Explore a summary of my kink, femdom and bdsm interests on this page.
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Keep in mind this is not an exclusive list, merely an example of my interests and is meant to give you an idea of my style and approach towards BDSM.
It is my hope that this list will help us find common ground within our interests.

I do not discriminate and I invite everyone to approach if they are in the position to do so. I love introducing people to BDSM, helping people explore deeper and encouraging them to explore themselves. I view scenes as collaborative, at least the a sense that we both bring our interests to the table then I take you on a journey that you help guide with your reactions and responses.
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BDSM & Domination Session Styles

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Sensual Domination

Why fear when you can explore? Explore the softer side of BDSM, let me be your guide. Submit to Mistress, of course and allow me to show you that even though I own many whips, I use them so expertly that they don’t always have to be brutal.

Classic Domination Sessions

Explore yourself, under my control. Find the right pace and for your exploration, as I range from strict and stern to playful and sultry. What fits your style?

Long Distance Domination

Sometimes the perfect Mistress isn’t in your locale or there are limitations that prevent you from seeing her in person. Let’s get to know each other online and I will bend you to my will.


Couples Domination Sessions

Are you a couple? Perhaps you’re interested in what it would be like to see a dominatrix together. Would you both be submissive? Would we team up on one of you? Let’s find out how our dynamic plays together.


Sessions for Women

I offer my expertise to everyone and I invite women to explore with me. If you’ve been curious about BDSM, kink or intimacy, why not drop me a line? I would love to help you expand your horizons, help you build upon your experiences, help you feel more confident and positive.


BDSM Lessons & Education

Curious about something and want to pick my brain? Great! I’d love to teach you. Want to learn a hands on skill? I’m more than happy to teach you.

Domination, Kink, Fetish and Femdom Interests

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Role Reversal

You could just call it p*gging but where is the fun in that? In my kingdom, the woman always reigns supreme.


Bondage, In All Forms

Explore all types of bondage with me as your guide. I have everything the heart could desire: Beautiful Rope, Strict leather cuffs, Cold steel devices, Hoods and arm binders for all, straightjackets, sleepsacks for full encasement, cages to hold you all night, devices to keep you in just the right place.. I have equipment to fit all your fancies.



Domination is such a simple concept but it has so many meanings. To give up control is the easiest way to describe it. What does it mean to you?


Tie and Tease

Explore the thrill of being expertly bound by your Mistress and then expertly teased.. What hits your buttons? Exquisite Rope bondage? Ridge Leather Cuffs? Handcuffs? Mummification, full encasement or a Sleepsack? A Steel Device that holds you exactly in place? Let’s explore together.

Let your guard down, allow my sensual touch to pull you in deeper, feel captured, experience strict control over your body- Quite Literally.


Corporal Punishment and Discipline

Have you been naughty? Do you need correction and encouragement t stay in line? Mistress is more than happy to help. Or Mommy/Ma’am if it’s something a little more domestic.

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Chastity and Org*sm Control

Your pleasure belongs to me. It always has, you just didn’t know it If you’re in my presence, I can train you and exert control. If you aren’t, then I can control you remotely and instruct your daily routines. It feels good to know where you stand, doesn’t it?

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Hypnosis and Mind Control

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Fall under my very literal spell- The Spell of Erotic Hypnosis. I will manipulate your mind and your experiences. All you need to do is say “Yes Mistress” when I say “Deep Sleep Now.”


Imprisonment and Long Scenes

Why stay for a short amount of time when I can lock you up and hold the key in my possession? Maybe I’ll be back shortly to torment you, maybe I’ll leave and return later. Your job to is make it through your imprisonment. I may give you a way out if you can’t stand it.


Body Worship

Everything you do within our time together is for both of our enjoyments, is it not? You’re going to focus on me though. Do what I say, do what I like and follow my lead. You do want to be the best subject in my kingdom, don’t you?


Sadism and Impact Play

Masochism is like the enjoyment of spicy food; It’s not for everyone. That’s okay, I’m not going to force anything upon anyone. However, you may find yourself begging for things you never ever fathomed once you’ve opened your mind a little and tasted the flavor of a very skilled whip.



I have makeup, wigs, clothes and the styling skills to put you together, all you will need is all little training from Mistress.


Human Toilet

The ULTIMATE submission- Consuming what comes from your Goddess. First maybe you’re just into lovely asses or maybe you love scents like sweat. It spirals out of control until you need to explore more, fantasizing about everything waste related. Sweat Fetish, Scat Fetish, Golden Showers, Vore related fantasies..


Medical Play

So many different ways to interpret those memories you have of uncomfortable doctor’s visits, fortunately we have the time and I have the equipment too back up my imagination.


