  1. Service

Does your dominant talk about wanting to be able to do something or have something done but they don’t have the bandwidth, time or energy to do it themselves? Easy. If you can make it happen for them, do so. Ask questions if you aren’t sure of something. A great example of this is The Garden Path that one of my subs commissioned for me on my birthday a few years ago. I enjoy it immensely and it was one of the best gifts I’ve gotten.

  1. Something Useful

Everyone loves having that magic thing that fills a hole in their life or solves a problem, maybe one they didn’t know they had. In order to achieve this, you must know them well. A great example from my life is receiving a very nice set of knives when I started cooking. I didn’t know how amazing good knives are compared to the crappy ones I was using.

  1. Something Practical

Finding something practical that someone needs or wants is a pretty easy gifting opportunity and they will think of you whenever they use it. I have gotten tennis shoes, a sofa, clothes, kitchen items, things for my cats, gift cards that enabled me to complete a project or simply enjoy something. 

  1. Luxury Items

I feel that anything outside of the realm of what someone will normally spend on themselves is a luxury gift.Or an upgrade to something they already have. You usually have to ask or do research but it can be immensely exciting to get a gift that you wouldn’t buy for yourself. I’ve received jewelry, shoes, lingerie, dungeon furniture and a NAS set up to backup all my media.

  1. An Experience 

Do they talk about wanting to go somewhere or do something? Perfect! Whether it’s a trip to the spa or a trip to the beach, experiences are precious and the memory doesn’t fade. I’ve been taken on trips, taken to events, done crazy things and had my spa trips paid for. Big or small, I’ve loved every experience.

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]]> 19318 Clip: Seduced Coercion Intox Drinking Game https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/04/24/seduced-coercion-intox-drinking-game/ Mon, 24 Apr 2017 18:46:19 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=8192 It’s saturday night and you’re bored, I’m bored too. I have a fun game to play, are you ready for a challenge? Good, just look into my venomous eyes and have a little gaze. It makes you feel intoxicated doesn’t it? Good. That’s just the beginning. Now things are going to get fun. Let’s get […]

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]]> It’s saturday night and you’re bored, I’m bored too. I have a fun game to play, are you ready for a challenge? Good, just look into my venomous eyes and have a little gaze. It makes you feel intoxicated doesn’t it? Good. That’s just the beginning. Now things are going to get fun. Let’s get some booze in the mix and I’ll put my little spell on you. Just sit tight and watch the spiral… ….. …. …. … … .. .. .. .. Oh? Did you fall asleep? I must have done something to you. Don’t worry, I’m not all that evil. I’m just going to manipulate you into getting drunk for me! Then the real fun will begin! Hahaha! You won’t be able to resist me at all if you’re drunk, will you?

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]]> 8192 Clip: Orgasmic Mind Control – Hands Free Orgasm Training 1 https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/02/14/orgasmic-mind-control-hands-free-orgasm-training-1/ Wed, 15 Feb 2017 01:15:11 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=8161 Oh, my deliciously obedient pet- You’ve been so good lately that I’ve decided to reward you with my powerful mind control for pleasure. Although I can’t promise I won’t abuse it, I’m going to start training you to not require any contact at all in order to orgasm. As long as you relax, obey and […]

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]]> Oh, my deliciously obedient pet- You’ve been so good lately that I’ve decided to reward you with my powerful mind control for pleasure. Although I can’t promise I won’t abuse it, I’m going to start training you to not require any contact at all in order to orgasm. As long as you relax, obey and do exactly as I tell you to. I know that you’re obedient and want to please me so there’s no doubt you will. Not that you have much choice, we both know you can’t fight against my hypno powers- You’re a fly caught in my never ending web. Soon enough, you’ll need to hear or read a single phrase uttered by your Mistress in order to achieve bliss.

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]]> 8161 Clip: Cash Mind Control – Quit Findom – Give Me Control https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/02/13/cash-mind-control-quit-findom-blonde-dominatrix/ Tue, 14 Feb 2017 00:37:14 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=8131 Listen up loser, this is a hypnotic lesson in how to quit findom. You need help. Your addiction is ruling you and it’s time to stop letting bratty little findoms have control. You need a real woman to help wipe your mind clean of all that bullshit and let you start fresh. Sit back, relax […]

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]]> Listen up loser, this is a hypnotic lesson in how to quit findom. You need help. Your addiction is ruling you and it’s time to stop letting bratty little findoms have control. You need a real woman to help wipe your mind clean of all that bullshit and let you start fresh. Sit back, relax and let Mistress Ruby help you. You’re too weak to do it alone. Just watch me and fall under my spell, you’re already halfway there, aren’t you? Give me control, good boy. Just relax and give in. You know you are weak, you can’t resist. You need help. I am trustworthy, let me control everything and save you from yourself. For a nominal fee.

