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I Lost Track of Time in Her Dungeon

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Wise choice.

I arrived at her private incall a little late because I was mistaken about the exact area of town her incall was located. She was gracious and understanding, and she proceeded at a very relaxed and unrushed pace. We spent a brief moment getting to know one another before retiring to her chamber. When I have FBSM, I usually let the provider take the lead. I find that giving them too many directions about what I want results in the provider trying to modify her technique from what she is best at to meet what I think I want. I gave her minimal guidance, and she set to work.

She immediately identified some problem areas in my back and quickly traced it to the root of the problem, an old neck injury. I really needed a traditional therapeutic massage as my massage therapist recently relocated to a different state shortly before I aggravated this old injury. I have had several MTs, only a few of which were worth returning to, and only one who was capable of mobilizing my neck correctly. If I lived in Seattle, I would not be looking for a new therapist as Ruby was a match for the best of the therapists that I have seen previously and she worked me over perfectly.

While she was working, we had an enjoyable conversation about experiences inside and outside the hobby. I truly enjoyed chatting with her which is rare for me. I typically prefer quiet FBSM encounters.

I completely lost track of time, and partway through, it seemed like I had already been there for more than an hour. I told her to just take her time working out my muscular kinks and I understood that it might take more than an hour.

She eventually had me flip so that she could work over some of the spots in the front that were holding reflexive tension. She was masterful at releasing the tension from these spots and it was a truly delightful finish.

I roused, groggily, from an endorphin haze to somehow dress and get on my way. Damn if it hadn’t been exactly one hour. How she did that, I will never know. I could have sworn it was at least ninety minutes.

Can’t wait to make the trip back and I will definitely repeat when I can.

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Praise: Hypnotized by Ruby

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I saw that Miss Ruby was visiting from Seattle and jumped at the opportunity to see her. I have always been curious about Hypnosis, and in reading Miss Ruby’s writings, this is one of her specialties. So the day of we decided on a little role play to start things off (I was the flower delivery guy that she just had to rape)…she answered the door in a bathrobe, we had agreed that she would wear a sexy outfit underneath but to be honest, I can’t remember if she did or not… I was transfixed with her eyes. Even behind her glasses, Miss Ruby has beautiful beautiful eyes (which is a huge turn-on for me). Gentlemen, her pictures do not do her justice…she a gorgeous creature! I was led up to the bedroom…(after getting properly tied up) … I won’t go much into all of the details but I did want to say that I was skeptical about being hypnotized going into the session… I had never been hypnotized and really didn’t know what to expect. Even while I was being hypnotized I was skeptical…because it’s not like you fall asleep and then wake up later…I was still conscious through the whole thing. I thought I was in control but she would touch my arm and say “freeze” and my arm was frozen…she would count down from three and I would orgasm (I don’t think I have orgasmed more in a session… EVER!) and she didn’t touch me.. I have never experienced anything like it ever before! I thoroughly enjoyed my time with Miss Ruby and would see her again in a heartbeat. I hope she plans on visiting Portland again soon or else I will need to make the trip to go see her.

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Praise: Brunch with Ruby

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I was really looking forward to this – Ruby and I had never met, but we had corresponded about shared kinky interests for some time, and this seemed to be a relaxing session format to finally meet in person.

Nerdy and I grabbed some goodies at the market on the way out the door from an overnight we’d just spent together, and headed over to Ruby’s dungeon space.

When we arrived, Ruby and Chayse were both already there, and looking quite lovely, especially at that early hour of the day (well, OK, it was noon, but that’s early for me, and I suspect many of the rest of the folks there…).

We plopped down on some comfie pillows, and had an actual brunch while we all chatted about kink, life, the universe, and whatnot. They mocked me a bit for drinking about a gallon of water and fruit juice, but I had a sneaking feeling that I’d want to be well hydrated… Ruby also while we all were chatting used her quite talented bodywork skills to rip out some tight muscles and adhesions she noticed I had, so I’d be all limber, in case we might play 🙂 By the end of brunch we had relaxed enough that Ruby gave me a tour of her dungeon, which is quite a nice setup, and has some very well thought-out features. It is a versatile and inviting space.

