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Seattle Dominatrix Ruby and the Odyssey of Depravity

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After the event, we hung out for a few hours to catch our breath, with Ruby absent-mindedly tormenting me in-between courses of dinner and conversation in front of a dozen other folks. A nice appetizer as we recovered from the orgy…

We then scampered back to her quite expanded, superbly-appointed dungeon/play area and played until about 4:30am. She is a very gifted lady at sensing your energy and surfing your emotions and excitement – in my case she was able to keep me in a particularly fun state for hours. My memories are fuzzy of some of this period because I was so stoned on endorphins by the end of it, but it was all fun πŸ™‚

We snoozed at some point, and woke up in the morning.

Before we’d really gotten up, Ruby proceeded to gently-but-firmly engage me in a somewhat edgy kink that had me gasping and passing out with pleasure over-and-over. It’s a kink I won’t practice with but a small number of people I deeply trust and who have the skill, knowledge, and strength to pull it off. When I was completely surrendered to it, she leaned over and whispered into my ear “So, tell me what you *really* want today….”. I could not resist the seduction, and confessed a few secret desires. She said “That can happen. Let me make a few phone calls…”

We took a brief pause while she sent a handful of emails/calls off, then we resumed play. Within a few minutes she had responses. “Seems like we’ll have some…guests…arriving to help shortly…”

While we were waiting, she subjected me to an incredibly effective, painful, and cruel massage to address some minor injuries I arrived on-scene with. I still have these sexy and memorably massive bruises from it, and the injured areas haven’t felt this good in years.

But then, the insane fun began πŸ™‚

The first phase was the arrival of her collared personal submissive, a good boy named Blue, bringing us a quite lovely brunch. We set the brunch aside for a bit though, as Ruby led her boy into the Room of Torments, and bound him up in some superb rope (made by Tied And Tangled, I believe). She then indicated he was mine to toy with for a bit, along with her assistance. Well, Blue does everything instructed by his Mistress… no matter how perverted or deviant it is; his sluttiness seems to know no bounds. Or so I was told… So I explored that concept, using some of the simplest cruelest methods… Some of my favorite methods… I recall Ruby looking at me at one point and whispering in mock horror “Are you doing that to him….on purpose???” Moo. Hwa. Ha. Ha.

Some time later, after we’d reduced poor Blue to jello, we set him out as a dining table and had our brunch.

A knock at the door indicated another special guest had arrived, Xander, a Seattle-area kink player and UTR provider. We’ve corresponded off-and-on for years, and we were each surprised to finally meet the other in person, in these circumstances – Ruby hadn’t told either of us who we would be meeting. Thanks so much to Ruby for arranging this real treat!

Xander joined us at brunch for some conversation, then we all moved back into one of the play rooms. Poor Blue was set in a corner to watch and continue to recover, then Ruby said to me “I think I’ll have Xander co-top you with me, sound good?” “Let the games begin” I replied, with perhaps a bit too much enthusiasm and glee in my voice.

Anyways, Ruby’s initial plan barely survived contact with the enemy. About two minutes into the scene, Xander and I abandoned all inhibitions and directions and just went for it. Ruby was trying to distract us with hands and fists and implements in odd places, and kind words, and whatnot, but we were…focused. After a bit I think she just watched in awe, shock, or lust – I really couldn’t tell, I was busy. It was Achilles and Patroclus reborn. Real Clash of the Titans energy.

Xander is skilled, lustful, strong, good-natured, clever, and wicked. He could be my twin brother, if I looked that good πŸ™‚ It was devilish fun to encounter him in the depths of Ruby’s depravity, and I’d play with him again in most any scene. Well done, sir.

I had incredible fun the whole time with Ruby. We had great conversations, great play, good food, fine company, and she tortured out of me some terrible desires and made them come true with seamless ease and grace.

If kinky play ranging from mild to extremely wild is your thing, you should give her a call. She has an uncanny ability to Make Things Happen if you communicate clearly about even your kinkiest desires, and has access to a wide array of resources. She delivers what she promises, and is easy to make arrangements with. To be completely clear, she isn’t a full-service provider (though some of her friends/associates are), so if you want that from her, go to an orgy first to get the idea out of your system πŸ™‚

Thanks Ruby, and to your friends, for the good times!

I am Grateful for Dominatrix Ruby

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Ruby’s world is one about which I’ve been curious but never ventured into. Until last week. Her posts with the wonderful photos of her told me that it was time.

