About Mistress Ruby


There’s more to me than just being a Seattle Mistress; I live to connect with people and through that I hope to share a special bond of trust, intimacy and understanding with everyone that I play with. Without connection, we are nothing.

My name is Mistress Ruby Enraylls and I am a Seattle Dominatrix.

Seattle dominatrix Ruby Enraylls in a shiny black corset and thigh high boots

Who is Mistress Ruby?

You might recognize me from YouTube or a slew of BDSM websites- I have been in the Seattle BDSM scene as a Professional Dominatrix for nearly a decade. However, my story with kink starts earlier than that. You could say that I’m prolific or iconic, that is because I have spent years polishing and refining myself and my craft, a project which is never done. I take great pride in my presentation and my work and it my pleasure to share my knowledge, skill and twisted mind with you. I know you have many questions for me, let’s start with the basics. (If you aren’t familiar with my work, check out my videos on YouTube to get a feel for me. )

What is a Dominatrix?

A dominatrix is a woman who is in control. She wears outfits that are sexualized, maybe leather, heels, stockings. There are many different versions of a dominatrix. A dominatrix likes control, it feeds her on some level and she enjoys a version of BDSM activities. In the current era there are many ways to interpret this- Purists say it’s physical only but I believe you cannot have the physical aspect of BDSM without the mental, or vice versa.

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Biography

I’ve been drawn to kink for as long as I can remember in one way or another. I was very drawn to knots and rope work and started playing with tying up my Barbies in elaborate ways after setting up whole scenes and roleplays around them. These roleplays had some interesting themes, I even remember shoving my very first Ken into a pink frilly ball gown and begging my mom to sew him into it when his massive waist split the seams of the satin fabric. I suppose I always had a non standard outlook, maybe I came out of the box weird? Either way I’ve enjoyed the ride.

I had a friend who I played with forced feminization tell me “You would be a great dominatrix” as he handed me and copy of The Stranger with Control Tower. This was how he introduced me to Mistress Matisse’s writings and this was the second time I had come across the word “dominatrix”. I had heard the word “dominatrix” before, as my mother had referred to an outfit she made. Then later on jokingly, she told me I would rather be that than a nun because I wanted to punish people with rulers and I told her I wanted to be a teacher. Naturally, she told me that being a teacher in the early 2000’s did not allow for corporal punishment (certainly not at my very liberal arts school) so she told me I should consider being a nun. Quickly, with a laugh she said I definitely wasn’t cut out for that then said I should be a dominatrix instead. I think she was joking but then she gave me a couple of whips so who knows how serious she was.

Another one of my early influences was Xenia Onatopp. I don’t know how anyone watching Golden Eye couldn’t watch her powerful legs holding men captive and hear her seductive Russian accent and not be swayed be her murderous charms.

From a young age my mother was very supportive of my alternative choices and if I didn’t know any better I would have assumed she was nudging me towards the femdom lifestyle; She would encourage me to take on a state of mind where women ruled things and encouraged matriarchy, (maybe not for the best) talked down to men cut her off in traffic by insulting their genitals, gave me whips and taught me how to use them, to name a few. If that’s not a good jumping off point, I don’t know what is. However, if you ask my mother about BDSM she vehemently denies any interest.

Seattle mistress, dominatrix Ruby Enraylls in a mesh black catsuit

How I became a Professional Dominatrix

I got into kink officially through members of the BDSM scene over 10 years ago although my duration as a professional dominatrix has been a bit shorter. I began spreading my wings and exploring through classes, workshops and parties and shortly after started playing with my first real “sub” of my own. I’ve had several I could call my own over the years and through their dedication and loyalty I’ve had the opportunity to grow, learn and hone my skills. I didn’t get start as a real time professional dominatrix until shortly there after where in I began exploring kink and myself even more and the fun really began for me. I explored many venues, some good and some not so much my taste. Due to my curiosity I carry a long list of qualifications.

I started off in Phoenix, AZ but didn’t really get involved in the BDSM scene until I came back to my hometown of Seattle, WA. I joined the local community and made a lot of fabulous connections with wonderful kinky people through local event spaces and Fetlife. I found people who mentored me, taught me and allowed me experiment before I had the courage to explore being a professional dominatrix. I discovered a passion for rope (Seattle is famous for its shibari scene, as is Vancouver, BC.) Then shortly there after discovered my love for sadism, reaction and connection. I think play is all about connection as its core and kink itself is a spectrum. When describing it to people who don’t understand I often use the ice cream analogy; Kink is like stepping outside the realm of just enjoying vanilla with adding different things. You can have vanilla praline, vanilla with fudge, etc. Once you open your mind to kink you can try any flavor you can dream up. The limits are your imagination and what you are willing to do with yourself and others. D/s is much the same as I think that all interactions have some type of power structure, even if it’s just neutral. D/s is just awareness of that and playing with it.

