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A Response to a Complaint

What the f is going on with prices I’m not complaining really but holy shit, $300-$400 for an hour and no bbj or dato or daty Some of you providers are fucking smoking something! Oh ya, no reviews on some of them, just crazy That does actually sound like you’re complaining, at least a little. That being said, I know how frustrating it can be to want something out of your budget but that isn’t a reason to insult someone over it. Folks will set their rates at whatever works for them, if they are getting calls then it’s working. …

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Proper Communication Protocol with Your Mistress

A submissive’s thoughts on proper protocol Introduction to Communicating with my Mistress Mistress Ruby gave me the assignment to write to Her some about how to address your Mistress properly, make requests, share fantasies, and have respectful conversation. Also, i am to include a breakdown of dos’ and don’ts for each topic. She instructed me to have no limit on length, deliver it to Her by the end of the week, and to write it from my standpoint. A few initial thoughts about the assignment immediately ran through my head. First was gratitude, since this is the first writing assignment …

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Convince Ruby to Visit You; A Shut In on an Adventure

For those of you who know me well, you may have noticed that there are a few places where you can almost always find me; Turns out I’m an agoraphobe so going out into the world is scary for me and I’ve gotten very good at avoiding going out into the world. I recently realized this because it came to my attention that the list of people I interact with face to face is very small and that I haven’t gone out in public with friends in…. An embarrassingly long time. Whoops. So of course I impulsively decided to go …

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A Letter to the Women Whose Husband/Boyfriend is Seeing Me

I realize this is awkward for everyone involved, especially since I’m poly and morally against cheating but I have some things to say; Your husband/boyfriend/lover/whatever saw me, I don’t know if he told you but I’m sorry if he didn’t. It’s not my intention to steal him from you, to ruin your relationship, to hurt you, to hurt him or otherwise cause you harm. Honestly, it’s kind of up to him if he’s going to cheat but I understand if you hate me for it and I respect that; You have a right to be angry. I hope that my …

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The Problem with (Not) Sex Work

Let’s get something straight here, I’m a dominatrix by profession; I don’t have sex with people and I don’t engage in activities that escorts engage in. While I like the idea of fucking more people and consider myself a slut, I’m extremely germaphobic and I’ve made rules for myself dictating when it is and isn’t okay to allow people into my body; I feel like access to my most intimate of parts is something special and it’s not something I want to give out freely anymore. That doesn’t mean I look down on women who actually have penis in vagina …

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A Very Sweet Note and Some Thoughts

Upon request one of my lovely submissives, P. wrote this for me to surmise his experience with me. I don’t think I’ll ever get tired of reading about the wonderful experiences that I’ve helped create for other people. Knowing that I can make someone’s day, week, month, year or even lifetime is immensely flattering, enthralling and inspiring; It truly makes me feel like I’m making the world a little bit brighter, in my own weird way. “I just want to say a little something about Ruby.I have never seen a “pro” before so she was my first experience there, and as …

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A Collection of Thank Yous

I decided to go through my emails today and reading some of the thank you’s I’ve received from some of the people I’ve had contact with has made me very, very happy. Lucky for you, I’ve decided to make a small catalog of some of the thank you emails I’ve received so that other people can read them and feel some of the wonderful vibes that others have sent my way. 🙂  I hope the writers of these little notes don’t mind that I’m sharing them. To be blunt, reading little sweet things or stories that people write for me …

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Some Thoughts on Inner Strength and Pro-Domme

I love my job. There’s such a thrill that comes along with meeting someone new and unknown for bdsm play. What role will he want to play? Will he like me? Will we get along? Will we connect well during play? It completes me like nothing else but it is a hardship at times. To be a dominatrix, a cam girl, an escort or any other kind of sex worker takes the strength to take on the deepest desires and darkest fantasies of a stranger and to make their wildest dreams come true without devaluing, compromising and destroying yourself. to …

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