We all retired to one of the play rooms, and the games began.

The night before, Nerdy had come up with the idea of some sort of competition between Ruby and I to see which of us could make our play partner orgasm the most. Nerdy and I paired off against Ruby and Chayse, and the results were incredible. Everyone in that room, myself included, are quite multiorgasmic, and quite loud, and full of energy. Most of us were very empathic, feeding off of and giving back energy. It was stunning. I spent a good bit of time climaxing simply from feeling Chayse’s reactions to Ruby.

When the dust settled, Ruby and I had sort of worn out our partners, and Ruby looked a bit disappointed. She said “am I the only one with any energy left?” I sheepishly raised my hand, to indicate I was perhaps up for more. Her eyes glittered as she snapped on a glove and said “well then….assume the position”. And then she proceeded to do to me basically what she’d just done to Chayse, while I held onto Nerdy as my safety blanket. It is the rare person on first meeting that I will allow to engage in the festivities Ruby unleashed upon me, but having watched her with Chayse I felt perfectly safe and confident in her abilities.

After I could no longer move, we all sort of sat around gently massaging each other and chatting. I am pretty sure Ruby could have kept going another whole day though, she’s a force of nature.

Chayse and Ruby were both fun ladies to get to talk and play with, and I’d happily see them again anytime, for most any sort of scene from kink to vanilla. Great energy from them both, great skills, and very good observation and care of their playmates – everyone played safe.

And Nerdy was so much fun, and it was wonderful that she could set this brunch/kinkfest up on such short notice. When our brunchtime play was done, Nerdy and I returned to her abode, where, honest-to-Crom, we played some *more*, Nerdy having me gently help her try out some fun practices she was interested in. This lady has truly an endless appetite, and is so sex-positive and communicative that it is silly fun to hang out with her and experiment. Speaking of appetite, after all this, we then snuck out for dinner nearby, and then she sent me on my way. If I hadn’t had to be up at 5am the next morning, I think she would have kept me overnight, I don’t think she was remotely done with her “all the thingz” list 🙂

I am sure we will have other opportunities.

Folks, if you get a chance to play with any one of these ladies, take it. Two of them at once would be incredible fun. All three together, well, eat your Wheaties, but boldly leap at the opportunity.

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Praise: Wow! Time with Mistress Ruby

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls offers BDSM sessions in her Seattle Dungeon

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I can’t even begin to describe the time I spent with Ruby! She is an amazing young woman.

She welcomed me I’m and we had an amazing conversation getting to know a bit more about each other.

I was very nervous and ready to get right to the main event. But she quickly put me at ease and helped me see how the conversation and connecting would make the rest of our time that much better.

She is so nice. I guess as a Dom I expected her to be more harsh, perhaps even mean. But she was exactly what I didn’t know I needed

She was direct, demanding and yet gentle. And she took direct control.

After our conversation and me following her commands to disrobe we sat down and talked a bit more.

We had a lot more fun. And even more great conversation to wrap up the day!

I can’t say enough good things about Ruby. What a fantastic woman.

And I hope she will allow to see her again and we can see where things go

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Praise: BDSM with a Twist

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This is my second review of Ruby. She is of such a high order I felt it inappropriate to keep this to myself.

I have seen Ms. Ruby on several occasions. There are no adequate words to describe her… exquisite might be close, but still is shy. She is a warm, kind, sensual being that is hardcore BDSM. Although I am not into BDSM I can tell you she has EVERYTHING. If I was into it she would be my choice hands down. Her dungeon is in Seattle in a safe and quiet neighborhood. It is very clean and well appointed. On every occasion she builds an amazing experience.

She is very versed in anatomy and physiology and it is obvious. She knows just what to do and the best way to do it.

Thank you, Ruby for so many phenomenal experiences. You will never be forgotten.

