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10 Essential BDSM Toys for Beginners

Everyone has to start somewhere, this is a BDSM toy guide for anyone starting a collection. I wanted to share my favorite BDSM toys and gear I think is essential for any kit in an easy format. Whether you are a domestic dominatrix in training, a couple looking to spice things up or a loyal sub with dreams of having the perfect toy kit, this list is for you. Strap on harness Every dominatrix needs a good harness that fits well, is comfortable and gets the job done right. For the beginning dominatrix you might think “I will get a kit” but that is a mistake. Strap on kits usually come with a nylon strap harness and dildos that are so-so (usually too big or too small.) It may take a while to figure out what you like best but my favorite is The Jag by Aslan Leathers I like thong harnesses that can be converted and the leather is treated so it’s easy to clean and doesn’t break down over time. Dildos It will take a while for anyone who is a beginner dominatrix to figure out what kind of dildos they like but I recommend materials that are body safe over jelly toys or PVC. I think it’s important to make sure it’s easy to clean/cover as well. Tantus has a great selection of toys to choose from that come in a variety of colors and sizes. Restraints  Restraints are very personal in their appeal. Maybe you’re a …

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What type of sub are you?

What is your submissive play style? A while ago I retweeted an image on Twitter roughly about different types of subs. That image is somewhat inaccurate, I think but I retweeted it because I thought it was funny and I didn’t expect people to really ask me about it. Then I started thinking about different types of “subs” for a lack of a better term. I have often thought about the different driving forces behind what composes kink, BDSM, fetish, etc, however that is a post for a different day. So I began thinking about the motivations behind each different type of sub I have observed. There will be a follow up to this post because I think there are more sub classifications beyond just these. So, why does it matter what type of sub/what your play style is? (I think your play style is actually more accurate.) It gives you more information about yourself and what you’re seeking out of your interactions with your Domme/Mistress/etc. Also, keep in mind that people use titles with their own discretion so “slave” may mean something to one person but something completely different to another person. It’s always important to ask when negotiating. (For example in online Domme communities “slave” basically means “submissive man” whereas in lifestyle BDSM communities a “slave” refers to someone that is “owned property” and is usually a relationship title rather than something you just call someone.) So these titles are in part borrowed from what I have observed …

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Clip: Mind Controlled Suggestion- SUCK COCK

You will have no idea what’s about to come over you, you won’t even be aware of what’s happening or the craving that’s growing inside of you. It will creep up slowly, first as a passing curiosity then as a slight craving building into a lust and finally a need. A need for cock. You will lose all control at my hands. The need to SUCK COCK will consume you like you will consume cocks, for me, your Mistress. You need to SUCK COCK. It calls to you, you need it in your mouth. You crave the taste, the smell, the texture, the sensation. You’re not aware of why or how, you’re just aware that you NEED it and you NEED it NOW. You thought you needed women but you were wrong, you need and DESERVE COCK. Isn’t that right? Purchase Here:  IWantClips • Clips4Sale • ManyVids • AVNStars • ModelHub • OnlyFans Order a Custom Clip! Subscribe for Daily Femdom Content: Onlyfans • Premium Snapchat • MVCRUSH • AVNStars

Clip: Mind Controlled Teasing Right to the Edge

Look directly into the spiral, slave. I’m going to drive you to the edge of control but you’re not allowed to spill over it, you understand? You have to play my little game, pay close attention. Watch closely and fall under my spell. You won’t be able to look away and you won’t be able to cum unless I let you, until I want you too, if I want you too. That’s a big if, isn’t it? Maybe I’ll just keep you in limbo forever. Right on the edge, without any control over your own body. Purchase Here:  IWantClips • Clips4Sale • ManyVids • AVNStars • ModelHub • OnlyFans Order a Custom Clip! Subscribe for Daily Femdom Content: Onlyfans • Premium Snapchat • MVCRUSH • AVNStars

Clip: Brainwashing Mantra – Give Me Whatever I Want

You can’t resist me, you never could. Now you have no choice. Give me what I want. I’ll make it easy by putting you under my spell. Good boy. Now repeat after me “I am a weak minded, useless man who needs the direction and guidance of women to shape me. Thank you, Mistress Ruby…

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Clip: Seduced Coercion Intox Drinking Game

It’s saturday night and you’re bored, I’m bored too. I have a fun game to play, are you ready for a challenge? Good, just look into my venomous eyes and have a little gaze. It makes you feel intoxicated doesn’t it? Good. That’s just the beginning. Now things are going to get fun. Let’s get…

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Clip: Coerced Blackmail Fantasy – Now You’re My Bitch

Oops, did you mean to do that? I don’t think so. I just put you under and forced you to please me and do give me whatever information I see fit. Hahah! Now you have to do whatever I say! Using my deliciously sweet pussy I’m going to tease you into giving me control over…

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Clip: Your Ex Left You Because of Findom

You thought you were a man? That’s funny. You can only get hard to chicks humiliating you. You’re not even a boy. You’re some kind of worm or fungus maybe. That’s why I left you. You could never get hard. You’re pathetic and it’s time you admit it, you’re addicted to findom and I’m going…

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Clip: Orgasmic Mind Control – Hands Free Orgasm Training 1

Oh, my deliciously obedient pet- You’ve been so good lately that I’ve decided to reward you with my powerful mind control for pleasure. Although I can’t promise I won’t abuse it, I’m going to start training you to not require any contact at all in order to orgasm. As long as you relax, obey and do exactly as I tell you to. I know that you’re obedient and want to please me so there’s no doubt you will. Not that you have much choice, we both know you can’t fight against my hypno powers- You’re a fly caught in my never ending web. Soon enough, you’ll need to hear or read a single phrase uttered by your Mistress in order to achieve bliss. Purchase Here:  IWantClips • Clips4Sale • ManyVids • AVNStars • ModelHub • OnlyFans Order a Custom Clip! Subscribe for Daily Femdom Content: Onlyfans • Premium Snapchat • MVCRUSH • AVNStars