It Makes Me Smile to Know This

Ideas Worth Spreading

By / Humor, It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics

I am crazy about Ted Talks. I love the way they make me feel, I love the concept… I just love everything about them. I started watching them when I was in high school and I immediately dug the concept; A place where intelligent folks come together to share beautiful ideas with the world. Fuck. Yes. So I decided to create a list of my favorite Ted Talks, not in any particular order. These are all talks that I have found inspirational, educational, heart warming, surprising, funny or just a good reminder of things I should keep in mind. The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown Listening to Shame by Brene Brown Looks Aren’t Everything. Believe Me, I’m a Model by Cameron Russell The Art of Asking by Amanda Palmer How to Stop Screwing Yourself by Mel Robbins How to Speak So That People Want to Listen by Julian Treasure 5 Ways to Listen Better by Julian Treasure The Price of Shame by Monica Lewinski How to Spot a Liar by Pamela Meyer Why Thinking You’re Ugly is Bad for You by Meaghan Ramsey The World Needs All Kinds of Minds by Temple Grandin Strange Answers to the Psychopath Test by Jon Ronson The Voices in My Head by Eleanor Longden My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor Being Just Crazy Enough by Joshua Walters

Updates to the site (Plus Pictures!)

By / Advice, Thoughts & General Opinions, D/s, Erotica, It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics

As some of you may have noticed, I have added a bunch of new photos to my website and social media! Thanks to the wonderful Chris Blakeley, I have a gorgeous, high drama photo set for you all to perv on. I have also added and made changes to my duo partners list by adding photos, descriptions and new folks! As far as my personal life I am currently dealing with tax season (which is more annoying and time consuming than anything but at the end of the day, supporting my fellow humans is important to me) and I have a new relationship with a lovely little lady from Canada who will hopefully be spending the summer with me to apprentice under me and make horrible videos. Let’s be fucking honest here, who doesn’t want to watch me hit that? Maybe if you’re a good boy I’ll let you clean up afterwards. 😉

Convince Ruby to Visit You; A Shut In on an Adventure

By / Humor, It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Please The Mistress, prodomme

For those of you who know me well, you may have noticed that there are a few places where you can almost always find me; Turns out I’m an agoraphobe so going out into the world is scary for me and I’ve gotten very good at avoiding going out into the world. I recently realized this because it came to my attention that the list of people I interact with face to face is very small and that I haven’t gone out in public with friends in…. An embarrassingly long time. Whoops. So of course I impulsively decided to go on a road trip to California, classic me. The last couple of days have been really hard for me because I’ve flat out refused to go outside because according to my brain “there are weird people who make a lot of noise outside. Oh god, are they drinking outside in day light? They are! And they’re playing MUSIC! I can’t possibly go there.” So because I’ve been scared of going outside I haven’t done much which has given me the opportunity to notice that I’m home sick. Awesome. Tonight I began giving it some real thought while debating where I should travel to next and I realized that I’m not scared of being outside, I’m scared of people. I spent a lot of my adolescence and young adulthood trying to find out where I fit in and I ended up in a lot of really awful social circles, in hopes …

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A Very Sweet Note and Some Thoughts

By / It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics, Please The Mistress, Praise, prodomme

Upon request one of my lovely submissives, P. wrote this for me to surmise his experience with me. I don’t think I’ll ever get tired of reading about the wonderful experiences that I’ve helped create for other people. Knowing that I can make someone’s day, week, month, year or even lifetime is immensely flattering, enthralling and inspiring; It truly makes me feel like I’m making the world a little bit brighter, in my own weird way. “I just want to say a little something about Ruby.I have never seen a “pro” before so she was my first experience there, and as we all know, first impressions are important. I admit I was a bit hesitant, with all that we hear nowadays about being set-up, ripped off, or worse in such circumstances, I was very cautious and a bit edgy.We met at a casual public place and walked to her place of business.Ruby soon made me feel at ease. She is not only very sexy, she is very real and very accommodating. We chatted a bit more so she could learn more about what I desired and my limitations. Although I was still feeling a bit self conscience of the large age difference between us, she never gave any indication that she was nothing but pleased to fulfill my fantasy scene.That being said, once our session began, I was in pure bliss. I won’t get into details, but I’m a pretty kinky dude, and she filled and fulfilled my desires as well …

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A Lucky Boy in Chastity

By / Chronicle of Deviant Behavior, D/s, Erotica, how to be a submissive, It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Please The Mistress, power exchange, Praise, seattle chastity, Seattle Domina, seattle domination, Seattle Dominatrix, Seattle Mistress

Here are several more paragraphs from the Lucky Boy about his experiences in chastity, getting a reward, disappointing me and my response to the disappointment. Enjoy! Miss Ruby took me to her space, tied me and blindfolded me. Now, I had been told not to wear my chastity cage that night so, there I was blindfolded, pants around my legs and my cock hard, dripping and aching for Miss Ruby. I had no idea what would come next and her mastery at being in charge only fueled my sexual desires even more. Miss Ruby invaded my ass, stroked my cock, clamped my nipples and took complete control over my willing body. I wasn’t allowed to cum and she brought me closer and closer to the edge and then back again. I had such a desire to cum but my desire to be good overcame it. Then she gave me permission to and I couldn’t. I wanted to so bad, I was right there on the edge and I tried and tried and Miss Ruby was being so good to me and giving me everything and more than I should have needed to cum but I just wouldn’t. It was like this frustrating combination of all my insecurities and having not cum in almost three weeks and I never came. After we were done and I was left frustrated, feeling like I had been a disappointment, Miss Ruby informed me that I was not allowed to cum and she also gave …

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The Ultimate Submissive Relationship

By / Chronicle of Deviant Behavior, D/s, how to be a submissive, It Makes Me Smile to Know This, Kink, BDSM & Fetish Topics, Please The Mistress, power exchange

The following is a write up I asked of one of my long distance submissives. This write up is about what his idea of the perfect dominant/submissive looks like and what submission means for him. I have always thought of submission as the ultimate gift to a Dominant partner. The biggest fear is that the Dominant will not view this gift to be as special as the person giving it. I think it’s very important to be treated well as a sub. If I feel special to a Dominant I will move mountains for them. I also think it is up to the sub to relinquish all control to the Dominant with trust they are making decisions in your best interest whether you agree with them or not. If these two parts are present in a relationship the sky is the limit. In my own situation I finally feel I have someone I trust enough to give my gift of submission to. She makes me want to be a better person, a better husband, and a better father. I love to do everything she ask and more because I know it makes her feel special. The things I would like to do in the future are encourage her to take more and more control. The more she controls me the more I know how much I mean to her. The great thing is she praises me doing things well which is as good as foreplay to my submissive nature. I …

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