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Corset training can be an excellent part of any feminization routine or a wonderful set of sissy tasks. If you want to make your body more feminine, it’s a great way to do it without any big changes, so it’s a great option for a man, sissy or casual player to explore. They can range from cheap to very pricey depending on your needs, budget and how fancy you want to be. That being said, you can often get what you need for your closet without breaking the bank.
I’m going to answer some basic questions that you may have about how to fit a corset, this is part one about picking a corset. I’m briefly touching on several other topics I’m going to cover later such as body types, corset styles and fabrics. If you would like an individual consultation about sizing any type of clothing or shoes or selecting make up based on your skin, please feel free to contact me. Moving along..
How do I measure for a corset?
You need to measure your natural waist size in order to size a corset. You can measure your natural waist size one inch above your belly button.
Once measured, always choose a corset 2-4 inches smaller than your natural waist to achieve the ‘hourglass’ effect. The amount you “size down” is how tight the corset will close and depending on your shape and the shape of the corset you should size accordingly. Always read size guides.
Some fashion corsets may not come with traditional sizing, in which case I would refer to my previous sizing guide.
Where is my waist?
Your waist is the smallest part of your abdomen. Usually one inch above your belly button but it varies on some people. Take a fabric tape measure and pull it somewhat right around your waist, where does it gather to? (When measuring don’t cinch tightly, hold the tape loosely.) This also gives you information about your body shape. However, that is for a different post.
Can I use corsets designed for female bodies?
Yes! But they all fit differently. There is a simple over bust and under bust as far as length but there are also long line (for long torso which come in both under and over,) cinchers, waspies and corset belts. All in descending order of coverage.
You also want to pay attention to how much curve a corset has. Most “real” corsets have some kind of metal boning in them but fashion corsets which have the least support use plastic and are the most forgiving. A real corset will have corded laces or strings of some sort (like a shoe lace,) not generally ribbon or zippers as they will break easily with repeated lacing/zipping
Product: Cotton Tight lacing Corset from Mystic City Corsets
A tight lacing or hourglass corset is more on extreme end and is usually not for beginners but is incredible for creating a perfect curve. Tight lacing is the technique used to create a well defined hourglass figure.
Another thing to think about is the type of fabric used. Is it mesh, leather, satin, cotton, brocade? They all wear, sit, fit and stretch differently.
For example, a mesh corset will breath more which is better for wearing under clothes but it is less usable for tighter lacing (waist reduction) and will break down faster. Alternatively, you could wear it over your clothes for an alternative look.
A satin corset looks prettier on the outside (and would make a great sissy corset) but may get lots of runs in the fabric or stain easily depending on the color. Satin, cotton and brocade tend to be fairly default when it comes to corsets. PVC, leather and latex are more speciality fabrics.
Will wearing a corset change the shape of my body?
Over time repeated and consistent wear of a corset can change your shape but such pursuits should be undertaken with caution. If you only wear a corset occasionally, your body will return back to its original shape once you remove your corset. If you desire to change your waist size through corset training, it requires dedication
All around the world, women lament the chore of trying to divinate the size of their clothes.
When trying to figure out your size in women’s clothes as a Sissy, for feminization or crossdressing it gets a bit more complicated.
0 here, 12 there, 40 over there. It makes no sense. That’s just crossing countries. Try crossing brands. If I look into my jeans drawer I can find 26, 27, 28, 29, 2, 4, 6, xx small, small, medium and one size fits all. Who could possibly figure out how to order pants when you’re coming from a world of waist by length? I guess what I’m saying here is that no brand is standard in sizing when it comes to women’s clothing and the material and cut makes a huge difference in the fit. You never really know how something will fit until you have it on but usually size guides for sites will lend some help.
The trick comes in several parts.
Know your measurements
However you’re planning on dressing, you better take your bust, waist and hip. The bust is the biggest part of your chest, waist is the smallest, hip is the biggest part of your hips/butt.
For bonus points, measure your neck, around your thigh, your bicep, the width of your shoulders, the length of your arm and the length of your leg. Now you can get fitted for anything!
Read size charts
Seriously. If the site you’re ordering from doesn’t have one, try to google one for the brand. It will save you a lot of time.
The stretchier the fabric the more give it has and the more you can fudge measurements. So look at materials and Google that if you are unsure, same with reviews. Common stretchy fabric names are lycra, elastane and spandex.
Now you are all set to order some clothes! If you need some one on one consulting, feel free to contact me and I would be happy to help you.
Well then, little slut.. It seems that you survived my last task! I’ve decided to up the ante.
Do you think you can handle it? I bet you can. Luck for you, your Mistress is in the mood to show off her ass. That should give you a little clue as to what this task is about.
Are you too much of a dumb slut to guess? That’s fine. I’ll tell you.
It involves an outing – that’s the hint I’ll give you.
From your last task, you should have purchased a pair of panties.