Looking at pictures of Ruby with a leash or riding crop in her hand is exciting but doesn’t tell the story of what a very nice, very bright lady she is. I am very grateful that she allowed me a glimpse of her world as a dominatrix and gave me an experience I’ll long remember.

Praise: Ms Ruby & her girlfriend

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Our session was very relaxed. After we caught up and swapped horror stories Ruby gave me an excellent massage while we chatted and I got to know her girlfriend a but better. Once the true play began with Ms Ruby directing the fun, I got to get a peak into her dominant side more than I have in previous sessions. Ms Ruby knows im a bit on the shy side and has mostly kept our visiys strictly sensual, but seeing her get to be dominant with Ms our guest i got to see her true passion come out. side come out. I opted to watch and enjoy the show as I was exploring the dynamic between the two, but I’m sure if I’d wanted to get more deeply involved she would’ve welcomed it.

I hope I get back to see her again this summer, every visit with her is a treat that gets better every time.

I Lost Track of Time in Her Dungeon

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Wise choice.

I arrived at her private incall a little late because I was mistaken about the exact area of town her incall was located. She was gracious and understanding, and she proceeded at a very relaxed and unrushed pace. We spent a brief moment getting to know one another before retiring to her chamber. When I have FBSM, I usually let the provider take the lead. I find that giving them too many directions about what I want results in the provider trying to modify her technique from what she is best at to meet what I think I want. I gave her minimal guidance, and she set to work.

She immediately identified some problem areas in my back and quickly traced it to the root of the problem, an old neck injury. I really needed a traditional therapeutic massage as my massage therapist recently relocated to a different state shortly before I aggravated this old injury. I have had several MTs, only a few of which were worth returning to, and only one who was capable of mobilizing my neck correctly. If I lived in Seattle, I would not be looking for a new therapist as Ruby was a match for the best of the therapists that I have seen previously and she worked me over perfectly.

While she was working, we had an enjoyable conversation about experiences inside and outside the hobby. I truly enjoyed chatting with her which is rare for me. I typically prefer quiet FBSM encounters.

I completely lost track of time, and partway through, it seemed like I had already been there for more than an hour. I told her to just take her time working out my muscular kinks and I understood that it might take more than an hour.

She eventually had me flip so that she could work over some of the spots in the front that were holding reflexive tension. She was masterful at releasing the tension from these spots and it was a truly delightful finish.

I roused, groggily, from an endorphin haze to somehow dress and get on my way. Damn if it hadn’t been exactly one hour. How she did that, I will never know. I could have sworn it was at least ninety minutes.

Can’t wait to make the trip back and I will definitely repeat when I can.

Praise: Hypnotized by Ruby

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I saw that Miss Ruby was visiting from Seattle and jumped at the opportunity to see her. I have always been curious about Hypnosis, and in reading Miss Ruby’s writings, this is one of her specialties. So the day of we decided on a little role play to start things off (I was the flower delivery guy that she just had to rape)…she answered the door in a bathrobe, we had agreed that she would wear a sexy outfit underneath but to be honest, I can’t remember if she did or not… I was transfixed with her eyes. Even behind her glasses, Miss Ruby has beautiful beautiful eyes (which is a huge turn-on for me). Gentlemen, her pictures do not do her justice…she a gorgeous creature! I was led up to the bedroom…(after getting properly tied up) … I won’t go much into all of the details but I did want to say that I was skeptical about being hypnotized going into the session… I had never been hypnotized and really didn’t know what to expect. Even while I was being hypnotized I was skeptical…because it’s not like you fall asleep and then wake up later…I was still conscious through the whole thing. I thought I was in control but she would touch my arm and say “freeze” and my arm was frozen…she would count down from three and I would orgasm (I don’t think I have orgasmed more in a session… EVER!) and she didn’t touch me.. I have never experienced anything like it ever before! I thoroughly enjoyed my time with Miss Ruby and would see her again in a heartbeat. I hope she plans on visiting Portland again soon or else I will need to make the trip to go see her.

Praise: Brunch with Ruby

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I was really looking forward to this – Ruby and I had never met, but we had corresponded about shared kinky interests for some time, and this seemed to be a relaxing session format to finally meet in person.

Nerdy and I grabbed some goodies at the market on the way out the door from an overnight we’d just spent together, and headed over to Ruby’s dungeon space.

When we arrived, Ruby and Chayse were both already there, and looking quite lovely, especially at that early hour of the day (well, OK, it was noon, but that’s early for me, and I suspect many of the rest of the folks there…).

