Hello, my little curious plaything. I see you’re ready to take the plunge. Allow me to guide you on your new Seattle BDSM journey. What kind of dominatrix are you seeking? Have you thought about that before? Don’t let me put you off with that question. Primarily, you should look for someone whose interests match yours and who you feel will listen. Perhaps you are still trying to figure out what you like or if BDSM is going to be a part of your life. A skilled Dominatrix can help you with both of those things or just enable you to have a fantastic time.
Allow me to tell you a bit about my play style as a dominatrix. I am playful and sultry. Commanding and strict, but not without cause. Cruel, but I wouldn’t describe myself that way because I’m always delighting in whatever I’m doing to you. Imagine a villain with an agenda and a very strict personal code of ethics that is extremely twisted by anyone else’s definition. That’s me. Lawful Evil, but make it sexy.

What is a Session with a Dominatrix like?

Every BDSM scene and every play partner is unique, and I have an arsenal of toys, tools, and skills at my disposal to take you into whatever headspace or physical space that I desire. (I, of course, am a gear collector.) Whether I need to seduce you to bring you to your knees or command you to open up your most submissive self to me, I will get what I want. What do I desire? To play with you and have you submit to me. To convince you that it is safe to open up to me and share your darkest desires. And to give you a space where you can turn off and allow someone else to make the decisions, to hit that reset button that only BDSM seems to provide.
The act of domination and submission becomes an intricate partnered dance when two people work well together. For example, the input I give you, you return, and vice versa. Everything is dynamic and mutual. My abilities as a dominatrix are quite broad, and my skillset is versatile. From soft and sultry to stern and commanding and everything in between, we will be sure to discover our own unique harmony.

What are you looking for?

A BDSM scene can be escapism, a way to reset, or a very pure way to express ourselves, free of judgment and away from the rest of the world. I love creating that and seeing what I’ve dreamed up, with and for my partner, come to life. Who wouldn’t? Some questions I want you to ask yourself when approaching me are:

  1. In BDSM scenes, what is the feeling you find most satisfying or that you are wanting to experience?
  2. When it comes to your play style and kink identity, how do you describe yourself?
  3. Do you have a role that you like to play in a scene?

Now that we’ve covered that, we can move on to the fun stuff! What I like and how I like to play. I look forward to pushing each and every one of your buttons, twisting your mind and testing your body.

Intensity Level

Is it your first time submitting to a dominatrix? Perhaps you have a lot of experience and are seeking a specific experience. I aim to make the BDSM experience accessible to everyone of all skill and experience levels and take great pride in my ability to scale my abilities as your Mistress. When you are at my feet, you will find yourself in a non-judgmental space where you can share your deepest desires and thoughts while completely letting go of control.


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Ideal for newbies. Exploration designed to facilitate the discovery of your interests or an introduction.


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For those who have an idea of what they’re looking for from kink and are looking for and want guidance.


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Not necessarily “intense”, per se but completely handing over and going Deeper Down the Rabbit Hole.

Session Modalities

I offer Dominatrix, Fetish, Femdom, BDSM sessions in Seattle. My domination style ranges from Classical Femdom to Sensual Domination, Fetish-focused Sessions, Slave Training, and everything in between. Connection and sharing mutual interests are of great importance to me.

Classic Dominatrix

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Fetish and Fantasies

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Focused Fetish Scenes and Specific Fantasies

Sensual Femdom

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Seduction is a method of control, let’s not forget that

Domination, Kink, Fetish and Femdom Interests

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Role Reversal

You think you’re the man on top? Think again. In my kingdom, the woman always reigns supreme. I bet you watch a lot of Strapon Dominatrix Porn, don’t you?

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Bondage, In All Forms

What is the something that has captivated you most in a Dominatrix bondage video? I have everything the heart could desire: Beautiful Shibari Rope, Strict leather cuffs, Cold steel devices, Hoods and arm binders for all, straightjackets, sleepsacks for full encasement, cages to hold you all night, devices to keep you in just the right place. I have equipment to fit all your fancies.



Domination is such a simple concept but it has so many meanings. To give up control is the easiest way to describe it. What does it mean to you?


Corporal Punishment and Discipline

Have you been naughty? Do you need correction and encouragement t stay in line? Mistress is more than happy to help. Or Mommy/Ma’am if it’s something a little more domestic.


Tie and Tease

Explore the thrill of being expertly bound by your Mistress and then expertly teased.. What hits your buttons? Exquisite Rope bondage? Ridge Leather Cuffs? Handcuffs? Mummification, full encasement or a Sleepsack? A Steel Device that holds you exactly in place? Let’s explore together.

Let your guard down, allow my sensual touch to pull you in deeper, feel captured, experience strict control over your body- Quite Literally.


Sadism and Impact Play

Masochism is like the enjoyment of spicy food; It’s not for everyone. That’s okay, I’m not going to force anything upon anyone. However, you may find yourself begging for things you never ever fathomed once you’ve opened your mind a little and tasted the flavor of a very skilled whip.

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Chastity and Org*sm Control

Your pleasure belongs to me. It always has, you just didn’t know it If you’re in my presence, I can train you and exert control. If you aren’t, then I can control you remotely and instruct your daily routines. It feels good to know where you stand, doesn’t it?


Imprisonment and Long Scenes

Why stay for a short amount of time when I can lock you up and hold the key in my possession? Maybe I’ll be back shortly to torment you, maybe I’ll leave and return later. Your job to is make it through your imprisonment. I may give you a way out if you can’t stand it.

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Hypnosis and Mind Control

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Fall under my very literal spell- The Spell of Erotic Hypnosis. I will manipulate your mind and your experiences. All you need to do is say “Yes Mistress” when I say “Deep Sleep Now.”


