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How to Size a Chastity Cage

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Tue, 06 Aug 2019 00:02:05 +0000

There are so many different types of chastity cages to choose from, making a selection sometimes seems impossible. There are many different styles, materials, shapes, you name it! Which one is right for you? Hopefully I can shed some light on how to purchase a chastity device that will work for you by illuminating some critical consideration points.

Before we start with sizing we need to consider how you’ll use this device. Are you going to be locked up for an hour while you go out and get groceries for your Mistress? Is it a night of chastity for you, lucky boy? Perhaps something more long term like a week of being locked in your cage. Maybe something more intense still like a long term chastity contract that spans weeks, months or if you’re really lucky, years. Each duration has different considerations to make with the fit, sizing, materials and even locking devices.

Let’s start out with the basics

How to Size a Chastity Cage

How to Measure for a Chastity Device

Where do you need to measure for fitting a chastity device?

The circumference of the shaft of the penis
The length of the penis
The circumference of the entire genital (below the base of the penis and the testicles)

You must take these measurements while your penis is soft then repeat them when it is erect to get adequate sizing.

The sizing for most chastity cages or devices tends to come in MM so convert your measurements into MM using Google.

How to Fit a Chastity Device Properly

Many basic devices offer a variety of different sizes of base rings (the ring that goes around the entirety of your genitalia.) This ring holds your chastity device in place and prevents it from falling off. Before purchasing a device take a piece of string the same length as one of the rings you are considering and feel how it feels tied around the base of your penis. This should give you an idea of the fit in that department.

As far as length, try to find a middle ground between your length when soft and when hard. However, that is kind of up to your discretion. Do you want that classic feeling of being cramped and unable to get erect? Lean closer to your soft measurement. Need more room for longer term wear? Go somewhere in the middle or go with the full length if possible.

Picking the right material is mostly a weight issue or a customization question. Do you like the weight of metal or do you not mind the extra effort to put on plastic? Silicone is easy in all of these areas but not secure. 3D printed is highly customized, covers all the bases but expensive and not good as a first choice.

As far as locks the biggest question is how trustworthy are you? Metal locks provide that extra security plus the classic literal keyholder element. The numbered plastic locks can be removed and put back on be crafty subs (for that matter the plastic cages can be broken with enough force.) So metal can’t be beaten in that regard (for the really enthusiastic chastity players you can find some pretty intense full metal belts.) However, is your chastity sub going through lots of airport security or is there another reason they might need to remove it? Bluetooth unlocking options such as apps are a great option. Bluetooth luggage locks are fun too but they can’t get wet. All of these are fun options with long distance training.

At the end of the day, trust is always a huge part of any type of play. Being kept in line or keeping someone in line is critical but a struggle loses it’s charm. 😉

Examples of Different Chastity Devices

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Different Styles of Chastity Cages

Your basic styles are the same: A place to put your penis and some type of ring that holds the cage securely in place. However what tends to vary is how the device goes on, how snugly it fits and how easy it is to put on. The devices with hinged rings are super easy to put on but not good for long term wear as they press. The metal tubes can be bulky and if the ring is the wrong size it can be difficult if not impossible to fit all your gear inside. The plastic devices are also difficult to put on at first and usually require lubricant or the aid of a q-tip. I wouldn’t recommend wearing a sound for long periods at all.

Chastity in Summary

Everything is customized to your fit, read descriptions, look at reviews and always measure first. It takes trial and error to get the right fit, I wouldn’t recommend getting the most expensive custom cage first until you’ve tried things out a bit. That being said if you are confident that you know what you want there are many options in that direction.
However, if the cage is uncomfortable or causes any swelling, bruising, burning, tingling, numbness, cold spots or discoloration remove it immediately. Some pretty nasty things can go wrong if you aren’t careful. Luckily, in a pinch your friendly neighborhood hardware store sells bolt cutters for under 20 bucks.

I hope this has helped you make some decisions about buying your chastity device! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.
If you are interested in exploring chastity, I delight in being a keyholder. Check out my page about that here!

Resources:
https://lockedinlust.com/how-to-measure/
https://www.maturemetal.com/guide-to-measuring-your-penis-for-a-chastity-device/
https://lockthecock.com/blogs/chastity-fun/choosing-the-right-one

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How to do an Enema

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Mon, 04 Mar 2019 18:04:40 +0000

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Ever wondered how to clean out your ass with an enema? Here is a quick and easy visual guide!

