About - Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls

Who is Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls?

Pronunciation: Ruby (Roo-bee) Enraylls (On-Rails)

Seattle dominatrix Ruby Enraylls is served by one of her loyal slaves.

You may recognize me from YouTube or from a BDSM website. I have been in the Seattle BDSM scene as a Professional Dominatrix for well over a decade and I’ve been active in the lifestyle for longer than that. I take great pride in my craft and have spent years honing my skills, refining my techniques and improving upon every little detail there is to find. I am hungry for knowledge. You could call kink, BDSM, Fetish, Femdom, sexuality and the control a special interest. I yearn to understand every aspect of it, control it and manipulate it to my perfect design. I have spent over half of my life reading blogs, textbooks, taking courses, learning from experts to become the master of my craft that I am now.

What is a Dominatrix?

A dominatrix is a woman who is in control. Plain and simple. She thrives on it. She is a creature born of sensuality, sexuality and she uses it to control those who worship her very existence. Her appearance is part of her game but don’t be fooled, this is very much psychological. Self indulgence, the exploration of any and all things hedonistic and carnal is something she seeks and it is a pleasure to be on that ride with her. If you are luck enough to meet a dominatrix, don’t let her slip through your fingers because we are a rare breed.

Dominatrix Ruby’s Biography

Seattle dominatrix Ruby offers BDSM and Seattle Femdom Sessions

I’ve been drawn to kink for as long as I can remember in one way or another. I was very drawn to knots and rope work and started playing with tying up my Barbies in elaborate ways after setting up whole scenes and roleplays around them. These roleplays had some interesting themes. I even remember shoving my very first Ken into a pink frilly ball gown and begging my mom to sew him into it when his massive waist split the seams of the satin fabric. I suppose I always had a non standard outlook. Maybe I came out of the box weird? Either way I’ve enjoyed the ride.

I had a friend who I played with forced feminization tell me “You would be a great dominatrix” as he handed me and copy of The Stranger with Control Tower. This was how he introduced me to Mistress Matisse’s writings. This was the second time I had come across the word “dominatrix”. I had heard the word “dominatrix” before. As my mother had referred to an outfit she made. Then later on jokingly, she told me I would rather be that than a nun. I wanted to punish people with rulers and I told her I wanted to be a teacher. Naturally, she told me that being a teacher in the early 2000’s did not allow for corporal punishment. Certainly not at my very liberal arts school. As such, she told me I should consider being a nun. Quickly, with a laugh she said I definitely wasn’t cut out for that! She suggested maybe I should be a dominatrix instead. I think she was joking but then she gave me a couple of very decorative whips from France. So who knows how serious she actually was.

Another one of my early influences as a budding Dominatrix was Xenia Onatopp. Watching her hold men captive with her powerful legs in Golden Eye was inspiring.

How I became a Professional Dominatrix

I got into kink officially almost by accident. I felt drawn to the exploration of out of the ordinary carnal activities. I first began, as many do, by reading as much as I could get my hands on. Then of course experimentation began. Fortunately I started my exploration of BDSM and Femdom with some very patient submissives.
A little over 10 years ago I found my way into what I would know later as the Seattle BDSM scene. Then I only knew it as a club in the middle of the city where I could take some classes. Without these classes and connections through the community, I never would have been able to grow and hone my skills to what they are today. I am forever grateful for everyone who has shared their knowledge with me. Having this wonderful community gave me the confidence to spread my wings and explore my interests and shortly after I started playing with my first real sub of my own. I’ve had several I could call my own over the years and through their dedication and loyalty I’ve had the opportunity to grow, learn and hone my skills. I didn’t get start as a real time professional dominatrix until shortly there after where in I began exploring kink and myself even more and the fun really began for me. I explored many venues, some good and some not so much my taste. Due to my curiosity I carry a long list of qualifications.

I discovered a passion for rope (Seattle is famous for its shibari scene, as is Vancouver, BC.) Then shortly there after discovered my love for sadism, reaction and connection. I think play is all about connection as its core and kink itself is a spectrum. When describing it to people who don’t understand I often use the ice cream analogy; Kink is like stepping outside the realm of just enjoying vanilla with adding different things. You can have vanilla praline, vanilla with fudge, etc. Once you open your mind to kink you can try any flavor you can dream up. The limits are your imagination and what you are willing to do with yourself and others. D/s is much the same as I think that all interactions have some type of power structure, even if it’s just neutral. D/s is just awareness of that and playing with it.

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Attributes

Age: 29

Birthdate: April 14th

Personality Type: INTJ

Education: Bachelor’s Degree

Languages: English, French, Japanese (and I can sing in Italian)

Hair Color: Blonde

Eye Color: Hypnotic Green

Fun Fact: When I’m not dressed as a sexy dominatrix, I often wear a hardhat and professionally handle fireworks and other explosives. Although it is a paying job, I consider it more of a hobby.

I take singing lessons that cost $75 a week, singing and music are a passion of mine.
I am always improving my space, (I should write Better Homes and Dungeons) Home Depot Gift Cards are always appreciated.
Blondes do it better but being blonde isn’t easy. I go to Gene Juarez, being treated some self care always makes me feel special.
I do my nails myself, I buy my polish from Beyond Polish. Care to mani/pedi me?
I love make up. Sadly I recently found out that I have Celiac Disease so I have to replace all of my collection. I love shopping at Sephora and Ulta. Bite Beauty, Tarte and Fenty Beauty are also completely gluten free brands.

Wishlists

My Amazon Wishlist – A Bit of Everything

Wishlistr List – Everything Else Online (Lots of Latex/furniture)

Net-a-porter Wishlist – Luxe Stuff, Spoil Me

Etsy Clothing Wishlist – Handmade Things/Small Designers

Etsy Gear Wishlist – Handmade Things/Small Creators

Some of my Favorite Things

Ideal Night Out: Great food followed by having my socks knocked off by a great show.
Ideal Day Out: Exploring an art exhibit or doing something naughty followed by a spa treatment.
Favorite Food: Traditional Japanese Ramen, Sushi, Dumplings, Steak, Italian, anything with garlic or whatever is for dessert. Unfortunately, I am completely gluten free.
Favorite Beverage: French Vanilla black tea with cream and sugar or a nitro cold brew.
Favorite Genres of Music: Baroque era chamber music, Early-Mid 1900’s Jazz, 90’s Alt Rock, Trip hop, Female Vocals, Electronic, Downtempo, Electropop
Favorite Scent: Black Opium by YSL
Favorite Flower: Stargazer Lilies

Interviews

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https://dommeaddiction.com/feature-interview-mistress-ruby-enraylls/
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