Archive For The “Chastity” Category
There are so many different types of chastity cages to choose from, making a selection sometimes seems impossible. There are many different styles, materials, shapes, you name it! Which one is right for you? Hopefully I can shed some light on how to purchase a chastity device that will work for you by illuminating some critical consideration points.
Before we start with sizing we need to consider how you’ll use this device. Are you going to be locked up for an hour while you go out and get groceries for your Mistress? Is it a night of chastity for you, lucky boy? Perhaps something more long term like a week of being locked in your cage. Maybe something more intense still like a long term chastity contract that spans weeks, months or if you’re really lucky, years. Each duration has different considerations to make with the fit, sizing, materials and even locking devices.
Let’s start out with the basics
How to Size a Chastity Cage
How to Measure for a Chastity Device
Where do you need to measure for fitting a chastity device?
- The circumference of the shaft of the penis
- The length of the penis
- The circumference of the entire genital (below the base of the penis and the testicles)
You must take these measurements while your penis is soft then repeat them when it is erect to get adequate sizing.
The sizing for most chastity cages or devices tends to come in MM so convert your measurements into MM using Google.
How to Fit a Chastity Device Properly
Many basic devices offer a variety of different sizes of base rings (the ring that goes around the entirety of your genitalia.) This ring holds your chastity device in place and prevents it from falling off. Before purchasing a device take a piece of string the same length as one of the rings you are considering and feel how it feels tied around the base of your penis. This should give you an idea of the fit in that department.
As far as length, try to find a middle ground between your length when soft and when hard. However, that is kind of up to your discretion. Do you want that classic feeling of being cramped and unable to get erect? Lean closer to your soft measurement. Need more room for longer term wear? Go somewhere in the middle or go with the full length if possible.
Picking the right material is mostly a weight issue or a customization question. Do you like the weight of metal or do you not mind the extra effort to put on plastic? Silicone is easy in all of these areas but not secure. 3D printed is highly customized, covers all the bases but expensive and not good as a first choice.
As far as locks the biggest question is how trustworthy are you? Metal locks provide that extra security plus the classic literal keyholder element. The numbered plastic locks can be removed and put back on be crafty subs (for that matter the plastic cages can be broken with enough force.) So metal can’t be beaten in that regard (for the really enthusiastic chastity players you can find some pretty intense full metal belts.) However, is your chastity sub going through lots of airport security or is there another reason they might need to remove it? Bluetooth unlocking options such as apps are a great option. Bluetooth luggage locks are fun too but they can’t get wet. All of these are fun options with long distance training.
At the end of the day, trust is always a huge part of any type of play. Being kept in line or keeping someone in line is critical but a struggle loses it’s charm. 😉
Examples of Different Chastity Devices
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Different Styles of Chastity Cages
Your basic styles are the same: A place to put your penis and some type of ring that holds the cage securely in place. However what tends to vary is how the device goes on, how snugly it fits and how easy it is to put on. The devices with hinged rings are super easy to put on but not good for long term wear as they press. The metal tubes can be bulky and if the ring is the wrong size it can be difficult if not impossible to fit all your gear inside. The plastic devices are also difficult to put on at first and usually require lubricant or the aid of a q-tip. I wouldn’t recommend wearing a sound for long periods at all.
Chastity in Summary
Everything is customized to your fit, read descriptions, look at reviews and always measure first. It takes trial and error to get the right fit, I wouldn’t recommend getting the most expensive custom cage first until you’ve tried things out a bit. That being said if you are confident that you know what you want there are many options in that direction.
However, if the cage is uncomfortable or causes any swelling, bruising, burning, tingling, numbness, cold spots or discoloration remove it immediately. Some pretty nasty things can go wrong if you aren’t careful. Luckily, in a pinch your friendly neighborhood hardware store sells bolt cutters for under 20 bucks.
I hope this has helped you make some decisions about buying your chastity device! Feel free to reach out if you have any questions.
If you are interested in exploring chastity, I delight in being a keyholder. Check out my page about that here!
Resources:
https://lockedinlust.com/how-to-measure/
https://www.maturemetal.com/guide-to-measuring-your-penis-for-a-chastity-device/
https://lockthecock.com/blogs/chastity-fun/choosing-the-right-one
You are the weaker gender of the species, it’s time to admit it. Your cock is what makes you weak and women are what drive you to create and also destroy yourself- Sucks to be you. HAH! Fortunately, I hold the keys to your freedom and also your demise; Chastity. I am going to lock away your desires with the snap of my fingers and force you to be my little cuckolded bitch, just like you deserve. You can’t resist me and you might as well just give in to my erotic magic before you hurt yourself trying too hard to control yourself. We both know it won’t work anyways. I own your cock and you, now I own your mind too.
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Ugh… you again? Ewww.
What makes you think I want to spend time with losers like you? Have you seen me?
Always about you… disgusting.
You disgust me.
The only way you could ever get a woman like me is if you paid.
I’m gorgeous – look at me.
Get a real good look at what you’ll never fucking have.
Think about what you would do to get a chance to even get close to me.
What would you do? What would you pay?
Hand over everything to me, you disgusting vile little puke.
You and I both know that it’s not even worth staying in your bank account anyway.
You’re going to spend it on stupid shit.
Your dick rules you.
I can take whatever I want, anyway.
That control belongs to me.
It was never yours in the first place.
I’m laughing at you because you’re pathetic.