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Chastity Mind Control – Quit Masturbation 1

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Tue, 07 Feb 2017 22:30:03 +0000

You are the weaker gender of the species, it’s time to admit it. Your cock is what makes you weak and women are what drive you to create and also destroy yourself- Sucks to be you. HAH! Fortunately, I hold the keys to your freedom and also your demise; Chastity. I am going to lock away your desires with the snap of my fingers and force you to be my little cuckolded bitch, just like you deserve. You can’t resist me and you might as well just give in to my erotic magic before you hurt yourself trying too hard to control yourself. We both know it won’t work anyways. I own your cock and you, now I own your mind too.

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Clip: Hypnotic Pussy Worship Training in Tights

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Wed, 25 Jan 2017 22:56:04 +0000

You want to learn how to please me don’t you? The right way, isn’t that right? But you need some encouragement and I know just how to help you pay close attention. Don’t mind the spiral, just pay close attention to every word I say and you’ll learn how to please your Goddess nicely. Hang on my every word and you’ll be my good boy. That’s what you want isn’t it? To be molded and shaped into my perfect pleasure toy? With no will or opinion of your own. Nod for me. Very good now don’t don’t look away while I teach you how to please me.

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Clip: Stroke it For Me, Slave!

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Tue, 24 Jan 2017 22:55:53 +0000

What a good boy you’ve been! Now that you’ve done all your chores for the day and made me happy, it’s time for your tease and denial tease training! After I’ve tied you up so you can’t escape I’m going to sit you on the floor in front of me with one hand free so you can play with yourself while I put on a little show for you. You better not cum without permission though, you understand me? If you cum, I’ll have to punish you severely and lock your cock up for a week! You’re such a lucky slave that I allow you to play with your cock and stare at my pussy at all! Now be a good boy and pay tribute to how much you adore me by getting nice and hard for your Mistress while I tease you with tiny glimpses. Don’t that just drive you insane? Beg for more, slave and I might show you more.

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Clip: Weaklings Suck My Big Black Strapon

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Tue, 24 Jan 2017 00:45:55 +0000

Hey slut! Are you ready for a new adventure? It’s time for you to learn to suck a cock.
First, I’m going to tease you – aren’t I nice?
Isn’t it better to suck the cock of someone who has tits?
It’s a big one, too?
You’re going to be a good slut for me, aren’t you?
You’re going to take the whole thing.
I like sluts that suck cock well.
It’s a good use of a mouth.
Why let that hole of yours go to waste talking when it could be pleasing me instead?
Look how close you are to my pussy. If you’re lucky you might get to smell it.
But of course you’ll never get to taste it. Your place in this world is a cocksucker now.
What a good slut! You’re learning to suck cock very well, aren’t you?
You’ll be a good little cock whore for your mistress very soon, won’t you?
I’ll train you to suck tons of cock for me, then I’ll whore you out.
I bet you’re sluttier than you think you are, you little whore.
I bet you like to wear panties for me, don’t you?
How does my cock taste?
It’s good because it’s mine, isn’t it?
How does it feel knowing you’re turning more and more into a whore for me?
Pussy’s not for you any more is it? Only cock from now on. So take it.
Slurp it down nice and deep down that little slutty hole of yours.
Soon you’ll be begging for cum instead of cock.
In strange hotel rooms with strange men.
Show me what you can do with a real cock.

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Five Easy Daily Slave Tasks

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Fri, 13 Jan 2017 23:12:21 +0000

You are here because you want to earn my favour.
Of course the easiest way is to start by learning how to serve me and by learning all about me then contacting me to serve me.
How gracious and kind of me to give you the opportunity.
It’s not every day I allow you to win a place in my stable.
I’m going to give you 5 easy tasks that will slowly over time build our bond.

1 – You must have a picture of me somewhere in your house or as a wallpaper on your device.

The idea is that I will be watching you all the time.
Partners do this all the time – I’m your mistress; it’s one in the same.

2 – Five days a week, at least, you are to get down on all fours (or at least sit on the ground) and pray to me, or at least think of me, for five minutes.

Mornings are best, that’s what my other slaves say.

3 – It’s a punishment of sorts. You will write 20 lines daily.

For every mistake you make, add an extra 10 lines.

4 – You will be allowed only one orgasm per week. It must be while you are watching my videos.