I’ve heard the sentiment echoed over the years that an insecure person will try to prove themselves the most, or speak the loudest. I’m often very soft spoken and mild mannered although my words can be quite harsh if you’re paying attention. I bend the world around me to will, I do it effortlessly. Ever heard the quote “speak softly and carry and big stick”?

Accreditation

Sensual Seattle Femdom Ruby Enraylls the professional dominatrix has perfect long legs for worship and big feet. The dream of any seattle foot fetish aficionado
Attributes

Age: 29

Birthdate: April 14th

Personality Type: INTJ

Education: Bachelor’s Degree, I also Teach

Languages: English, French, Japanese (and I can sing inn Italian)

Hair: Blonde

Eye Color: Hypnotic Green

Seattle dominatrix ruby enraylls in her seattle dungeon, poses seductively in black stockings which would make any bdsm slave drool
Statistics

Height: 5’9″

Weight:130

Bust: 32C or 36″

Waist: 25″

Hips: 36″

Shoe Size: 9.5-10

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Spoil Your Mistress

Wishlists
Wishlistr: Wishlist
Netaporter: Wishlist
Nordstrom: Wishlist
Gift Cards: Send to RubyEnraylls@gmail.com (Always ask before sending!)
Genejuarez: Gift Cards
Sephora: Gift Cards
Home Depot: Gift Cards

Fun Fact: When I’m not dressed as a sexy dominatrix, I often wear a hardhat and professionally handle fireworks and other explosives. Although it is a paying job, I consider it more of a hobby.

 

Some of my Favorite Things

Ideal Night Out: Great food followed by attending the Symphony or attending a fun show.
Ideal Night In: Ordering some ramen to go, curling up somewhere nice and watching a weird movie.
Favorite Food: Traditional Japanese Ramen, Sushi, Dumplings, Steak, Italian, anything with garlic or whatever is for dessert
Favorite Beverage: French Vanilla black tea with cream and sugar or lightly sweetend cold brew(Stok chocolate is my current favorite) or a good latte, no Starbucks please.
Favorite Color: Aqua (like my tattoos) or deep, dark red
Favorite Genres of Music: Baroque era chamber music, Early-Mid 1900’s Jazz, 90’s Alt Rock, Trip hop, Female Vocals, Electronic, Downtempo, Electropop
Favorite Bands/Artists: Portishead, Ella Fitzgerald, Handel, Hayden, Vivaldi, Billie Holiday, Odesza, Halsey, Sia, Ellie Goulding, Lana Del Ray, Melanie Martinez, Metric, Galantis, Pretty Lights, Nine Inch Nails
Favorite Scent: Black Opium by YSL
Favorite Opera: Bizet’s Carmen
Favorite Video Game: Psychonauts
Favorite Flower: Stargazer Lilies

Hobbies

Singing: I’m currently taking weekly singing lessons from one of the best Opera teachers in the Greater Seattle Area. My studies of focus are Blues, Jazz, Opera, Pop and acapella.

Modeling: I’m very passionate about creating art and one of my favorite mediums is using my body as a canvas. I’m currently working with a bunch of different photographers to create lots of different styles of photos. I’ve been modeling since I turned 18 but I didn’t get into it seriously until my 20’s.

DiY Construction and gardening: I’m always improving my dungeon space as well as my home: I’m currently exploring everything from painting to plumbing, drywall to electrical, landscaping to design and everything in between. If you’d like to enable me to do more with my hands, Home Depot Gift Cards or certain plants perennial plants (ask me what I’m currently working on) are a great way to do that!

Front End Web Design: “Fuckery” might be more accurate than design, especially when it comes to style sheets but regardless I have loved messing with design elements ever  since. I think it’s fun to create a digital space that other people can see, I like designing things in general and sometime I don’t like using my hands in the physical space so it’s nice to have other skill sets. I’ve messed with a little bit with PHP and Javascript.

D&D/Roleplay Games: Again, a holdover from my youth! Who wouldn’t want to be a Demon Goddess from hell who kills the hero with a movable moonbeam? Sometimes it’s fun playing the villain.

Make Up Artistry: It’s pretty obvious from my photos that I love make up! My love for make up comes from my dad being enamored with drag queens and my love for Hollywood glamour. If you ever want to put a big smile on my pretty face, you’re welcome to get me a Sephora Gift Card.

Volunteering with various charities: I am a strong believer in giving back to the community and I’m an even stronger believer in being kind. Ever since middle school I’ve volunteered with various charities and I still continue to do so. In the past I’ve been involved with: The now defunct Boomtown cafe; A free service oriented cafe that provided hot meals and indoor dining for homeless and poor families, Habitat for Humanity; At the time I was too young to help build houses so I prepared food for the workers, Wet Lands Preservation; I helped replant native plants and restore local wetland habitats and wildlife reserves, Dance Safe; For a number of years I helped provide emergency services for at risk teens and I provided unbiased information about drugs, Suicide Hotline; For a number of years I’ve helped support those in times of crisis by being available to talk them down and provide support in their hour of need.
I think it is critically important to give back to the world at large, don’t you?

Learning New Skills: Who doesn’t like learning?