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Ideas Worth Spreading

I am crazy about Ted Talks. I love the way they make me feel, I love the concept… I just love everything about them. I started watching them when I was in high school and I immediately dug the concept; A place where intelligent folks come together to share beautiful ideas with the world. Fuck. Yes. So I decided to create a list of my favorite Ted Talks, not in any particular order. These are all talks that I have found inspirational, educational, heart warming, surprising, funny or just a good reminder of things I should keep in mind.

The Power of Vulnerability by Brene Brown

Listening to Shame by Brene Brown

Looks Aren’t Everything. Believe Me, I’m a Model by Cameron Russell

The Art of Asking by Amanda Palmer

How to Stop Screwing Yourself by Mel Robbins

How to Speak So That People Want to Listen by Julian Treasure

5 Ways to Listen Better by Julian Treasure

The Price of Shame by Monica Lewinski

How to Spot a Liar by Pamela Meyer

Why Thinking You’re Ugly is Bad for You by Meaghan Ramsey

The World Needs All Kinds of Minds by Temple Grandin

Strange Answers to the Psychopath Test by Jon Ronson

The Voices in My Head by Eleanor Longden

My Stroke of Insight by Jill Bolte Taylor

Being Just Crazy Enough by Joshua Walters

Updates to the site (Plus Pictures!)

As some of you may have noticed, I have added a bunch of new photos to my website and social media! Thanks to the wonderful Chris Blakeley, I have a gorgeous, high drama photo set for you all to perv on.

I have also added and made changes to my duo partners list by adding photos, descriptions and new folks!

As far as my personal life I am currently dealing with tax season (which is more annoying and time consuming than anything but at the end of the day, supporting my fellow humans is important to me) and I have a new relationship with a lovely little lady from Canada who will hopefully be spending the summer with me to apprentice under me and make horrible videos.
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Let’s be fucking honest here, who doesn’t want to watch me hit that?
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Next Month is My Birthday!

Well, it has been a while, hasn’t it? Between travel, taxes, working and getting everything organized I have had little time to work on sites.

In light of my birthday this coming month (April) I have decided to offer a free 30 minute upgrade to anyone else whose birth month is April or who has seen me 3 or more times! 🙂

Also, I am debating throwing a play party. 🙂

In case you were interested in getting me something for my birthday, here is my wishlist.
Louboutin So Kate in Black, size 40
Erostek ETB312B
Winter Fetish PVC catsuit with bust cups in Black, size Medium tall
Clear PVC underbust corset with black boning and black eyelets, size large
We vibe 4 Plus in Pink or Purple 😉 Long distance girlfriend, ftw
Hitach Magic Wand, I want like 4 of them. Seriously.
Fun Factory Share XL, either color. Did I mention, girlfriend?
Or anything from my Amazon Wishlist/a gift card from one of my favorite stores!

New Website!!!

Hey everyone, Happy December!

Winter has arrived and with it, time to work on projects. Between organizing work to be done on my place and getting presents for everyone I’ve had the time to work on a new FBST/FBSM website for myself! There, I posted a new photo set that is not available here! Go check it out! http://elleambrose.com

Here’s a teaser!
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Praise: Outstanding BDSM

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

I’ve always been interested in the world of kink and wondered how I might fit into the BDSM equation. It’s not my main cup of tea, but I thought I’d like to do some exploring of sexual territory, and Ruby seemed like a perfect guide.

She has spent a lot of time making her space look like a vintage gentleman’s private club.

I was immediately taken with her looks and her poise. She is beautiful, sexy and powerful – and she was wearing a latex dress! Hot!

I wasn’t sure what to do or expect, so she led me over to a comfortable spot for lounging and we proceeded to chat and then make out passionately. She is a fantastic kisser and we engaged in some heavy fondling before she finally ushered me into her inner chamber.

The inner space was furnished with a massage table and a gasp inducing array of equipment and bondage gear. I was turned on and terrified. She clamped a thick leather collar around my neck when I wasn’t looking which only heightened my feelings of arousal. Restraints were applied quickly and efficiently which allowed me some movement but not freedom. I always thought being tied up would be frustrating to me, but it was exhilarating to have something to struggle and writhe against.

The rest of the time was spent with her working me into a state of frothy sexual excitement, with pauses and changes to let me ride the feeling. She talked and soothed sexily the entire time. Her voice a constant turn on as well as her words. I shared with her my darkest fantasies, and she purred and coaxed me to give her more. I was only happy to.

Thank you Ruby. You are one of a kind.

Praise: Need a Software Upgrade?

Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.

I’ve been mulling around how to write this review for awhile, and I hope it will do the session justice.

First the mechanics, set up was easy. I had the pleasure of doing a meet and greet a few weeks before the session, a nice dinner and drinks. I didn’t have time to see her that night, but I wish I had. When I was able to get my schedule aligned with hers we finally met up. Leading up to the meeting we texted back and forth which allowed us to get to know each other better and start building a real connection. That genuine connection carried through our session and time together.

Miss Ruby was extremely generous with her time and she was more than true to her FBSM menu. Our time together was far more than any set of menu items, or experiences. In many ways, I don’t have the words to describe the experience, but it transcended far beyond anything I’ve experienced in the hobby. Ruby has a gift with her hands, and in many ways, she can ‘see’ the dysfunction in your body. She has a true gift for body work, and she was able to make corrections to the way my joints and muscles functioned. My joints hurt significantly less than they did before.

Just as she is gifted with her hands, she is also gifted with her mind, sensuality, and empathy. She put me completely at ease (which any of the other ladies I’ve seen can tell you is no small feat). She tapped in to parts of my psyche that I didn’t understand even existed. She helped me see a side of me that I had buried and ignored. The work through our discussions, emotions, and feelings gave me a new perspective on myself.

