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How to Achieve Happiness with Your Vanilla Partner as a Submissive

By / Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics

Cross posted from DommeDose.com How to Achieve Happiness with Your Vanilla Partner as a Submissive By Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls – http://www.duchessofdebauchery.com As a professional dominatrix, I speak with many men who have the desire to be controlled by a powerful (and often manipulating) woman. Unfortunately for these men, general society dictates that women should be subservient, docile, and obedient towards their male counterparts. As a result, submissive men often find themselves frustrated in marriages with women who, for all their wonderful qualities, aren’t taking control. These relationships don’t have to fail, and can end up being quite successful, and I’m …

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A Very Sweet Note and Some Thoughts

By / It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics, Please The Mistress, Praise, prodomme

Upon request one of my lovely submissives, P. wrote this for me to surmise his experience with me. I don’t think I’ll ever get tired of reading about the wonderful experiences that I’ve helped create for other people. Knowing that I can make someone’s day, week, month, year or even lifetime is immensely flattering, enthralling and inspiring; It truly makes me feel like I’m making the world a little bit brighter, in my own weird way. “I just want to say a little something about Ruby.I have never seen a “pro” before so she was my first experience there, and as …

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Kink Influences

By / how to be a dominatrix, Humor, Please The Mistress

If you know me, it’s no secret that I’ve been kinky effectively since I could walk. Previously, I’ve just accepted this as my reality and left it at that but recently I’ve begun thinking about my influences and how they shaped who I am and what I like. Today I’m going to share a few of my influences and what I liked about them. Xenia Onatopp Have you watched Golden Eye? It was my favorite movie for years, starting with the first time I ever watched it when I was probably 4 or 5. I’m not sure why my parents …

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A Lucky Boy in Chastity

By / Chronicle of Deviant Behavior, D/s, Erotica, how to be a submissive, It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Please The Mistress, power exchange, Praise, seattle chastity, Seattle Domina, seattle domination, Seattle Dominatrix, Seattle Mistress

Here are several more paragraphs from the Lucky Boy about his experiences in chastity, getting a reward, disappointing me and my response to the disappointment. Enjoy! Miss Ruby took me to her space, tied me and blindfolded me. Now, I had been told not to wear my chastity cage that night so, there I was blindfolded, pants around my legs and my cock hard, dripping and aching for Miss Ruby. I had no idea what would come next and her mastery at being in charge only fueled my sexual desires even more. Miss Ruby invaded my ass, stroked my cock, …

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The Hidden Benefits of Good Toys

By / Advice, Thoughts & General Opinions, Humor, sadism, Toy Reviews

You might think I’m thick for stating this but I’ll do it anyways; Quality really is worth it.Unfortunately, quality is not cut and dry; Some expensive things suck and some cheap things are awesome. For example, I’ll compare two kinds of handcuffs: $10 Thumb Cuffs and $45 Deluxe Steel Handcuffs. The “Deluxe” cuffs I bought in my youth when I was tormenting a boyfriend, unfortunately… They were crap. I spent a little chunk of change on them and  I only used them once or twice because they didn’t feel good, they weren’t fun to use and they weren’t really that …

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A Collection of Thank Yous

By / Praise, prodomme

I decided to go through my emails today and reading some of the thank you’s I’ve received from some of the people I’ve had contact with has made me very, very happy. Lucky for you, I’ve decided to make a small catalog of some of the thank you emails I’ve received so that other people can read them and feel some of the wonderful vibes that others have sent my way. 🙂  I hope the writers of these little notes don’t mind that I’m sharing them. To be blunt, reading little sweet things or stories that people write for me …

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The Ultimate Submissive Relationship

By / Chronicle of Deviant Behavior, D/s, how to be a submissive, It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics, Please The Mistress, power exchange

The following is a write up I asked of one of my long distance submissives. This write up is about what his idea of the perfect dominant/submissive looks like and what submission means for him. I have always thought of submission as the ultimate gift to a Dominant partner. The biggest fear is that the Dominant will not view this gift to be as special as the person giving it. I think it’s very important to be treated well as a sub. If I feel special to a Dominant I will move mountains for them. I also think it is …

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A Lucky Boy

By / Chronicle of Deviant Behavior, D/s, Erotica, how to be a submissive, Please The Mistress, power exchange, Praise

The following is a paragraph from a short story that I asked my new house boy to write after having met me. I enjoyed reading it so much that I thought I would share it with everyone. 🙂 It could be pheromones, it could be that she’s fucking gorgeous, it could be her natural presence of a strong and successful woman who knows what she wants and how to get it or, maybe it’s all of those and more rolled into one irresistible package. What I do know, is the moment Miss Ruby walked into that café I didn’t care …

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Seeking a Submissive

By / Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics

Up until very, very recently I had allowed a boy who started seeing me professionally to connect with me on a more personal basis and I was about to collar him as my submissive. That being said, you may have noticed that I am talking about this person in past tense which is because he violated my trust in a way that shook our friendship down to its core and I’m not sure if it’s repairable. Fortunately, some good has come out of this situation. Namely that I remembered how nice it was having a dedicated submissive. Keeping in mind …

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