You should be well-stocked and all slutted up for your outing.
Your outing is to go to a sex toy store. With a nice pair of slutty panties under your clothes.
A weekend night is preferable. That’s when all the whores come out, right?
You get bonus points if you show the clerk your slutty panties.
You have to buy 2 of 3 items: a butt plug, a dildo, or a ball gag, and send me pictures using 1 of the 2 items you bought.
Bonus points if you wear your underwear in the picture
This is all part of your training to become the perfect sissy slut for me.
Are you up for it, or are you a little wuss?
I bet you’re desperate to be the best little slut you can be for me.
You want to the perfect little whore and you want me to teach you.
Below is praise from a dear friend, enjoy.
After the event, we hung out for a few hours to catch our breath, with Ruby absent-mindedly tormenting me in-between courses of dinner and conversation in front of a dozen other folks. A nice appetizer as we recovered from the orgy…
We then scampered back to her quite expanded, superbly-appointed dungeon/play area and played until about 4:30am. She is a very gifted lady at sensing your energy and surfing your emotions and excitement – in my case she was able to keep me in a particularly fun state for hours. My memories are fuzzy of some of this period because I was so stoned on endorphins by the end of it, but it was all fun 🙂
We snoozed at some point, and woke up in the morning.
Before we’d really gotten up, Ruby proceeded to gently-but-firmly engage me in a somewhat edgy kink that had me gasping and passing out with pleasure over-and-over. It’s a kink I won’t practice with but a small number of people I deeply trust and who have the skill, knowledge, and strength to pull it off. When I was completely surrendered to it, she leaned over and whispered into my ear “So, tell me what you *really* want today….”. I could not resist the seduction, and confessed a few secret desires. She said “That can happen. Let me make a few phone calls…”
We took a brief pause while she sent a handful of emails/calls off, then we resumed play. Within a few minutes she had responses. “Seems like we’ll have some…guests…arriving to help shortly…”
While we were waiting, she subjected me to an incredibly effective, painful, and cruel massage to address some minor injuries I arrived on-scene with. I still have these sexy and memorably massive bruises from it, and the injured areas haven’t felt this good in years.
But then, the insane fun began 🙂
The first phase was the arrival of her collared personal submissive, a good boy named Blue, bringing us a quite lovely brunch. We set the brunch aside for a bit though, as Ruby led her boy into the Room of Torments, and bound him up in some superb rope (made by Tied And Tangled, I believe). She then indicated he was mine to toy with for a bit, along with her assistance. Well, Blue does everything instructed by his Mistress… no matter how perverted or deviant it is; his sluttiness seems to know no bounds. Or so I was told… So I explored that concept, using some of the simplest cruelest methods… Some of my favorite methods… I recall Ruby looking at me at one point and whispering in mock horror “Are you doing that to him….on purpose???” Moo. Hwa. Ha. Ha.
Some time later, after we’d reduced poor Blue to jello, we set him out as a dining table and had our brunch.
A knock at the door indicated another special guest had arrived, Xander, a Seattle-area kink player and UTR provider. We’ve corresponded off-and-on for years, and we were each surprised to finally meet the other in person, in these circumstances – Ruby hadn’t told either of us who we would be meeting. Thanks so much to Ruby for arranging this real treat!
Xander joined us at brunch for some conversation, then we all moved back into one of the play rooms. Poor Blue was set in a corner to watch and continue to recover, then Ruby said to me “I think I’ll have Xander co-top you with me, sound good?” “Let the games begin” I replied, with perhaps a bit too much enthusiasm and glee in my voice.
Anyways, Ruby’s initial plan barely survived contact with the enemy. About two minutes into the scene, Xander and I abandoned all inhibitions and directions and just went for it. Ruby was trying to distract us with hands and fists and implements in odd places, and kind words, and whatnot, but we were…focused. After a bit I think she just watched in awe, shock, or lust – I really couldn’t tell, I was busy. It was Achilles and Patroclus reborn. Real Clash of the Titans energy.
Xander is skilled, lustful, strong, good-natured, clever, and wicked. He could be my twin brother, if I looked that good 🙂 It was devilish fun to encounter him in the depths of Ruby’s depravity, and I’d play with him again in most any scene. Well done, sir.
I had incredible fun the whole time with Ruby. We had great conversations, great play, good food, fine company, and she tortured out of me some terrible desires and made them come true with seamless ease and grace.
If kinky play ranging from mild to extremely wild is your thing, you should give her a call. She has an uncanny ability to Make Things Happen if you communicate clearly about even your kinkiest desires, and has access to a wide array of resources. She delivers what she promises, and is easy to make arrangements with. To be completely clear, she isn’t a full-service provider (though some of her friends/associates are), so if you want that from her, go to an orgy first to get the idea out of your system 🙂
Thanks Ruby, and to your friends, for the good times!