We plopped down on some comfie pillows, and had an actual brunch while we all chatted about kink, life, the universe, and whatnot. They mocked me a bit for drinking about a gallon of water and fruit juice, but I had a sneaking feeling that I’d want to be well hydrated… Ruby also while we all were chatting used her quite talented bodywork skills to rip out some tight muscles and adhesions she noticed I had, so I’d be all limber, in case we might play πŸ™‚ By the end of brunch we had relaxed enough that Ruby gave me a tour of her dungeon, which is quite a nice setup, and has some very well thought-out features. It is a versatile and inviting space.

We all retired to one of the play rooms, and the games began.

The night before, Nerdy had come up with the idea of some sort of competition between Ruby and I to see which of us could make our play partner orgasm the most. Nerdy and I paired off against Ruby and Chayse, and the results were incredible. Everyone in that room, myself included, are quite multiorgasmic, and quite loud, and full of energy. Most of us were very empathic, feeding off of and giving back energy. It was stunning. I spent a good bit of time climaxing simply from feeling Chayse’s reactions to Ruby.

When the dust settled, Ruby and I had sort of worn out our partners, and Ruby looked a bit disappointed. She said “am I the only one with any energy left?” I sheepishly raised my hand, to indicate I was perhaps up for more. Her eyes glittered as she snapped on a glove and said “well then….assume the position”. And then she proceeded to do to me basically what she’d just done to Chayse, while I held onto Nerdy as my safety blanket. It is the rare person on first meeting that I will allow to engage in the festivities Ruby unleashed upon me, but having watched her with Chayse I felt perfectly safe and confident in her abilities.

After I could no longer move, we all sort of sat around gently massaging each other and chatting. I am pretty sure Ruby could have kept going another whole day though, she’s a force of nature.

Chayse and Ruby were both fun ladies to get to talk and play with, and I’d happily see them again anytime, for most any sort of scene from kink to vanilla. Great energy from them both, great skills, and very good observation and care of their playmates – everyone played safe.

And Nerdy was so much fun, and it was wonderful that she could set this brunch/kinkfest up on such short notice. When our brunchtime play was done, Nerdy and I returned to her abode, where, honest-to-Crom, we played some *more*, Nerdy having me gently help her try out some fun practices she was interested in. This lady has truly an endless appetite, and is so sex-positive and communicative that it is silly fun to hang out with her and experiment. Speaking of appetite, after all this, we then snuck out for dinner nearby, and then she sent me on my way. If I hadn’t had to be up at 5am the next morning, I think she would have kept me overnight, I don’t think she was remotely done with her “all the thingz” list πŸ™‚

I am sure we will have other opportunities.

Folks, if you get a chance to play with any one of these ladies, take it. Two of them at once would be incredible fun. All three together, well, eat your Wheaties, but boldly leap at the opportunity.

Praise: BDSM with a Twist

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This is my second review of Ruby. She is of such a high order I felt it inappropriate to keep this to myself.

I have seen Ms. Ruby on several occasions. There are no adequate words to describe her… exquisite might be close, but still is shy. She is a warm, kind, sensual being that is hardcore BDSM. Although I am not into BDSM I can tell you she has EVERYTHING. If I was into it she would be my choice hands down. Her dungeon is in Seattle in a safe and quiet neighborhood. It is very clean and well appointed. On every occasion she builds an amazing experience.

She is very versed in anatomy and physiology and it is obvious. She knows just what to do and the best way to do it.

Thank you, Ruby for so many phenomenal experiences. You will never be forgotten.

Sexual Energy Exchange; Why I’m a Provider

Over the holidays last year I found myself feeling really weird and grumpy when I went for long periods without playing with anyone. After chatting with Victoria Rage she and I decided that play withdrawal is totally a thing that happens for both of us. I’m thinking that I likely feel bad after going a while without playing (in the hobby and out of it) because it is a source of positive energy for me and it gives me a positive outlet for any negative feelings I might be having. Since discovering this I’ve made a conscious effort to pour any negativity into my play and I’ve noticed that I’ve gotten significantly more happiness out of my play and I’ve felt an increase in my overall well being and ability to connect with people.

Almost without fail, I feel happier and more energized after I play with someone and there is some level of sexual connection. Before I found the hobby, I felt really unstable, prone to depression and honestly really frustrated with myself and others. It felt like I was missing something so I ended up having sex with a bunch of random people, doing porn and engaging in all sorts of self destructive sexually charged behavior that ultimately lead me to exploring the hobby. Initially, I thought of the hobby as something dark, disgusting, shameful and like the bottom of the barrel; Only desperate people with no self respect engage in such activities, right? Well, I was at the bottom of the barrel but to my surprise it ended up being the best thing I could have done for myself.