Slave Training

Beyond kinks, fetish and playtime- Pledging your devotion to your Mistress shows that you are dedicated and trust that I am going to control and shape you in just the right ways for you. Everything from high protocol to domestic servitude and everything in between.

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Film and Photography

Have you ever wanted to be a film slave? A Porn Star? Had your own boudoir photoshoot? Fabulous. This is for you then. My filmed sessions (for my use) require a certain length, are structured and I require you to sign a release. For your own personal enjoyment, we can add film or photography to our scene, varying in degrees of complexity and commitment.



It feels so wrong and feels so right; So good to be broken down, to have all your hot buttons pushed



Bent over, over my knee or anyway I want it, you’ll love my firm handed spankings.


Sensory Play

Limiting one sense enhances another, you have heard this but have you ever truly experienced it? Not to the degree that I’m accustomed to.

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“Forced” Bi Fantasies

You’ve thought about… Going further than you could alone. So why not get some motivation from a beautiful woman like me? I’m more than happy to invite one of my beautiful friends over.. But you know, there’s always a catch.

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Nothing is quite as powerful as your entire body betraying you as take complete control, simply by the act of tickling you.



Decadently hamulating and a real challenge of your ego. We both know you adore your Goddess but how far will you go to prove your submission?

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Taboo/Edge Play

If you have thought it, so have I. Familiarize yourself with my limits (no harm, no true non consent, etc) and we can discuss what you so desperately long to share.


Foot Fetish

My feet are size 9.5-10. They can dominated your face. They are sft, perfect and always well kempt, unless you beg me to do otherwise (aka, work out first.)

You will worship my feet, adore them and feel the glory of having the privilege of being at my feet., serving me.


Boot and Shoe Fetish

My shoe and boot collection is so huge, there is no way you won’t find something you’ll fall deeply in love with. I have so many iconic pairs, but I’m always adding to my collection. Care to help me grow it or worship my collection?


Leather Fetish

Nothing can take the place of the delicious and intoxicating smell of leather.


Sissy Training

Do you need some protocol in your sissy education? Maybe some naughty roleplay where I catch you wearing panties? Even more daringly, I can mind control you to be whatever I want you to be.

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Outings, Events and FMTY

Where are we going? Am I picking? Do you have an event that you need company for? How about we visit that restaurant that I’ve been dying to try? Perhaps a destination? Should we make our adventure spicy? I have some things that might make that walk around the art museum a little more exciting. Think of me as your kinky event companion or your dominatrix on the DL. Don’t worry, I always come dressed to impress and passport ready.

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Latex Fetish

Catsuits, corsets, hoods, bondage and more, Oh my! Relish in the feel and look of everything shiny. Latex, PVC, Wetlook, Leatherette, and more!


Fitdommme/Weight Loss

Sometimes you need a little help achieving the goals you set. Perhaps you need motivation, accountability or someone to set your goals for you. I’m always happy to be your motivation.

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Wet and Messy Fetish

Think of the satisfaction you get from being messy or cleaning up a mess. Good. Now think about how much better it would be with my instruction.


Protocol, Service & Maid Training

It feels good to be useful, doesn’t it? So good to be the best you can be. Allow me to shape you, train you and mould you into the perfect pet, slave or submissive. I adore training and I want to help you succeed and earn my praise.


Psychological Domination

Let your guard down, trust your Mistress and give yourself permission to go as deep into sub space as you want. Let my hands or a device take control and take your breath away, literally. Let yourself give in and give up all semblance of control. Feel captured, experience the sense of being utterly breathless.


Breath Play

Let your guard down, trust your Mistress and give yourself permission to go as deep into sub space as you want. Let my hands or a device take control and take your breath away, literally. Let yourself give in and give up all semblance of control. Feel captured, experience the sense of being utterly breathless.

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Kinky roleplay from the normal fantasies such as teacher/student or nurse/patient to the wildly imaginative such as executrix or giantess. Let’s take on alternative roles and see what trouble we can find.

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Human Furniture

Be my object of use: my furniture, my shoes.. Be Objectified , have your human elements stripped away. Is an animal underneath, perhaps a doll?

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You will be under foot, used as my foot stool and trampled.

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ABDL & Mommy

You need a mommy in your life? Some diaper time perhaps?

Like all human beings my interests vary wildly from day to day and depending on the person.

The above is by no means definitive list of my skills nor my expertise. I don’t think a list of check boxes can encompass the essence of someone’s energy in person or their style. That being said I do think there is value to be had in a sharing similar vocabulary, even if it’s just a bridge for connection. Each connection is unique and special and sometimes it can be tricky to find the same language.

I’m often asked what my favorite thing is and what a better question to ask to be is “How do you feel about our connection today?”

When it comes to play, getting inside your head and playing with control is my favorite. Finding the right mood for that is where the magic is.