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Top 5 Questions Everyone asks a Dominatrix

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls in her seattle dungeon with a Slave

Have you ever wondered what your Dominatrix’ favorite bdsm activity is? Or how you can be a better a slave? Perhaps the following can point you in the right direction. Below are my 5 most frequently asked questions and my answers. You might find the questions and their answers a bit surprising. Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls has the answers to your questions and some tips.

What is your favorite thing to do in a session?

It depends on my connection with the person I’m playing with. Having overlapping interests is important. I’m big on bondage, predicaments and power exchange. I really enjoy mind fucks and getting to be creative. I often tend to get really into a theme for a while. A bit ago it was medical then ADBL, chastity roleplay scenarios, prisoner stuff… it’s always something and my specific interests seem to rotate and shift. I enjoy curating an experience for someone.. The more creative the better. I like longer scenes so I can build up ideas and get to know someone, knowing someone over a longer period of time helps with this as well. Nothing can beat intimate knowledge of the inner workings of someone.

What got you into BDSM and the Femdom lifestyle?

Like many of the people I talk to, I have been kinky for as long as I can remember. If you’ve read my about me, I talk about being kinky when I was pretty young, when it was literally just a game. I don’t see anything wrong with that, although many people I’ve spoken to want to find the reason they are into bdsm. This implies to me that it is something to be fixed when I don’t think that’s true. That’s like saying any preference is inherently wrong. It’s my belief that a homogeneous world is pretty dull, among other things.

But I digress. I’ve always had an interest in Bdsm and the very first adult images I found were femdom related. So it seems normal that I would trend that direction, especially considering that I was raised in a female dominant environment.

Are other people into my fetish?

The shortest answer is yes. I’ve played with many, many people and I can tell you with complete confidence that even if someone hasn’t engaged in your particular fetish, there’s definitely an interest. We live in a kinky world. The biggest barrier to entry is unfortunately, shame.

What do you find attractive in a submissive/slave?

The evil variation of this question is “will you go on a date with me” or worse “can I be your live in slave?” Before asking such questions, consider the one posed above and ask yourself “what do I like most about me?” Personally what I like most about my slaves is that they are considerate, kind and respectful. Every person I notice has a willingness to consider the needs and desires of others and makes an effort to do so. It’s often small things that make the biggest impressions.

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls is dressed in black latex with her latex slave in her Seattle BDSM Dungeon where she takes requests for Femdom and mistress sessions

What can I do to have the best session with my Domina?

Communicate! Clearly, honestly and respectfully. Sending a long fantasy and play by play isn’t particularly helpful to be completely honest. Writing out a list of yes’s and no’s, hard and soft limits and any specific things you want to try is a great way to start. I prefer to communicate such things at the beginning of the session unless there is something you think I won’t have or something that will need to be prepped for or negotiated. As we get to know each other more, I find that sometimes planning gets a bit more elaborate and more communication before we meet up is necessary or desired.

Hypnosis Trigger Word: PINK

You LOVE the color pink but it’s about to take on a whole new meaning for you. You’ve had some desires buried deep down that you can no longer ignore. The more you see the color pink, the more you can’t ignore its power over you.. More importantly, my control over you. The longer you listen, the less you can ignore your desires… Can you hold off your cravings or are you just going to keep watching on repeat?

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The Ultimate Femdom Gift Giving Guide

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What is the ultimate slave task? Understanding your Mistress. Think of your research into her/their preferences as slave training. Are you trying to impress your Mistress? Make her happy? GOOD. That is exactly what you should be doing as her loyal servant. A birthday shouldn’t pass without you celebrating with your Mistress. 

I’m turning 30 in the middle of April so I decided to create an easy guide for my loyal subs to find me a gift that we both will enjoy.

As with all gift giving, you should ask yourself “is this for them or is it for me?” The latter is fine but you should acknowledge that you are giving them a gift for you rather than investigating what they might want. If you want to knock it out of the ballpark, your best methods for success are research and paying attention. I think that successful gifting is based on how well you know someone’s love language which relates to their gift preferences.