If you’re looking for a connection, physically, emotionally, and mentally Miss Ruby is the woman for you. Respect her, and treat her right and she will leave you feeling undeniably better than when you met and you will want more.

Praise: Sensual Foot Fetish

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Ruby and I have chatted a little via emails over the last couple of weeks and I have to say that my growing interest in her was due in part to her sense of humor and just her overall take on life. Plus she is a sexy and intelligent woman who owns hundreds of high heel shoes, SOLD! She also has a pretty impressive website, it’s got lots of great pics (the pretzel pose is my fav!) and it also has various services to choose from. I opted for more of a fbst kind of session which was perfect because she’s a very sensual provocateur. She is also a dominatrix and some of her fantasy scenarios are not for the faint at heart! < –> sidebar: Will someone please do the slut training and let me how it goes!

At my request she let me know in advance that she was coming to Portland, so I scheduled days ahead in anticipation of finally meeting her. Boy was it worth it! If you’re a fan of sensual and mutual touch, with a little femdom thrown in, she will curl your effin toes! She made me squirm like no other and enjoyed every minute of it. Her eyes are piecing and her smile is wicked, but her propensity for giving pleasure, whether it be through domination or relaxation, is truly from the heart. For me personally, having someone as gorgeous as her whisper naughty things my in my ear, is one of life’s sweet treats.

..and her kisses, fuggetaboutit!

Praise: Brunch with Ruby

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I was really looking forward to this – Ruby and I had never met, but we had corresponded about shared kinky interests for some time, and this seemed to be a relaxing session format to finally meet in person.

Nerdy and I grabbed some goodies at the market on the way out the door from an overnight we’d just spent together, and headed over to Ruby’s dungeon space.

When we arrived, Ruby and Chayse were both already there, and looking quite lovely, especially at that early hour of the day (well, OK, it was noon, but that’s early for me, and I suspect many of the rest of the folks there…).

We plopped down on some comfie pillows, and had an actual brunch while we all chatted about kink, life, the universe, and whatnot. They mocked me a bit for drinking about a gallon of water and fruit juice, but I had a sneaking feeling that I’d want to be well hydrated… Ruby also while we all were chatting used her quite talented bodywork skills to rip out some tight muscles and adhesions she noticed I had, so I’d be all limber, in case we might play 🙂 By the end of brunch we had relaxed enough that Ruby gave me a tour of her dungeon, which is quite a nice setup, and has some very well thought-out features. It is a versatile and inviting space.

We all retired to one of the play rooms, and the games began.

The night before, Nerdy had come up with the idea of some sort of competition between Ruby and I to see which of us could make our play partner orgasm the most. Nerdy and I paired off against Ruby and Chayse, and the results were incredible. Everyone in that room, myself included, are quite multiorgasmic, and quite loud, and full of energy. Most of us were very empathic, feeding off of and giving back energy. It was stunning. I spent a good bit of time climaxing simply from feeling Chayse’s reactions to Ruby.

When the dust settled, Ruby and I had sort of worn out our partners, and Ruby looked a bit disappointed. She said “am I the only one with any energy left?” I sheepishly raised my hand, to indicate I was perhaps up for more. Her eyes glittered as she snapped on a glove and said “well then….assume the position”. And then she proceeded to do to me basically what she’d just done to Chayse, while I held onto Nerdy as my safety blanket. It is the rare person on first meeting that I will allow to engage in the festivities Ruby unleashed upon me, but having watched her with Chayse I felt perfectly safe and confident in her abilities.

After I could no longer move, we all sort of sat around gently massaging each other and chatting. I am pretty sure Ruby could have kept going another whole day though, she’s a force of nature.

Chayse and Ruby were both fun ladies to get to talk and play with, and I’d happily see them again anytime, for most any sort of scene from kink to vanilla. Great energy from them both, great skills, and very good observation and care of their playmates – everyone played safe.

And Nerdy was so much fun, and it was wonderful that she could set this brunch/kinkfest up on such short notice. When our brunchtime play was done, Nerdy and I returned to her abode, where, honest-to-Crom, we played some *more*, Nerdy having me gently help her try out some fun practices she was interested in. This lady has truly an endless appetite, and is so sex-positive and communicative that it is silly fun to hang out with her and experiment. Speaking of appetite, after all this, we then snuck out for dinner nearby, and then she sent me on my way. If I hadn’t had to be up at 5am the next morning, I think she would have kept me overnight, I don’t think she was remotely done with her “all the thingz” list 🙂

I am sure we will have other opportunities.

Folks, if you get a chance to play with any one of these ladies, take it. Two of them at once would be incredible fun. All three together, well, eat your Wheaties, but boldly leap at the opportunity.

Praise: Wow! Time with Mistress Ruby

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I can’t even begin to describe the time I spent with Ruby! She is an amazing young woman.

She welcomed me I’m and we had an amazing conversation getting to know a bit more about each other.

I was very nervous and ready to get right to the main event. But she quickly put me at ease and helped me see how the conversation and connecting would make the rest of our time that much better.

She is so nice. I guess as a Dom I expected her to be more harsh, perhaps even mean. But she was exactly what I didn’t know I needed

She was direct, demanding and yet gentle. And she took direct control.

After our conversation and me following her commands to disrobe we sat down and talked a bit more.

We had a lot more fun. And even more great conversation to wrap up the day!

I can’t say enough good things about Ruby. What a fantastic woman.

And I hope she will allow to see her again and we can see where things go