Being a provider completes me; It gives me an outlet for my frustrated energies and it takes the pressure off of everything else in my life because it’s a HUGE stress relief. I don’t understand it yet but it feels like I need to engage in intimate activities with a variety of people because I feed on that energy. When I was involved with a small number of people, I sucked them dry or I was really pissed off all the time because I wasn’t getting enough energy from them. I guess you could call me a sexual energy vampire.

Being a provider gives me a safe outlet to consume sexual energy (it helps that it’s expected) and to dump negative energy (which is usually all sexual frustration.) I get to set the exchange rate, control the environment, decide the play, set the rules and it provides for me. What could possibly be better?

Why do you hobby/provide?

Praise: Kink at its Best

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Wearing a Black latex dress she’d worn in her pictures, with 4” stiletto heels she towered over my 5’11” frame. Gulp. After leaving a donation on the table by the door I was led to her playroom. Lots of things hanging from walls that I’d only seen in kinky porn flicks. And some pieces of furniture that made me think β€œreally?” Double Gulp.

We sat and started talking. Miss Ruby put me immediately at ease with intelligent, warm, engaging conversation. She asked about what had brought me there and being a bit nervous I yammered on until she said β€œOK, get undressed.” Triple Gulp.

I’m not close to comfortable in describing the details of our experience but I will put it this way: Miss Ruby ROCKED my world! She had carefully listened and pushed EVERY limit I had brought up. There was constant bliss for what seemed to be hours.

After the allotted time which left me sweating with ecstasy, we collapsed on the floor for a while longer and chatted, rubbed shoulders to loosen up, and continued with a genuine intimate connection. That night I slept better than I have in ages and had a hugely enjoyable rest of my weekend. I’m lucky enough to have a birthday next weekend and Miss Ruby has already scheduled time for me. I feel like I won the lottery this time!

Praise: FBSM and Bondage

indulge in seattle bdsm in exquisite Seattle dungeon with femdom mistress ruby enraylls

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This review is for a mixed FBSM with take down, tie and tease type session.

We planned our initial meeting in public at a local coffee shop. Miss Ruby has a very discreet and well-kept incall in a quiet Seattle neighborhood north of downtown that was easy to find and convenient to get to; parking is free and plentiful.

Communication was prompt and professional. (e-mail and text message) We discussed my prior kink experiences and preferences beforehand, but our session was very intuitive and personal.

Her dungeon space is well-equipped, cozy and tastefully decorated: reptile head, devil rubber duckies, original erotic art, and of course her collection of wicked toys. We used her massage table this time, but she has an abundance of other furniture options at her disposal, including a medical exam chair complete with stirrups! I was impressed by her level of cleanliness which is paramount in kinky play, especially when dealing with particularly filthy fetishes.

I was nervous. She changed that quickly. At her incall she greeted me in adorable lingerie and encouraged me to hop up on the table as soon as I liked. Yes, she’s the hottie in her pictures. We chatted for a while before getting into things to get a feel for each other, and I can wholeheartedly say that she is easily one of the most warm and genuine individuals I’ve ever met, within the hobby world or outside of it.

What really blew my mind about this encounter was how quickly she was able to change gears from casual, flirty conversation during clinical-level therapeutic massage to having me pinned and bound (with expertly tied rope, I might add) to the table, completely at her mercy. She used a variety of tools and toys to torment my body, some I’d seen before and others I hadn’t. A shocking display of her impressive flexibility made for an amazing sight and dirty thoughts from my vantage point on the table. She playfully teased me about how much she enjoyed the noises she coaxed out of me while I writhed in my bonds and laughed at my vain efforts to escape over-stimulation.

Some other things happened too that left me sweaty and disoriented that I’m going to keep between the two of us. (All safe, sane and consensual.) As I more or less came to she described me as looking like someone who had just had their world rocked. Appropriate observation.

And now, a treat to fap to or fantasize about. (Or both)

I can with complete sincerity say that Miss Ruby was exactly whom I’d hoped to meet as so much more. Her knowledge, beauty and expertise are surpassed by her authenticity on the best way possible. Hands-down my ATF for kinky endeavors. Also, grammar arousal via punctuation discussion. Yum.