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]]> 8131 Clip: Blondes Have More Fun with Corporal Punishment https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/02/12/blonde-dominatrix-have-more-fun/ Sun, 12 Feb 2017 22:37:17 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=8130 Mistress Ruby invites Mistress Skylar over for some R&R and after some discussion it is discovered that Mistress Skylar had a bad weekend. She needs to get out some frustrations. Luckily, Mistress Ruby has just the boy in mind, along with the right set of implements to help Mistress Skylar relax and get her mind […]

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]]> Mistress Ruby invites Mistress Skylar over for some R&R and after some discussion it is discovered that Mistress Skylar had a bad weekend. She needs to get out some frustrations. Luckily, Mistress Ruby has just the boy in mind, along with the right set of implements to help Mistress Skylar relax and get her mind off her troubles. Poor Blue did not know what he was in for with these two lovely blonde Dominas and their arsenal of wicked wares.

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]]> 8130 Chastity Mind Control – Quit Masturbation 1 https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/02/07/chastity-mind-control/ Tue, 07 Feb 2017 22:30:03 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=7918 You are the weaker gender of the species, it’s time to admit it. Your cock is what makes you weak and women are what drive you to create and also destroy yourself- Sucks to be you. HAH! Fortunately, I hold the keys to your freedom and also your demise; Chastity. I am going to lock […]

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]]> You are the weaker gender of the species, it’s time to admit it. Your cock is what makes you weak and women are what drive you to create and also destroy yourself- Sucks to be you. HAH! Fortunately, I hold the keys to your freedom and also your demise; Chastity. I am going to lock away your desires with the snap of my fingers and force you to be my little cuckolded bitch, just like you deserve. You can’t resist me and you might as well just give in to my erotic magic before you hurt yourself trying too hard to control yourself. We both know it won’t work anyways. I own your cock and you, now I own your mind too.

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]]> 7918 Clip: Exploit- Mind Control Males Into Servitude https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/02/06/mind-control-males/ Mon, 06 Feb 2017 22:30:34 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=7917 You want to please your Mistress, don’t you? I know you do. You’re always so desperate to do just exactly as I say. Relax, pay close attention and you’ll make me very happy. That makes you happy too, doesn’t it? Watch the spiral, closely. Good. Let your eyes focus in on it and let the […]

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]]> You want to please your Mistress, don’t you? I know you do. You’re always so desperate to do just exactly as I say. Relax, pay close attention and you’ll make me very happy. That makes you happy too, doesn’t it? Watch the spiral, closely. Good. Let your eyes focus in on it and let the sound of my voice drown out any other distractions. You’ll find that whatever makes me happy, makes you happy too. You’ll find yourself slowly going into a trance as you watch me. The longer you watch, the harder it is to resist. Isn’t it? Now, I want you to pay close attention to what I say and understand that I only want what’s best for you, isn’t that right? Good boy. Isn’t that wonderful that I know what’s best for you. Good boy.. Now deep sleep…

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]]> 7917 Clip: You Can’t Resist My Mesmerizing JOI https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/01/28/cant-resist-mesmerizing-joi-2/ Sat, 28 Jan 2017 23:12:57 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=7896 Mmm…. fresh meat!Are you ready to be teased relentlessly under my hypnotic control?You like having pussy in your face? Pussy that you can’t have?I bet you’ve dreamt of this – so close, yet so far away.Are you touching your cock yet? You should be – it would be rude not to.You don’t want to dishonor […]

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]]> Mmm…. fresh meat!
Are you ready to be teased relentlessly under my hypnotic control?
You like having pussy in your face? Pussy that you can’t have?
I bet you’ve dreamt of this – so close, yet so far away.
Are you touching your cock yet? You should be – it would be rude not to.
You don’t want to dishonor your mistress, do you?
How many times do you jerk off every day?
You’re ruled by your cock, aren’t you?
That’s fine – it just means I can control you with it.
Stroke that cock for me, nice and fast.
But you’re not allowed to come when I say so. That’s how it goes here.
Keep stroking for my luscious ass.
I want you to edge yourself for me.
Are you getting close yet?
I want to see how close you can get without coming.
Stroke faster and faster – think about my pussy.
It’s hard to not come, isn’t it?
Keep edging for me, until I say you can come.
Think about how good it’ll feel to come.
<< counts to 10 >>
If you didn’t come, no coming for a week.

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]]> 7896 Clip: Beg To Be My Toilet https://www.rubylovesyou.com/2017/01/27/beg-to-be-my-toilet/ Fri, 27 Jan 2017 23:04:17 +0000 http://youwillobey.com/?p=7893 Well, well, well! My little slave.. The time has come for the ultimate test and I’m going to make you beg for the absolute honor for it. Can you guess what it is? Yes, you guessed it. I’m going to squat down over your face and turn you into my toilet. You are going to […]

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]]> Well, well, well! My little slave.. The time has come for the ultimate test and I’m going to make you beg for the absolute honor for it. Can you guess what it is? Yes, you guessed it. I’m going to squat down over your face and turn you into my toilet. You are going to consume everything that comes out of my beautiful body and you are going to love every second of it. Isn’t that right? Your life is going to be transformed and you are just going to be chained to the floor of my bathroom so I can use your mouth whenever I need it! Every morning, whenever.. Even when I have parties, you’ll still be my toilet. You’ll just have to fill up on the waste from all my guests. I better not hear a single complaint from you either!

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