Human Toilet

The ULTIMATE submission- Consuming what comes from your Goddess. First maybe you’re just into lovely asses or maybe you love scents like sweat. It spirals out of control until you need to explore more, fantasizing about everything waste related. Sweat Fetish, Scat Fetish, Golden Showers, Vore related fantasies..


Body Worship

Everything you do within our time together is for both of our enjoyments, is it not? You’re going to focus on me though. Do what I say, do what I like and follow my lead. You do want to be the best subject in my kingdom, don’t you?



Wear it up, wear it down, what’s the best way that you’ve found? Can you be the best I’ve ever seen? With a little instruction and some training, you bet your booty.


Medical Play

So many different ways to interpret those memories you have of uncomfortable doctor’s visits, fortunately we have the time and I have the equipment too back up my imagination.


Slave Training

Beyond kinks, fetish and playtime- Pledging your devotion to your Mistress shows that you are dedicated and trust that I am going to control and shape you in just the right ways for you. Everything from high protocol to domestic servitude and everything in between.



It feels so wrong and feels so right; So good to be broken down, to have all your hot buttons pushed



Bent over, over my knee or anyway I want it, you’ll love my firm handed spankings.


Sensory Play

Limiting one sense enhances another, you have heard this but have you ever truly experienced it? Not to the degree that I’m accustomed to.

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“Forced” Bi Fantasies

You’ve thought about… Going further than you could alone. So why not get some motivation from a beautiful woman like me? I’m more than happy to invite one of my beautiful friends over.. But you know, there’s always a catch.



Decadently hamulating and a real challenge of your ego. We both know you adore your Goddess but how far will you go to prove your submission?

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Taboo/Edge Play

If you have thought it, so have I. Familiarize yourself with my limits (no harm, no true non consent, etc) and we can discuss what you so desperately long to share.


Foot Fetish

My feet are size 9.5-10. They can dominated your face. They are sft, perfect and always well kempt, unless you beg me to do otherwise (aka, work out first.)

You will worship my feet, adore them and feel the glory of having the privilege of being at my feet., serving me.

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Outings, Events and FMTY

Where are we going? Am I picking? Do you have an event that you need company for? How about we visit that restaurant that I’ve been dying to try? Perhaps a destination? Should we make our adventure spicy? I have some things that might make that walk around the art museum a little more exciting. Think of me as your kinky event companion or your dominatrix on the DL. Don’t worry, I always come dressed to impress and passport ready.

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Nothing is quite as powerful as your entire body betraying you as take complete control, simply by the act of tickling you.


Boot and Shoe Fetish

My shoe and boot collection is so huge, there is no way you won’t find something you’ll fall deeply in love with. I have so many iconic pairs, but I’m always adding to my collection. Care to help me grow it or worship my collection?


Leather Fetish

Nothing can take the place of the delicious and intoxicating smell of leather.

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Latex Fetish

Catsuits, corsets, hoods, bondage and more, Oh my! Relish in the feel and look of everything shiny. Latex, PVC, Wetlook, Leatherette, and more!


Sissy Training

Do you need some protocol in your sissy education? Maybe some naughty roleplay where I catch you wearing panties? Even more daringly, I can mind control you to be whatever I want you to be.


Psychological Domination

Lower your guard down, trust your Mistress and allow yourself to go as deep into sub space as you want. Surrender completely to me, body and mind. Why would you say no when it feels so much better to say “YES MISTRESS! ANYTHING FOR YOU. ANYTHING YOU WANT.”


Protocol, Service & Maid Training

It feels good to be useful, doesn’t it? So good to be the best you can be. Allow me to shape you, train you and mold you into the perfect pet, slave or submissive. I adore training and I want to help you succeed and earn my praise.

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Human Furniture

Be my object of use: my furniture, my shoes.. Be Objectified , have your human elements stripped away. Is an animal underneath, perhaps a doll?

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Kinky roleplay from the normal fantasies such as teacher/student or nurse/patient to the wildly imaginative such as executrix or giantess. Let’s take on alternative roles and see what trouble we can find.


Breath Play

Drop your guard down, trust your Mistress and give yourself permission to go as deep into sub space as you want. Allow my hands or a device take control and take your breath away, literally. Let yourself give in and give up all semblance of control. Feel captured, experience the sense of being utterly breathless.

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Film and Photography

Have you ever wanted to be a film slave? A Porn Star? Had your own boudoir photoshoot? Fabulous. This is for you then. My filmed sessions (for my use) require a certain length, are structured and I require you to sign a release. For your own personal enjoyment, we can add film or photography to our scene, varying in degrees of complexity and commitment.


Fitdommme/Weight Loss

Sometimes you need a little help achieving the goals you set. Perhaps you need motivation, accountability or someone to set your goals for you. I’m always happy to be your motivation.

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Wet and Messy Fetish

Think of the satisfaction you get from being messy or cleaning up a mess. Good. Now think about how much better it would be with my instruction.

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You will be under foot, used as my foot stool and trampled.


ABDL & Mommy

You need a mommy in your life? Some diaper time perhaps?

Like all human beings my interests vary wildly from day to day and depending on the person.

The above is by no means definitive list of my skills nor my expertise. I don’t think a list of check boxes can encompass the essence of someone’s energy in person or their style. That being said I do think there is value to be had in a sharing similar vocabulary, even if it’s just a bridge for connection. Each connection is unique and special and sometimes it can be tricky to find the same language.

I’m often asked what my favorite thing is and what a better question to ask to be is “How do you feel about our connection today?”

When it comes to play, getting inside your head and playing with control is my favorite. Finding the right mood for that is where the magic is.