Jerking off to a woman humiliating you for not handing over my money (never was yours).
I bet your wallet’s thicker than your dick.
Does everyone at work laugh at you behind your back? I bet they do.
I can’t believe that men like you exist. Such a waste of air.
Every day, you’re going to go to work for your goddess to earn money for me.
If you don’t earn enough to buy me gifts, I expect you to suck dicks to earn extra money.
Visit my wish lists and buy things daily.
If you displease me, I will demand more.
Now go – give your goddess what was always mine.
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“Have you been good this week?” Says the Mistress to her Slave “Yes Mistress” he murmurs, desperate to please her. She is dismissive of his begging and replies “I’ve been so generous lately, haven’t I?” She’s allowed him to have pleasure, more so than normal. He is always kept under her control, each of his orgasms but one a week he must beg for.
Such a lucky boy he is, his cock was used as a toy for a sissy earlier that week. “You even got that blowjob, that you couldn’t come from.” She laughs at him and jabs at him with her heel, teasing him with what’s between her legs. “You’re insatiable and whiny.” He always wants more play, more orgasms than he is allowed. Most of the time she is kind. Not today.
“I see that look on your face.” She has a devious smile starting to curl at the corners of her mouth, he is in for some trouble tonight. “Is it hard for you to control your cock?” Oh no. What is she planning now? “I like owning cocks.” She states, commanding him to present himself. “Did you get hard for me?” She smiles wickedly. “You’re lucky I don’t make you wear a chastity device all the time.”
Such a naughty boy he is, always begging for orgasms, maybe she’ll take them away this time or maybe he’ll be punished… “You’re lucky your cock doesn’t get you into more trouble.” she says, remembering his previous escapades before she owned him. “Chastity devices are for naughty boys, aren’t they?”
“You like being a naughty boy, don’t you?” As if daring him to disobey her she asks
“I don’t think you’re going to like this kind of naughty…”
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You’ve been excited for this, haven’t you?
It’s been a while since you’ve had a good face slapping, hasn’t it?
(fingers in mouth)… (toes in mouth)… (heel in mouth)
Good boy.
Is that rough in your mouth?
(spits in his mouth)
(him sucking your fingers)…
If you’re good, maybe I’ll stick my cock in you later and stretch you out.
I like making you hurt for me.
Nothing else matters when you’re hurting for me, does it?
I like watching you endure for me.
Look at how nice I’m being.
(slaps face with gloves on)
Smell that leather.
(steps on cock)
It hurts, doesn’t it?
But you endure for me anyway, don’t you?
Are you gonna cry for me?
I like watching you put yourself through things that are difficult.
It shows me how devoted to me you are.
Even when it’s as simple as being on your knees.
I love seeing your devotion to me.
It’s so easy to see it when you push yourself through pain.
See that? That is true devotion.
Pushing yourself through trials and tribulations. That matters more than just about anything.
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I’ve got your two favorite things right here… hypnosis and pussy.
There’s nothing you can do but stare. I mean, since you’re already staring already.
I want you to think about what you want to do and what you wish you could do with me.
Just relax… watch either the pendulum, or my fingers. Whichever is most distracting.
Doesn’t matter what you stare at, I’ve got you under my spell.
You’ve been under the spell of women all along, haven’t you?
You want to please women, don’t you?
You think that you can please us sexually, but you can’t.
You’re inferior – you always have been.
Just keep watching… the longer you watch, the more sense this will make.
You want to make us happy but your cock is too small, isn’t it?
Somewhere deep down inside the pit of your being, you know I’m right.
Don’t get discouraged. It’s OK. It just means you should be a slave to women.
You shouldn’t offer us your cock, your erection, your pictures. It’s not your place.
You can look, but don’t you dare touch.
You know that it’s your place to look and admire.
You’re paying a toll right now, aren’t you?
You’re giving your mind over to me.
The longer you watch, the closer you are to climax.
The moment you climax, all this will be solidified.
You’ll be a slave with no hope of escape.
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Mesmerizing World of Ruby Enraylls
Desc: Welcome to my den, my reality, my world. I am a Goddess among men because I forced a shift to make it so. You can do that too, I’ll show you how. You’ll find that my world is superior to yours because I designed it myself, if you stay long enough you will be infected by my way of thinking and you’ll find your reality shifting. As long as you allow me into your head that is, you do want that, don’t you?
HEY! There’s been too much back talk and too much… Staring around these parts. If you’re going to stare I’m going to show you how to do it right. You understand me? I’m going to press this beautiful ass right up against your face and make you learn to appreciate it or gasp for trying. I’m sick of you thinking you can just stare without there being repercussions. This is not how this world works, you play by my rules and you’re going to love my ass MY way.
Press your face in nice and tight, you better take a deep breath first because this is going to be ruthless and I’m going to enjoy making you into my little faceseat ass slut as your punishment for staring.
Hi hubby! Don’t I look hot tonight? Look how slutty I look tonight! I’m going out on a date, but not with you. Sit down and look at how smoking hot I am and listen to me talk at length about the man I’m going out with and all the things I like about him that you’ll never be able to provide. I’ll show you what he gets to play with that you never will. Maybe if you buy me some shoes or a new Vuitton bag you’ll get a peek at what he gets!
Hahahah! Does that make you feel like a little loser? I bet it does! Can you smell my wet pussy? I’m getting turned on thinking about how much fun I’m going to have without you!