  1. Service

Does your dominant talk about wanting to be able to do something or have something done but they don’t have the bandwidth, time or energy to do it themselves? Easy. If you can make it happen for them, do so. Ask questions if you aren’t sure of something. A great example of this is The Garden Path that one of my subs commissioned for me on my birthday a few years ago. I enjoy it immensely and it was one of the best gifts I’ve gotten.

  1. Something Useful

Everyone loves having that magic thing that fills a hole in their life or solves a problem, maybe one they didn’t know they had. In order to achieve this, you must know them well. A great example from my life is receiving a very nice set of knives when I started cooking. I didn’t know how amazing good knives are compared to the crappy ones I was using.

  1. Something Practical

Finding something practical that someone needs or wants is a pretty easy gifting opportunity and they will think of you whenever they use it. I have gotten tennis shoes, a sofa, clothes, kitchen items, things for my cats, gift cards that enabled me to complete a project or simply enjoy something. 

  1. Luxury Items

I feel that anything outside of the realm of what someone will normally spend on themselves is a luxury gift.Or an upgrade to something they already have. You usually have to ask or do research but it can be immensely exciting to get a gift that you wouldn’t buy for yourself. I’ve received jewelry, shoes, lingerie, dungeon furniture and a NAS set up to backup all my media.

  1. An Experience 

Do they talk about wanting to go somewhere or do something? Perfect! Whether it’s a trip to the spa or a trip to the beach, experiences are precious and the memory doesn’t fade. I’ve been taken on trips, taken to events, done crazy things and had my spa trips paid for. Big or small, I’ve loved every experience.

Clip: Stroke it For Me, Slave!


What a good boy you’ve been! Now that you’ve done all your chores for the day and made me happy, it’s time for your tease and denial tease training! After I’ve tied you up so you can’t escape I’m going to sit you on the floor in front of me with one hand free so you can play with yourself while I put on a little show for you. You better not cum without permission though, you understand me? If you cum, I’ll have to punish you severely and lock your cock up for a week! You’re such a lucky slave that I allow you to play with your cock and stare at my pussy at all! Now be a good boy and pay tribute to how much you adore me by getting nice and hard for your Mistress while I tease you with tiny glimpses. Don’t that just drive you insane? Beg for more, slave and I might show you more.

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Five Easy Daily Slave Tasks

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You are here because you want to earn my favour.
Of course the easiest way is to start by learning how to serve me and by learning all about me then contacting me to serve me.
How gracious and kind of me to give you the opportunity.
It’s not every day I allow you to win a place in my stable.
I’m going to give you 5 easy tasks that will slowly over time build our bond.

1 – You must have a picture of me somewhere in your house or as a wallpaper on your device.

The idea is that I will be watching you all the time.
Partners do this all the time – I’m your mistress; it’s one in the same.

2 – Five days a week, at least, you are to get down on all fours (or at least sit on the ground) and pray to me, or at least think of me, for five minutes.

Mornings are best, that’s what my other slaves say.

3 – It’s a punishment of sorts. You will write 20 lines daily.

For every mistake you make, add an extra 10 lines.

4 – You will be allowed only one orgasm per week. It must be while you are watching my videos.

You can have more if I give you explicit permission in a video.
But only once per video. No re-watching – that’s cheating.

5 – I expect you to wear a collar for me.

It is a symbol of your bond to me.
What matters is that it has my name on it.
Watch this video multiple times so that you are sure you have got it all.
If you have questions, ask me.

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Five Sissy Slut Tasks

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I hope you have all your accessories handy, my good little slut to be! I have a task for you! It’s going to be good so you better be ready.
Remember that video from before? The shopping list? Go get the list and make sure you have everything. I’ll wait.
First task: put on bra and panties like the good little slutty sissy that you are
Wear them under your clothes to work.
If anyone sees them, they’ll know you’re a little sissy for me, won’t they?
Second: Put your butt plug in and go to a strip club.
Buy a lap dance and tell her what you’re into
Have her humiliate you, like I do to you.
You’re going to have a great time being treated like trash by a stripper.
Third: put on makeup, lingerie, wig
Fourth: Take pictures and post on craigslist
Last: Offer blowjobs for me.
If you really have balls, are a real sissy for me, you will meet someone from craigslist and suck their cock for me.
You just had to be convinced that you are a little cocksucking sissy.
Are you going to puss out?
I bet you are jerking off to the idea of doing all of them.