Seattle Dominatrix

Things relating to and involving being a Seattle dominatrix.

Praise: Ruby is a Gem!

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Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

I had been an admirer of Ruby- who wouldn’t be? She’s got that sultry siren of the silver screen look and everything she writes indicates she is a warm and intelligent person. Set up was easy. I emailed her about the kind of session I desired. The day of the session she wasn’t feeling well and wanted to reschedule. We couldn’t find a date that worked so she said she’d rally. And she did. I was glad. When I got to her place she was dressed to the nines. Smoking hot. We got into our session that had some roleplay She took my cues and played it up perfectly. She is super insightful and read my desires well. After the session, we talked about her incall that she designed and remodeled herself. The place is beautiful, detail oriented, well organized, sensual, and luxurious- like Ruby herself. I feel like I just experienced a fraction of what this complex beauty has to offer, but I enjoyed our time immensely and hope to lose myself in her beauty and charm again.

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Praise: Hypericin Loves Ruby

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Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

As ever, I was shy and awkward when I met her, but she was very adept at putting me at ease. If *I* can feel at ease within minutes of meeting her, I think you can safely say your first time jitters won’t be an issue. She is very smart, funny, and even a bit goofy, a welcome change from some other dominas who take themselves all too seriously. And, pictures truly do not do her justice; she is beautiful, to the point where I had a hard time keeping from staring at her (Ruby, I hope this wasn’t *too* creepy!!))

Soon we were wrestling, which is what I had in mind for the session. Right away, it felt easy, fun, natural, and very arousing. Wrestling fans, take note: this girl is *strong*! You wouldn’t know it looking at her, but… I am a tall and fairly strong guy, and in the past I would let my wrestling partner win. This wasn’t necessary with Ruby, and in fact she was a bit irritated when she noticed me doing that. I will have to bring my “A” game next time, because this time I was thoroughly (and happily) defeated.

Then, with as little warning as “I usually do what I want…”, she led me to her play room, and tied my hands together, and my leg to the ceiling, so that I was completely at her mercy.

I am grateful for the time I got to spend with this Amazon. What I think is the most valuable of what she brings to the table is her willingness to engage and connect with her victims. She genuinely enjoys what she does, as opposed to some others, who are basically pandering to fetishes for pay. This results in a mutual and intimate shared experience, one which I am looking forward to repeating. Thanks Ruby

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Ideas Worth Spreading

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I am crazy about Ted Talks. I love the way they make me feel, I love the concept… I just love everything about them. I started watching them when I was in high school and I immediately dug the concept; A place where intelligent folks come together to share beautiful ideas with the world. Fuck. Yes. So I decided to create a list of my favorite Ted Talks, not in any particular order. These are all talks that I have found inspirational, educational, heart warming, surprising, funny or just a good reminder of things I should keep in mind.

The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown

Listening to Shame by Brene Brown

Looks Aren’t Everything. Believe Me, I’m a Model by Cameron Russell

The Art of Asking by Amanda Palmer

How to Stop Screwing Yourself by Mel Robbins

How to Speak So That People Want to Listen by Julian Treasure

5 Ways to Listen Better by Julian Treasure

The Price of Shame by Monica Lewinski

How to Spot a Liar by Pamela Meyer

Why Thinking You’re Ugly is Bad for You by Meaghan Ramsey

The World Needs All Kinds of Minds by Temple Grandin

Strange Answers to the Psychopath Test by Jon Ronson

The Voices in My Head by Eleanor Longden

My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor

Being Just Crazy Enough by Joshua Walters

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Updates to the site (Plus Pictures!)

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As some of you may have noticed, I have added a bunch of new photos to my website and social media! Thanks to the wonderful Chris Blakeley, I have a gorgeous, high drama photo set for you all to perv on.

I have also added and made changes to my duo partners list by adding photos, descriptions and new folks!

As far as my personal life I am currently dealing with tax season (which is more annoying and time consuming than anything but at the end of the day, supporting my fellow humans is important to me) and I have a new relationship with a lovely little lady from Canada who will hopefully be spending the summer with me to apprentice under me and make horrible videos.
rubber ducky, you're the one

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Let’s be fucking honest here, who doesn’t want to watch me hit that?
Maybe if you’re a good boy I’ll let you clean up afterwards. 😉

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Next Month is My Birthday!

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Well, it has been a while, hasn’t it? Between travel, taxes, working and getting everything organized I have had little time to work on sites.