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Sexual Energy Exchange; Why I’m a Provider

Over the holidays last year I found myself feeling really weird and grumpy when I went for long periods without playing with anyone. After chatting with Victoria Rage she and I decided that play withdrawal is totally a thing that happens for both of us. I’m thinking that I likely feel bad after going a while without playing (in the hobby and out of it) because it is a source of positive energy for me and it gives me a positive outlet for any negative feelings I might be having. Since discovering this I’ve made a conscious effort to pour any negativity into my play and I’ve noticed that I’ve gotten significantly more happiness out of my play and I’ve felt an increase in my overall well being and ability to connect with people.

Almost without fail, I feel happier and more energized after I play with someone and there is some level of sexual connection. Before I found the hobby, I felt really unstable, prone to depression and honestly really frustrated with myself and others. It felt like I was missing something so I ended up having sex with a bunch of random people, doing porn and engaging in all sorts of self destructive sexually charged behavior that ultimately lead me to exploring the hobby. Initially, I thought of the hobby as something dark, disgusting, shameful and like the bottom of the barrel; Only desperate people with no self respect engage in such activities, right? Well, I was at the bottom of the barrel but to my surprise it ended up being the best thing I could have done for myself.

Being a provider completes me; It gives me an outlet for my frustrated energies and it takes the pressure off of everything else in my life because it’s a HUGE stress relief. I don’t understand it yet but it feels like I need to engage in intimate activities with a variety of people because I feed on that energy. When I was involved with a small number of people, I sucked them dry or I was really pissed off all the time because I wasn’t getting enough energy from them. I guess you could call me a sexual energy vampire.

Being a provider gives me a safe outlet to consume sexual energy (it helps that it’s expected) and to dump negative energy (which is usually all sexual frustration.) I get to set the exchange rate, control the environment, decide the play, set the rules and it provides for me. What could possibly be better?

Why do you hobby/provide?

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Praise: Kink at its Best

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Wearing a Black latex dress she’d worn in her pictures, with 4” stiletto heels she towered over my 5’11” frame. Gulp. After leaving a donation on the table by the door I was led to her playroom. Lots of things hanging from walls that I’d only seen in kinky porn flicks. And some pieces of furniture that made me think “really?” Double Gulp.

We sat and started talking. Miss Ruby put me immediately at ease with intelligent, warm, engaging conversation. She asked about what had brought me there and being a bit nervous I yammered on until she said “OK, get undressed.” Triple Gulp.

I’m not close to comfortable in describing the details of our experience but I will put it this way: Miss Ruby ROCKED my world! She had carefully listened and pushed EVERY limit I had brought up. There was constant bliss for what seemed to be hours.

After the allotted time which left me sweating with ecstasy, we collapsed on the floor for a while longer and chatted, rubbed shoulders to loosen up, and continued with a genuine intimate connection. That night I slept better than I have in ages and had a hugely enjoyable rest of my weekend. I’m lucky enough to have a birthday next weekend and Miss Ruby has already scheduled time for me. I feel like I won the lottery this time!

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Praise: BDSM & Humiliation

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Amazing! I have spent time with a few lifestyle dommes and a few of the pros. Ruby is the best. She does an amazing job of taking what you give her concerning your needs and making it something you didn’t expect that is much better. I immediately felt at ease when meeting her. As we got to know each other I never felt rushed or judged. The session was the most intense experience I can remember. She truly enjoys her time with people that she has a connection with. For the day and a half that have passed since my session I have felt content and excited. I look forward to the next meeting. I have been told that people say she looks better in person than in photos. This is true, but no photo could capture Ruby!

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Praise: Soft BDSM

Seattle Dominatrix Ruby Enraylls offers domination sessions

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I am sometimes given to hyperbole, but not for the following:

Ruby was AMAZING! Ruby is also a hardcore dominatrix I was told she would be exactly what I was looking for and she was. I usually don’t do this, and Ruby was a combination of both tender and the fetish I wanted. If fact many of our interests were otherwise very compatible. If you’re curious, check out her profile, as she is true to it.

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