You can have more if I give you explicit permission in a video.
But only once per video. No re-watching – that’s cheating.

5 – I expect you to wear a collar for me.

It is a symbol of your bond to me.
What matters is that it has my name on it.
Watch this video multiple times so that you are sure you have got it all.
If you have questions, ask me.

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Eat Your Cum or Pay Up

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Wed, 11 Jan 2017 23:04:11 +0000

Awww… back for more abuse? I thought you would be.
You can’t stay away can you?
I’ll have you begging soon enough.
What do I have in store? That’s for me to know and you to find out, worm.
Have you been a good boy? Are you deserving of a reward?
You’re never deserving of a reward, are you?
I am going to make you eat your cum for me.
Your orgasams are mine and you’re never allowed to cum without permission, are you?
If you have cum without permission, turn off this video and jjust walk away, with your hard-on in your hand.
Start stroking your pathetic little cock for me.
Think about all the things you wish I would do to you but never will.
Thinks you will never be worthy of.
Think about this ass and how desperately you want to bury your face in it.
Keep stroking.
But no cumming until I tell you to.
If you come before I tell you to, you have to send me a $100 gift card.
Think about how you want to worship this ass.
But it will never be for you.
Are you getting close? Well stop, then!
I want you begging and pleading.
Squeeze your balls to remind you that they belong to me.
I want you to last as long as possible, but I’m going to tease you to make it difficult.
I don’t think you’ll ever be worthy enough to be close to this body.
Did it make your life hard to be teased like that? Nice and hard?
Think about how I get fucked regularly and how you’ll never be worthy of that.
Think about how we’d laugh at you because you’re just a pathetic excuse for a man, aren’t you?
Jerk your little baby dick for me.

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Feminization: Slut Training Lesson: Public Outing

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Fri, 02 Dec 2016 22:09:55 +0000

Well then, little slut.. It seems that you survived my last task! I’ve decided to up the ante.
Do you think you can handle it? I bet you can. Luck for you, your Mistress is in the mood to show off her ass. That should give you a little clue as to what this task is about.

Any guesses?

No?

Are you too much of a dumb slut to guess? That’s fine. I’ll tell you.

It involves an outing – that’s the hint I’ll give you.
From your last task, you should have purchased a pair of panties.
You should be well-stocked and all slutted up for your outing.
Your outing is to go to a sex toy store. With a nice pair of slutty panties under your clothes.
A weekend night is preferable. That’s when all the whores come out, right?

You get bonus points if you show the clerk your slutty panties.
You have to buy 2 of 3 items: a butt plug, a dildo, or a ball gag, and send me pictures using 1 of the 2 items you bought.
Bonus points if you wear your underwear in the picture
This is all part of your training to become the perfect sissy slut for me.
Are you up for it, or are you a little wuss?
I bet you’re desperate to be the best little slut you can be for me.
You want to the perfect little whore and you want me to teach you.

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Especially If It’s Dirty

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls | Femdom Mistress — Wed, 30 Nov 2016 23:02:09 +0000

It’s been quite a day. I’ve put my slaves through their paces and now I’m looking for a new slave.
Someone who can worship every inch of me. Do you think you have what it takes?
Are you prepared to do everything I say? With the hope that one day you’ll have the honor of pressing your nose between these ass cheeks.
And maybe… also… you’ll have the privilege of licking my crack from top to bottom.
Even if it’s dirty.

Especially if it’s dirty.

If I allow you to be my slave, I’ll make you my toilet. You’ll have to endure everything I produce.
Imagine your mouth pressed tightly against my asshole. I have the urge to take a shit right now.
You’ll take all of it and you’ll say, “thank you mistress.”

If you’re lucky, I’ll help you wash it down with my golden nectar, but only if you take it with a smile.
Now be a good boy and kiss my feet. That’s what it takes to audition to be my slave.
You exist only to please me, and to worship me.
Your life belongs to me now, doesn’t it?

There’s no need for you to think or have an opinion.
Your mind is worthless unless it’s devoted to me.
Will she allow me to worship her beautiful ass?
Will she allow me to eat every last drop of what comes out of her? Have I earned that yet?
I’ll invite all of my friends over and you’ll be my human toilet.
I won’t need to buy you food, you’ll survive on the shit of me and my friends. Look how hard that makes you. You have 10 seconds to cum, starting now.

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