In light of my birthday this coming month (April) I have decided to offer a free 30 minute upgrade to anyone else whose birth month is April or who has seen me 3 or more times! 🙂

Also, I am debating throwing a play party. 🙂

In case you were interested in getting me something for my birthday, here is my wishlist.
Louboutin So Kate in Black, size 40
Erostek ETB312B
Winter Fetish PVC catsuit with bust cups in Black, size Medium tall
Clear PVC underbust corset with black boning and black eyelets, size large
We vibe 4 Plus in Pink or Purple 😉 Long distance girlfriend, ftw
Hitach Magic Wand, I want like 4 of them. Seriously.
Fun Factory Share XL, either color. Did I mention, girlfriend?
Or anything from my Amazon Wishlist/a gift card from one of my favorite stores!

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Praise: Outstanding BDSM

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Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

I’ve always been interested in the world of kink and wondered how I might fit into the BDSM equation. It’s not my main cup of tea, but I thought I’d like to do some exploring of sexual territory, and Ruby seemed like a perfect guide.

She has spent a lot of time making her space look like a vintage gentleman’s private club.

I was immediately taken with her looks and her poise. She is beautiful, sexy and powerful – and she was wearing a latex dress! Hot!

I wasn’t sure what to do or expect, so she led me over to a comfortable spot for lounging and we proceeded to chat and then make out passionately. She is a fantastic kisser and we engaged in some heavy fondling before she finally ushered me into her inner chamber.

The inner space was furnished with a massage table and a gasp inducing array of equipment and bondage gear. I was turned on and terrified. She clamped a thick leather collar around my neck when I wasn’t looking which only heightened my feelings of arousal. Restraints were applied quickly and efficiently which allowed me some movement but not freedom. I always thought being tied up would be frustrating to me, but it was exhilarating to have something to struggle and writhe against.

The rest of the time was spent with her working me into a state of frothy sexual excitement, with pauses and changes to let me ride the feeling. She talked and soothed sexily the entire time. Her voice a constant turn on as well as her words. I shared with her my darkest fantasies, and she purred and coaxed me to give her more. I was only happy to.

Thank you Ruby. You are one of a kind.

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Praise: Need a Software Upgrade?

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Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

I’ve been mulling around how to write this review for awhile, and I hope it will do the session justice.

First the mechanics, set up was easy. I had the pleasure of doing a meet and greet a few weeks before the session, a nice dinner and drinks. I didn’t have time to see her that night, but I wish I had. When I was able to get my schedule aligned with hers we finally met up. Leading up to the meeting we texted back and forth which allowed us to get to know each other better and start building a real connection. That genuine connection carried through our session and time together.

Miss Ruby was extremely generous with her time and she was more than true to her FBSM menu. Our time together was far more than any set of menu items, or experiences. In many ways, I don’t have the words to describe the experience, but it transcended far beyond anything I’ve experienced in the hobby. Ruby has a gift with her hands, and in many ways, she can ‘see’ the dysfunction in your body. She has a true gift for body work, and she was able to make corrections to the way my joints and muscles functioned. My joints hurt significantly less than they did before.

Just as she is gifted with her hands, she is also gifted with her mind, sensuality, and empathy. She put me completely at ease (which any of the other ladies I’ve seen can tell you is no small feat). She tapped in to parts of my psyche that I didn’t understand even existed. She helped me see a side of me that I had buried and ignored. The work through our discussions, emotions, and feelings gave me a new perspective on myself.

If you’re looking for a connection, physically, emotionally, and mentally Miss Ruby is the woman for you. Respect her, and treat her right and she will leave you feeling undeniably better than when you met and you will want more.

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Praise: Sensual Foot Fetish

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Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

Ruby and I have chatted a little via emails over the last couple of weeks and I have to say that my growing interest in her was due in part to her sense of humor and just her overall take on life. Plus she is a sexy and intelligent woman who owns hundreds of high heel shoes, SOLD! She also has a pretty impressive website, it’s got lots of great pics (the pretzel pose is my fav!) and it also has various services to choose from. I opted for more of a fbst kind of session which was perfect because she’s a very sensual provocateur. She is also a dominatrix and some of her fantasy scenarios are not for the faint at heart! < –> sidebar: Will someone please do the slut training and let me how it goes!

At my request she let me know in advance that she was coming to Portland, so I scheduled days ahead in anticipation of finally meeting her. Boy was it worth it! If you’re a fan of sensual and mutual touch, with a little femdom thrown in, she will curl your effin toes! She made me squirm like no other and enjoyed every minute of it. Her eyes are piecing and her smile is wicked, but her propensity for giving pleasure, whether it be through domination or relaxation, is truly from the heart. For me personally, having someone as gorgeous as her whisper naughty things my in my ear, is one of life’s sweet treats.

..and her kisses, fuggetaboutit!

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