Hi. Here are some frequently asked questions all neatly wrapped up for you to browse.
What is your preferred session duration?
I prefer longer sessions to shorter ones because I like to build rapport and have long term relationships with people that I play with.
May I call you to arrange an appointment?
After supplying me with additional information, I would be happy to arrange a phone interview with you. Please do not call me initially.
What information do you need in order to meet me?
My screening protocols ask for links to your social media or references. If you aren’t able to supply these, we can arrange a phone interview or in person interview.
Where is your dungeon located?
I am located in Seattle, Washington. Slightly North of Downtown Seattle.
Can we discuss what I want to do beforehand?
Discretion is extremely important. If you prove yourself to be trustworthy, I am happy to engage in discussion about your fantasies only or have online sessions.
How do I meet a Dominatrix?
It can be intimating to look for a dominatrix but as a submissive you need to impress your prospective Mistress. Google is a great place to start on your journey to finding a Mistress. You could also go to a local munch, BDSM club or join Fetlife. Self exploration and community support is important but the benefits of a professional dominatrix trend towards privacy and expertise.
Mistress, how can I serve you?
By correctly following the protocol outlined on my website for approaching me. You can start here.
Is your Seattle dungeon private?
Yes, I do not share my space with anyone or rent it to anyone else.
Can I/we rent your dungeon?
No, I am strictly private and do not wish to share my space with others.
Can I have sex with you?
No, I have nothing against that but that is not an interest of mine. My focus is on obedience, servitude, exploration and BDSM.
Do you specialize in my fetish?
I have many areas of technical expertise, so much so that I tend to mold interactions around mutual moods and interests du jour.
That being said, in more broad strokes my specialties are control, shaping people, eliciting a reaction, sadism, the unusual, interpersonal connection and creating something pretty. Those are applied in oh so many ways it’s difficult to count. Chances are we will have overlap. I find that the details of a fetish or skill are limiting, why limit yourself when you can spend time honing many different skills and then switch between them when the mood strikes?
Do you entertain my fetish?
What I’m not interested in is outlined on my Limits page.
Unless it has a significant chance of causing harm or injury to you or any non easily preventable methods of preventing harm towards me. (Check out my Limits for more info.) I will admit I am quite broad in my definition of “harm”. This is because I play with edge play and I feel that education and realistic assessment are key to not getting hurt.
I am against towards lasting damage, permanent injury and extremely high risk of any kind. Your safety and the safety of everyone else involved (including their mental well being) is paramount to me. I feel that everyone should be able to walk away from a scene without lasting effects.
I have never seen a Dominatrix before, will you see me?
Certainly, I am always happy to train a new submissive. In fact I very much enjoy a fresh canvas or someone who has been out of the scene for a while. If you haven’t ever met me before please visit my “Protocol” page.
How do I book with you?
Please visit my contact page for a well rounded walkthrough on how to properly approach me.
Do you offer same day professional dominatrix sessions?
If you are new, I do not offer same day meetings. If we are already familiar and my schedule allows for it, I can meet with you.
How much notice do you need for a session?
My life is very busy and my schedule tends to book out, if you have a specific time that you need I would suggest allowing for as much lead time as possible.
Do you accept credit cards?
No but there are man other digital options. If you must use a digital payment method I would suggest an e gift card. Please ask me what works best for me at the current time. If you are from out of the country there are many different options that should still work.
Will you have any toy I request?
Possibly. My collection is my personal collection and is for my entertainment. If there is a specific thing you’d like the only way to ensure that it will be present is to supply it.
Can I make an outfit request?
It depends on my mood and what the request is.
Will you go out with me to dinner/lunch/drinks?
Generally, no. When you ask this I am assuming that you are attempting to alter the nature of our relationship. If we have a clearly defined dynamic, I may be comfortable doing this but only in the context of a session.
Can I be your personal servant?
No. When you offer this unprompted it comes across as though you are being disrespectful of the energy that I am putting into you and our dynamic. If we have a long term relationship and I may allow you to do things for me but it will always be at my convenience.
What happens if we see each other in public?
You leave me alone and I leave you alone unless it is socially appropriate to interact.