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How to Size a Chastity Cage

There are so many different types of chastity cages to choose from, making a selection sometimes seems impossible. There are many different styles, materials, shapes, you name it! Which one is right for you? Hopefully I can shed some light on how to purchase a chastity device that will work for you by illuminating some critical consideration points. Before we start with sizing we need to consider how you’ll use this device. Are you going to be locked up for an hour while you go out and get groceries for your Mistress? Is it a night of chastity for you, lucky boy? Perhaps something more long term like a week of being locked in your cage. Maybe something more intense still like a long term chastity contract that spans weeks, months or if you’re really lucky, years. Each duration has different considerations to make with the fit, sizing, materials and even locking devices. Let’s start out with the basics How to Size a Chastity Cage How to Measure for a Chastity Device Where do you need to measure for fitting a chastity device? The circumference of the shaft of the penis The length of the penis The circumference of the entire genital (below the base of the penis and the testicles) You must take these measurements while your penis is soft then repeat them when it is erect to get adequate sizing. The sizing for most chastity cages or devices tends to come in MM so convert your measurements into …

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Sizing Corsets for Sissies, Feminization, and Crossdressing

Corset training can be an excellent part of any feminization routine or a wonderful set of sissy tasks. If you want to make your body more feminine, it’s a great way to do it without any big changes, so it’s a great option for a man, sissy or casual player to explore. They can range from cheap to very pricey depending on your needs, budget and how fancy you want to be. That being said, you can often get what you need for your closet without breaking the bank. I’m going to answer some basic questions that you may have about how to fit a corset, this is part one about picking a corset. I’m briefly touching on several other topics I’m going to cover later such as body types, corset styles and fabrics. If you would like an individual consultation about sizing any type of clothing or shoes or selecting make up based on your skin, please feel free to contact me. Moving along.. How do I measure for a corset? You need to measure your natural waist size in order to size a corset. You can measure your natural waist size one inch above your belly button. Once measured, always choose a corset 2-4 inches smaller than your natural waist to achieve the ‘hourglass’ effect. The amount you “size down” is how tight the corset will close and depending on your shape and the shape of the corset you should size accordingly. Always read size guides. Some fashion …

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Sizing Women’s Clothes for Sissies, Feminization & Crossdressing

All around the world, women lament the chore of trying to divinate the size of their clothes. When trying to figure out your size in women’s clothes as a Sissy, for feminization or crossdressing it gets a bit more complicated. 0 here, 12 there, 40 over there. It makes no sense. That’s just crossing countries. Try crossing brands. If I look into my jeans drawer I can find 26, 27, 28, 29, 2, 4, 6, xx small, small, medium and one size fits all. Who could possibly figure out how to order pants when you’re coming from a world of waist by length? I guess what I’m saying here is that no brand is standard in sizing when it comes to women’s clothing and the material and cut makes a huge difference in the fit. You never really know how something will fit until you have it on but usually size guides for sites will lend some help. The trick comes in several parts. This is an important tool you’ll need, however. Know your measurementsHowever you’re planning on dressing, you better take your bust, waist and hip. The bust is the biggest part of your chest, waist is the smallest, hip is the biggest part of your hips/butt. For bonus points, measure your neck, around your thigh, your bicep, the width of your shoulders, the length of your arm and the length of your leg. Now you can get fitted for anything! Read size chartsSeriously. If the site you’re ordering …

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